# What is ASSUMED about your fandom?

**URL:** https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-assumed-about-your-fandom/443669
**Category:** Cafe Society
**Created:** [April 2, 2008, 1:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-assumed-about-your-fandom/443669 "2008-04-02T13:39:10Z")
**Posts on this page:** 20
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### Author: ![Justin\_Bailey](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/justin_bailey/32/8792_2.png) [@Justin\_Bailey](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Justin_Bailey)
#### Post date: [April 2, 2008, 1:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-assumed-about-your-fandom/443669/1 "2008-04-02T13:39:10Z")

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For example…

All women between the ages of 25 and 35 who live in upstate New York will list Ani DiFranco as one of their favorite musical artists.

Everyone who was born in the 80s will have a favorite Ninja Turtle.

For everyone under the age of 10 when The Transformers: The Movie was released in 1986, the question will not be “_Did you_ cry when Optimus Prime died?” but “_How much_ did you cry when Optimus Prime died?”

So what can we assume about your fandom?

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### Author: ![Silver\_Tyger](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/fbc32d/32.png) [@Silver\_Tyger](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Silver_Tyger)
#### Post date: [April 2, 2008, 4:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-assumed-about-your-fandom/443669/2 "2008-04-02T16:27:02Z")

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That all Thundercats fans are furries

That all furries are perverts (it’s not about sex, dammit! It’s about liking a certain genre that just happens to _also_ attract a bunch of really screwed up people)

That all anime fans are super-geeks who never leave the house and wish they were Japanese.

That everyone who likes to wear kimono is a) Japanese (nope), and b) a stick (I am, but I’ve seen a lot of curvaceous women who look awesome in kimono)

And… I can’t think of one for Batman or Quantum Leap.

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### Author: ![BaneSidhe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/c5a1d2/32.png) [@BaneSidhe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BaneSidhe)
#### Post date: [April 2, 2008, 4:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-assumed-about-your-fandom/443669/3 "2008-04-02T16:30:15Z")

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That every single female Def Leppard fan is a raving, slavering lunatic who has no life, weighs 600 lbs, lives in a house full of cats and is convinced one of the band members is going to divorce his wife and marry her.

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### Author: ![OneCentStamp](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/13edae/32.png) [@OneCentStamp](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/OneCentStamp)
#### Post date: [April 2, 2008, 5:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-assumed-about-your-fandom/443669/4 "2008-04-02T17:38:12Z")

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As a **mixed martial arts** fan, it’s assumed I’m an out-of-shape internet tough guy who in real life couldn’t fight his way out of a wet paper bag, but acts as if he invented jiu-jitsu.

As a **heavy metal** fan, it’s assumed I’m a misogynistic, homophobic meathead who’s incapable of appreciating subtlety or intelligence in music.

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### Author: ![Defensive\_Indifference](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/defensive_indifference/32/6502_2.png) [@Defensive\_Indifference](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Defensive_Indifference)
#### Post date: [April 2, 2008, 5:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-assumed-about-your-fandom/443669/5 "2008-04-02T17:43:35Z")

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As a fan and owner of a Chevy Corvair, it is often assumed that I blame Ralph Nader for its demise and think it really was an excellent car. (Nope and nope.)

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### Author: ![RealityChuck](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/realitychuck/32/195_2.png) [@RealityChuck](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RealityChuck)
#### Post date: [April 2, 2008, 5:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-assumed-about-your-fandom/443669/6 "2008-04-02T17:56:14Z")

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Science fiction fans wear Star Trek costumes to their conventions.

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### Author: ![Sitnam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/6a8cbe/32.png) [@Sitnam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sitnam)
#### Post date: [April 2, 2008, 9:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-assumed-about-your-fandom/443669/7 "2008-04-02T21:02:47Z")

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I love Firefly, it’s assumed wrongly that I like Buffy: the Vampire Slayer also.

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### Author: ![OneCentStamp](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/13edae/32.png) [@OneCentStamp](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/OneCentStamp)
#### Post date: [April 2, 2008, 9:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-assumed-about-your-fandom/443669/8 "2008-04-02T21:05:34Z")

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[QUOTE=Sitnam]  
I love Firefly, it’s assumed wrongly that I like Buffy: the Vampire Slayer also.  
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…which then leads to a SLEW of corollary assumptions. 😛

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### Author: ![villa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/bc79bd/32.png) [@villa](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/villa)
#### Post date: [April 2, 2008, 9:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-assumed-about-your-fandom/443669/9 "2008-04-02T21:19:02Z")

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As a hat 'n boot wearing country fan, it is regularly assumed I am a right-wing, homophobic, racist, flag waving nutjob.

In fact, an African American friend in a bar won a drink (and a phone number) off a girl who (not knowing he worked with me) pointed to me at the other end of the bar and ascribed said beliefs to me. He bet her that he could walk up to me and get a hug in the middle of the bar. Silly girl took the bet.

