Why does everyone think this needs to be some metaphor for hell or homosexuality. Seger never wrote anything so complicated, and that’s the beauty of his songs. They are straightforward and honest.
from songfacts.com - For years, Seger never publicly commented on the actual place this song was written about. There were theories that it is symbolic of the biblical Lake of Fire, and it was noted there is an actual Fire Lake in Iron County, Michigan (the state where Seger grew up), as well.
Seger eventually stated that it is about a lake in Michigan called Silver Lake. He told Toledo Free Press in March 2011: “It was written about Silver Lake in Dexter, about being in the Pinckney-Hell-Dexter area.”
There’s a Fire Lake a few miles outside Anchorage, Alaska too. Not that I think he was singing about that one, but it’s what I always think of when I hear the song. It has a float plane airport on the far side, and the near side’s where the teenagers back in the day (1970s) used to go to swim, drink beers, and party on the beach…
Fire Lake is basically a version of the afterlife that those of us who are pretty thoroughly certain we wont make the cut to get into heaven are on some level wistfully hopeful exists . Like, its hell, but its not actually all suffering and misery like the “man” has always threatened, but rather a place where the various outlaws and free spirits amongst us can all meet up in the afterlife and carry on throwing down. Afraid to cut the cake is a euphemism for being reluctant to grow up or move on into the next phase of life. Uncle Joe just never did manage to outgrow the wild, rebel hearted spirit of his youth.
I always thought it was about my Uncle Joe and Aunt Sarah. They lived over 1,000 miles away and basically i only saw them on Thanksgiving. We always had pumpkin pie, so there was no need to cut a cake.