# What is the most bizarre fetish you've known someone to have? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [April 25, 2004, 2:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-fetish-youve-known-someone-to-have/241866 "2004-04-25T02:05:08Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Poetgrrl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/4af34b/32.png) [@Poetgrrl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Poetgrrl)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2004, 2:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-fetish-youve-known-someone-to-have/241866/1 "2004-04-25T02:05:08Z")
After reading the responses from the ‘eyeball licking’ thread, it got me thinking that there are a lot of unsual sex practices that turn people on. There are a lot of people out there, so I’m sure there’s gotta be people who do or know someone who does very bizarre stuff in the bedroom. ---
**Author:** ![Mr.Blue\_Sky](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/d26b3c/32.png) [@Mr.Blue\_Sky](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mr.Blue_Sky)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2004, 2:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-fetish-youve-known-someone-to-have/241866/2 "2004-04-25T02:09:57Z")
The brother of a high school friend liked to kiss his wife’s armpits. ---
**Author:** ![Qadgop\_the\_Mercotan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/qadgop_the_mercotan/32/83_2.png) [@Qadgop\_the\_Mercotan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Qadgop_the_Mercotan)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2004, 2:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-fetish-youve-known-someone-to-have/241866/3 "2004-04-25T02:25:02Z")
Back in med school I learned of one individual who could not orgasm unless he shoved his partner’s head violently thru a pane of glass. ---
**Author:** ![elfbabe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/b782af/32.png) [@elfbabe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/elfbabe)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2004, 2:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-fetish-youve-known-someone-to-have/241866/4 "2004-04-25T02:44:49Z")
A (female) sexual partner of an acquaintance of my boyfriend liked to be penetrated by knives. Yes, the pointy part. I’m aware of the existence of masochism, but ow. ---
**Author:** ![pervert](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/bbe5ce/32.png) [@pervert](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pervert)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2004, 2:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-fetish-youve-known-someone-to-have/241866/5 "2004-04-25T02:52:31Z")
Shall I tell you about the boy who was discovered having intercourse with his friend’s dog? Just in case your wondering, he was not penetrating, but being penetrated. ☹ ---
**Author:** ![js\_africanus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/87869e/32.png) [@js\_africanus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/js_africanus)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2004, 6:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-fetish-youve-known-someone-to-have/241866/6 "2004-04-25T06:17:12Z")
Allegedly, there was a guy I knew who, upon entering a strip club, would pay one of the strippers to pee in a glass and then he’d drink it. Never saw any verification of that proclivity. ---
**Author:** ![Harmonix](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/3ec8ea/32.png) [@Harmonix](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Harmonix)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2004, 10:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-fetish-youve-known-someone-to-have/241866/7 "2004-04-25T10:04:01Z")
bukkake ---
**Author:** ![Chimpy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/a9adbd/32.png) [@Chimpy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chimpy)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2004, 11:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-fetish-youve-known-someone-to-have/241866/8 "2004-04-25T11:36:22Z")
well scat is pretty damn odd. ---
**Author:** ![WILLASS](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/54ee81/32.png) [@WILLASS](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WILLASS)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2004, 12:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-fetish-youve-known-someone-to-have/241866/9 "2004-04-25T12:02:33Z")
My ex-girlfriend had rape fantasies that involved asking me to grab her when she came home from work and without saying anything to her brutally shag her and slap her about whilst degrading her verbally. She also liked being chained up and being penetrated by me and a dildo at the same time. It was a little bit too much for me (the rape bit anyway) and we parted company. ---
**Author:** ![KidCharlemagne](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/ed8c4c/32.png) [@KidCharlemagne](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/KidCharlemagne)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2004, 1:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-fetish-youve-known-someone-to-have/241866/10 "2004-04-25T13:09:10Z")
There are fetishes which are just nasty and some that are just bizarre. With the former, I could at least understand how the fetish originated, with the latter it’s tougher to tell. I can certainly understand where the desire to become infected with AIDS became a fetish, and can even understand how caprophilia became a fetish. The desire to have sex with amputees is a little tougher to place, although it probably has something to do with castration. Typically, the most bizarre fetishes are those that are specific to just one individual, one that originated within the psychodynamics of their specific family. I read of one case where a man could only achieve orgasm by masturbating in a washtub while wearing a dirty apron. He imprinted the image of his mother washing him in the bathtub upon the arousal he felt when his mother washed his wedding tackle. ---
**Author:** ![WILLASS](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/54ee81/32.png) [@WILLASS](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WILLASS)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2004, 1:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-fetish-youve-known-someone-to-have/241866/11 "2004-04-25T13:16:56Z")
> [@KidCharlemagne](#): > > I can certainly understand where the desire to become infected with AIDS became a fetish. Hmmmm, call me weird but I can’t… I actually heard that this was an urban legend but to be honest nothing would surprise me. ---
