# What Is The Most Bizarre Sexual Request You've Received From A Partner? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [August 15, 2006, 3:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766 "2006-08-15T03:24:57Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Surreal](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/eada6e/32.png) [@Surreal](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Surreal)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2006, 3:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/1 "2006-08-15T03:24:57Z")
During intimacy, have you ever had your partner make a request that shocked you, baffled you, or caused you to think that they were weird? What did they request?? Did you opt out, or did you go along with it? Thanks. ---
**Author:** ![pbbth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/f9ae1b/32.png) [@pbbth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pbbth)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2006, 4:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/2 "2006-08-15T04:41:51Z")
I once went out with a guy who on our first date asked me to go to a BDSM potluck with him…does that count? I guess I have never had anyone request anything weird _during_ sex though. ---
**Author:** ![Alice\_The\_Goon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ed8c4c/32.png) [@Alice\_The\_Goon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Alice_The_Goon)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2006, 4:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/3 "2006-08-15T04:51:01Z")
One guy wanted me to hit him with a board. I declined- that’s just not my bag, baby. ---
**Author:** ![alice\_in\_wonderland](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/alice_in_wonderland/32/176_2.png) [@alice\_in\_wonderland](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/alice_in_wonderland)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2006, 4:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/4 "2006-08-15T04:57:36Z")
One guy asked for a “hummer” which in his mind meant that I would put his balls in my mouth, and actually hum. Like, a tune. I politely declined, if only because I would feel absurd. I had another partner forceably spank me, which is actually sort of funny to think about, but it freaked me out so much I actually _supressed_ the memory. Fast forward about 2 years when I was with a new partner and he said something or did something that totally make me remember the incident - it was really odd. ---
**Author:** ![Larry\_Mudd](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/f14d63/32.png) [@Larry\_Mudd](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Larry_Mudd)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2006, 4:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/5 "2006-08-15T04:59:42Z")
#1: Wear her late father’s clothes. Ewww ewwww ewww ewww ewww. ---
**Author:** ![SnakesCatLady](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/4af34b/32.png) [@SnakesCatLady](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SnakesCatLady)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2006, 5:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/6 "2006-08-15T05:07:22Z")
[QUOTE=Larry Mudd] #1: Wear her late father’s clothes. Ewww ewwww ewww ewww ewww. [/QUOTE] _During_ sex? There are not enough ewwwwwwwwws and 😕 in the galaxy for that. ---
**Author:** ![LiveOnAPlane](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/3d9bf3/32.png) [@LiveOnAPlane](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LiveOnAPlane)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2006, 8:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/7 "2006-08-15T08:07:47Z")
I guess I can’t parse your title of this thread with what your asked. “What is the most bizarre” vs. “Have you ever had your partner make a request that…” Which one do you want us to answer? ---
**Author:** ![Grrr](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/grrr/32/146_2.png) [@Grrr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Grrr)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2006, 11:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/8 "2006-08-15T11:22:31Z")
I just admited on this board ,not too long ago, that one lady friend of mine wanted me to put on a dress. I obliged. I couldn’t for the life of me keep a straight face tho". On the flip side; I once asked this muslim girl I was dating to put on that hood thingy they wear as she gave me a BJ. She did and now I’m pretty sure I’m going to the 9th circle of Hell. ---
**Author:** ![fisha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/da6949/32.png) [@fisha](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/fisha)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2006, 1:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/9 "2006-08-15T13:02:46Z")
Naked. With the light _on_. ---
**Author:** ![Pushkin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ee59a6/32.png) [@Pushkin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Pushkin)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2006, 1:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/10 "2006-08-15T13:07:48Z")
[QUOTE=dahfisheroo] Naked. With the light _on_. [/QUOTE] To me light _off_ is wierd 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Lord\_Il\_Palazzo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/b9e5f3/32.png) [@Lord\_Il\_Palazzo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lord_Il_Palazzo)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2006, 3:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/11 "2006-08-15T15:24:38Z")
[QUOTE=pbbth] I once went out with a guy who on our first date asked me to go to a BDSM potluck with him…does that count? [/QUOTE] What, if I may ask, is a BDSM potluck? I’ve got the mental image of someone showing up at the door in a leather dominatrix outfit carrying a whip and a green bean casserole. ---
**Author:** ![Wnabtokio](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/b487fb/32.png) [@Wnabtokio](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Wnabtokio)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2006, 3:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/12 "2006-08-15T15:30:05Z")
I’m really on the other side of the coin here. All I’ll say is that I’m very lucky to have an adventurous boyfriend, b/c I keep coming up with surprising new things to do. And **pbbth** , do you think the potluck would have had a moonbounce? Because I totally would have gone if that were the case! ---
**Author:** ![Count\_Blucher](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/c5a1d2/32.png) [@Count\_Blucher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Count_Blucher)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2006, 3:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/13 "2006-08-15T15:32:02Z")
[QUOTE=Lord Il Palazzo] What, if I may ask, is a BDSM potluck? I’ve got the mental image of someone showing up at the door in a leather dominatrix outfit carrying a whip and a green bean casserole. [/QUOTE] “No, Dammit!!! You were to bring Dessert! Now go chain yourself to the sofa and await your punishment…” 😃 ---
**Author:** ![scott62](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ea5d25/32.png) [@scott62](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/scott62)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2006, 3:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/14 "2006-08-15T15:36:37Z")
After being asked by a previous girlfriend to choke her while she was on top I made my excuses and left. My own house. She was a bit wild for me. ---
**Author:** ![vibrotronica](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/a9a28c/32.png) [@vibrotronica](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/vibrotronica)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2006, 3:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/15 "2006-08-15T15:50:08Z")
“I made you a grilled cheese sandwich!” “Feed it to me.” ---
**Author:** ![Surly\_Chick](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ec9cab/32.png) [@Surly\_Chick](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Surly_Chick)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2006, 3:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/16 "2006-08-15T15:57:04Z")
[QUOTE=LiveOnAPlane] I guess I can’t parse your title of this thread with what your asked. “What is the most bizarre” vs. “Have you ever had your partner make a request that..” Which one do you want us to answer? [/QUOTE] Well of course we want _ **both** _ now! ---
**Author:** ![XaMcQ](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/x/f9ae1b/32.png) [@XaMcQ](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/XaMcQ)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2006, 4:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/17 "2006-08-15T16:15:32Z")
It wasn’t during, but hubby has off-handedly suggested that we roleplay a scene out of the French Revolution. I’m thinking it over. ---
**Author:** ![lisacurl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/41988e/32.png) [@lisacurl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lisacurl)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2006, 4:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/18 "2006-08-15T16:20:55Z")
That would never work in our house… it would degenerate into slapstick. “We are so poor we don’t eeeven haff a language… just a stooopeeed acksent!” ---
**Author:** ![Sean\_Factotum](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/50afbb/32.png) [@Sean\_Factotum](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sean_Factotum)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2006, 4:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/19 "2006-08-15T16:26:04Z")
I met a girl at the Rainbow Bar. She asked me if I’d beat her. She took me back to the Hyatt House … I don’t want to talk about it. ---
**Author:** ![Count\_Blucher](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/c5a1d2/32.png) [@Count\_Blucher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Count_Blucher)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2006, 4:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/20 "2006-08-15T16:38:55Z")
Way back in the day, while at the girls place, I was asked if I would strip naked for her, then perform oral on her (she would only remove her panties), then hold her afterwards, and then get dressed and go home without anything happening to satisfy me in return. Selfish bastard that I am, I cut right to the chase …and left. 😃 [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766.md?page=2)