# What is the deal with some of you people?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-deal-with-some-of-you-people/45522>\
**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [December 14, 2000, 12:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-deal-with-some-of-you-people/45522 "2000-12-14T12:56:05Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 5\
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**Author:** ![Mockingbird](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c68b51/32.png) [@Mockingbird](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mockingbird)\
**Post date:** [December 16, 2000, 1:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-deal-with-some-of-you-people/45522/61 "2000-12-16T13:15:27Z")

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> \*Originally posted by techchick68 \*  
> \*\*Sunk to the lowest of lows Mr. Hastur…you really are a vile peice of shit.
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> I am done, ask Tubadiva I already emailed her…I am done with you folk.

Promises, promises, promises. You’ll go away for a few days, then one of your sympathizers will get you to come back in a teary return. What **ever**.

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> So many of you have no sense of decency, you drew the line “Hastur” You drew it, you gave me more reason than ever to leave this fucking place…you single handedly cemented that I will not come back…bullshit like this was exactly what I was talking about.

Were that true, I would consider myself to have eradicated some ignorance and thus have fulfilled the purpose of this board. You started a thread in the pit and because you did not get the outpouring of love and validation that you wanted you are now trying to take your ball and leave. I doubt seriously that I am the last straw, just the first bracing slap of reality.

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> God, some of you people need to get your heads out of your asses and know that my thread was never meant to hurt nor harm anyone.
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> God, FUCK you all. \*\*

PS: Got your personal e-mail slam. I’m not impressed. Since I’m gay, I don’t desire my mother or have sex with her. Have a very nice day and don’t let the door hit you in the ass.

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**Author:** ![Coldfire](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/a587f6/32.png) [@Coldfire](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Coldfire)\
**Post date:** [December 16, 2000, 1:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-deal-with-some-of-you-people/45522/62 "2000-12-16T13:18:23Z")

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Techie, this is precisely what I mean. Hastur has an opinion, and expresses it. Sure, his choice of words is, well, colourful to say the least. But this is the Pit - he didn’t cross the line, IMHO.

Just accept the fact that people, at this stage, will dislike you no matter what - because of all that happened in the past and up untill now. That’s NOT gonna change.

If you really ARE leaving now, I would advise you to stick to it this time. Every time you leave and come back again, you’re losing credibility. And you’re gaining some enemies that will most likely flame you HARD on your next Pit Endeavour. That’s how it always goes, Liz.

Mind you, I don’t **want** you to leave, per se. I want you to shape up, get your life together, and become a more satisfied human being - and hence, poster. I’m pretty sure that’s what you want as well.

The problem is: **the SDMB isn’t going to do that for you**.  
You need to look at yourself, and perhaps with some outside (professional) help, you’ll be fine. You’re not a bad person. You’re merely a disappointed person right now.

And for Gods sake, if I may be so bold: don’t drink so much. You’re destroying yourself.

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**Author:** ![techchick68](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ea5d25/32.png) [@techchick68](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/techchick68)\
**Post date:** [December 16, 2000, 1:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-deal-with-some-of-you-people/45522/63 "2000-12-16T13:19:43Z")

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You know the funny thing?

Come a month or two none of you will give a rats ass or will even question where I am…the nature of message boards I 'spose…

Enjoy your lives, I hope most of you have a good life, I hope most of you get everything you want in life.

This is seriously, my last post here.

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**Author:** ![kellibelli](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/e480ec/32.png) [@kellibelli](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kellibelli)\
**Post date:** [December 16, 2000, 2:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-deal-with-some-of-you-people/45522/64 "2000-12-16T14:18:42Z")

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Suuuuuuuure it is.

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**Author:** ![Hamadryad](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/6de8d8/32.png) [@Hamadryad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hamadryad)\
**Post date:** [December 16, 2000, 2:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-deal-with-some-of-you-people/45522/65 "2000-12-16T14:37:17Z")

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Hey, at least I’m not the one who drove her away this time.

Had people asking me if I was going to. “Not intentionally.”

Had people telling me the how fab it would be if I DID. “I’m not trying to.”

Had people speculating to me on how long it would be before she “left the boards forever, again.”

Shrug.

Bet people will STILL think I “drove her from the board.”

Bet it’s not my whole life, bet I’ll know the truth, so…bet I won’t give a rat’s ass.

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