**Author:** ![RandomLetters](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/8edcca/32.png) [@RandomLetters](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RandomLetters)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2004, 1:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-fetish-youve-known-someone-to-have/241866/12 "2004-04-25T13:49:20Z")
Combining sex with danger seems to be a fairly common fetish, with various forms. The “become infected with AIDS” fetish is just a subset of that. ---
**Author:** ![AskNott](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/asknott/32/5790_2.png) [@AskNott](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AskNott)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2004, 2:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-fetish-youve-known-someone-to-have/241866/13 "2004-04-25T14:00:42Z")
A fellow I went to school with became infamously known as “Saran Wrap.” He offered to pay a barmaid $50 to crap on his plastic-wrapped face while he masturbated. Two different women told me he made them the same offer. I never heard anybody say he actually got this accomplished, though. ---
**Author:** ![KidCharlemagne](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/ed8c4c/32.png) [@KidCharlemagne](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/KidCharlemagne)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2004, 3:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-fetish-youve-known-someone-to-have/241866/14 "2004-04-25T15:08:58Z")
> [@WILLASS](#): > > Hmmmm, call me weird but I can’t… > > I actually heard that this was an urban legend but to be honest nothing would surprise me. It’s definitely not an urban legend. They’re called “bug-chasers” and there are entire communities dedicated to the cause, complete with an entire vernacular. Definitely not work (and possibly even home) friendly: [http://www.bareback.com/welcome.asp](http://www.bareback.com/welcome.asp) The reason I could see this becoming a fetish is the potential for a combination of a reaction formation to the fear of becoming infected and the submissive desire to become “impregnated” (Being given something by something and assimilating a part of them). ---
**Author:** ![Cubsfan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f4b2a3/32.png) [@Cubsfan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cubsfan)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2004, 3:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-fetish-youve-known-someone-to-have/241866/15 "2004-04-25T15:40:16Z")
I have been told that my fetish is very bizarre. I have an intense foot fetish. That’s not really the bizarre part though. The bizarre part is that I get off on having a girl in thigh highs walk/jump on my stomach/chest while I masturbate. I can’t explain why I like it so much because I don’t know. I know I have had “interest” in it since I was very young, though I can’t remember when it started. This is why I believe homosexuals were born the way they are and can’t change. I was born with this “interest” and could never change it. I was VERY apprehensive about telling girlfriends about this desire until I was about 20. Amazingly, every girl I have ever been with has obliged my fetish on a regular basis, though it does take some time for them to really get comfortable doing it to me. There are hundreds of websites devoted to this fetish though, called “trampling”. In fact, the internet was what taught me that I was not alone or freaky in having this fetish. I wonder if anyone else will chime in with their own freaky fetish instead of an anecdote. There must be more than just me here. ---
**Author:** ![elfbabe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/b782af/32.png) [@elfbabe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/elfbabe)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2004, 3:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-fetish-youve-known-someone-to-have/241866/16 "2004-04-25T15:44:12Z")
> [@Stinkpalm](#): > > The bizarre part is that I get off on having a girl in thigh highs walk/jump on my stomach/chest while I masturbate. o\_0 0\_o _imagining some kind of strange **Stinkpalm** trampoline_ boingy boingy boingy… ---
**Author:** ![Sandlegs](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e9a140/32.png) [@Sandlegs](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sandlegs)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2004, 5:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-fetish-youve-known-someone-to-have/241866/17 "2004-04-25T17:50:51Z")
I enjoy a fetish called ecouterism. In which i like to listen to other people have sex while they don’t know about it. i don’t think it is that weird, but i can’t seem to be able to find a lot of net documentation on the subject. and when people are disgusted by the sound that other people make while doing the deed, i just think “what is your problem? this is great!!!” ---
**Author:** ![Master\_Wang-Ka](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/master_wang-ka/32/3325_2.png) [@Master\_Wang-Ka](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Master_Wang-Ka)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2004, 7:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-fetish-youve-known-someone-to-have/241866/18 "2004-04-25T19:49:21Z")
[The guy with the fruit fetish, hands down. Never met anyone weirder.](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?s=&threadid=195331&highlight=watermelon) ---
**Author:** ![quiltguy154](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/q/ad7895/32.png) [@quiltguy154](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/quiltguy154)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2004, 8:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-fetish-youve-known-someone-to-have/241866/19 "2004-04-25T20:11:09Z")
> [@Master Wang-Ka](#): > > [The guy with the fruit fetish, hands down. Never met anyone weirder.](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?s=&threadid=195331&highlight=watermelon) As the old[fill in the ethnic group of your choice] used to say: -A woman for duty -A boy for pleasure -A melon for ecstasy ---
**Author:** ![35340](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/3/8baadc/32.png) [@35340](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/35340)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2004, 8:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-fetish-youve-known-someone-to-have/241866/20 "2004-04-25T20:15:11Z")
I dated a guy who liked pajamas. Didn’t care for lingere at all; wasted a bit of money proving that out. So I always wore a shirt and shorts to bed, but the first time I wore real honest to goodness pajamas (long pants and matching button up top) hooo boy. [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-fetish-youve-known-someone-to-have/241866.md?page=2)