I take exception to your comments. I think they reflect one of the major problems with organized religion in general and with christinaity in specific. You seem like, overall, a decent person, a nice person.
But you want to separate yourself from people who do not think/believe as you do. That is not completely wrong. In fact, to separate oneself from flawed thinking is probably a good thing. The problem is their is no empirical justification of your beliefs. No proof, either in physical form, or, in logical cohesiveness and logical coherence. I, as an outside observer, can find fault with any christian definition of mercy, justice, fairness, etc. All of your definitions of these terms, I presume, are predicated upon the belief that your god is correct and you will adjust all of these terms to reflect that.
So, there is no physical proof nor any intellectual proof that your claims are correct. And yet, by your own admission, you wouldn’t share your life in the same way with someone who disagrees with your (unfounded and illogical) beliefs.
This does not seem, to me, to be a logical or intelligent position to take.
It only separates your POV from the real world. As long as christians are the dominant POV in a society I guess this separation has little reason to cause you to change or to amend your views. Probably even if you moved to a Muslim country where that POV is dominant your views would not change. But in either situation your POV is illogical and a barrier to clear and unbiased examination of ideas.
I am kind of tired of living in a society where the dominant POV in terms of god has such a shielding from any critical analysis. Doubly so where I am supposed to calmly and patiently “debate” with a POV that is so resistant to any truly critical, hard hitting criticism.
I detect no malice or ill intent on your part. And in a way that too is frustrating. If I am debating with someone who has an inflexible, unfounded POV I almost rather have them they take a bad attitude. Because ultimately this is a battle of ideas. Only one side is correct. Saying, well, it is all just opinion really only delays us from getting to the final answer.
EDIT: If my comments are too strong for IMHO I apologize. Let me say again I see no evidence of malice or ill will in your comments at all. I think you seem like a decent person. If my comments are too strong for this section of SDMB, I apologize.