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### Author: ![Siege](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/dbc845/32.png) [@Siege](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Siege)
#### Post date: [April 2, 2008, 10:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-assumed-about-your-fandom/443669/10 "2008-04-02T22:04:42Z")

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This is more a false assumption about what I’m a fan of. You see, I speak fluent Japanese (or at least I used to) and I like science fiction. This does _not_ mean I like anime or Pokemon. Yes, I can translate them. No, I don’t want to, unless you pay me money. No, I really don’t like anime, nor have I ever, even when I was living in Japan. Now leave me alone with my Arthur C. Clarke.

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### Author: ![Bryan\_Ekers](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bryan_ekers/32/183_2.png) [@Bryan\_Ekers](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bryan_Ekers)
#### Post date: [April 2, 2008, 10:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-assumed-about-your-fandom/443669/11 "2008-04-02T22:09:59Z")

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[QUOTE=RealityChuck]  
Science fiction fans wear Star Trek costumes to their conventions.  
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Well, to be fair… I did. Won an award, too.

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### Author: ![The\_Them](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/898d66/32.png) [@The\_Them](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Them)
#### Post date: [April 3, 2008, 1:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-assumed-about-your-fandom/443669/12 "2008-04-03T01:10:08Z")

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My love of the comic book/strip medium automatically means that I care, or have ever even _heard_ of, your favorite superhero/villain/other.

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### Author: ![What\_Exit](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/what_exit/32/10652_2.png) [@What\_Exit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/What_Exit)
#### Post date: [April 3, 2008, 1:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-assumed-about-your-fandom/443669/13 "2008-04-03T01:22:06Z")

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Yankee Fans:

It is often assumed we are heartless & souless or that we just jumped on the bandwagon.

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### Author: ![ignis\_glaciesque](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/5f8ce5/32.png) [@ignis\_glaciesque](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ignis_glaciesque)
#### Post date: [April 3, 2008, 2:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-assumed-about-your-fandom/443669/14 "2008-04-03T02:13:05Z")

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I’m another one of them there fans of _Firefly_ who don’t particularly like _Buffy_.

Also, people give me funny looks because I’m a non-sensitive non-New Age guy who likes Tori Amos. What can I say? She writes compelling stuff.

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### Author: ![Kythereia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/e8c25b/32.png) [@Kythereia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kythereia)
#### Post date: [April 3, 2008, 2:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-assumed-about-your-fandom/443669/15 "2008-04-03T02:23:24Z")

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As a fan of the LOTR movies, I apparently have no life (the fact that I have no life is _completely_ incidental) and also haven’t read the books at all.

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### Author: ![Justin\_Bailey](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/justin_bailey/32/8792_2.png) [@Justin\_Bailey](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Justin_Bailey)
#### Post date: [April 3, 2008, 5:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-assumed-about-your-fandom/443669/16 "2008-04-03T05:40:29Z")

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[QUOTE=What Exit?]  
Yankee Fans:

It is often assumed we are heartless & souless or that we just jumped on the bandwagon.  
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Assumptions… FACTS… it’s all the same. 😉

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### Author: ![Revenant\_Threshold](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/f1d935/32.png) [@Revenant\_Threshold](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Revenant_Threshold)
#### Post date: [April 3, 2008, 5:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-assumed-about-your-fandom/443669/17 "2008-04-03T05:47:58Z")

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As a Star Wars fan, I must hate Trek fans. And vice versa. Which would mean I would have to hate myself twice, when in reality it’s barely once! 😉

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### Author: ![FriarTed](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/friarted/32/1052_2.png) [@FriarTed](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FriarTed)
#### Post date: [April 3, 2008, 6:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-assumed-about-your-fandom/443669/18 "2008-04-03T06:13:01Z")

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Well, if it’s an aspect of my musical fandom (Tori A, Kate B, Sarah MacL, Enya, etc.)- it’s that I’m a New Age/neo-Pagan politically leftist Bi-Les girl.

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### Author: ![DarRRva](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/53a042/32.png) [@DarRRva](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DarRRva)
#### Post date: [April 3, 2008, 8:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-assumed-about-your-fandom/443669/19 "2008-04-03T08:49:03Z")

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I don’t know if this counts, but…

I’m a fan of sleeping with both sexes. It is mostly assumed that I’m a gay boy who can’t admit it. And if they do, it’s usually assumed I’m a slut. (Which I’m not, btw)

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### Author: ![MrDibble](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/mrdibble/32/114_2.png) [@MrDibble](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MrDibble)
#### Post date: [April 3, 2008, 10:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-assumed-about-your-fandom/443669/20 "2008-04-03T10:49:25Z")

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As a SCAdian - that we all want to be Vikings or secretly want to decorate our homes like castles complete with no electricity and rushes on the floor. No thanks, I like playing dressup once a month, and that’s about it.  
As a Goth/postpunk fan - we’re all skinny white folk who wear black and mope. Dude, you have no idea how silly I look with eyeliner, never mind greasepaint.

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