# What Is The Most Bizarre Sexual Request You've Received From A Partner? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [August 15, 2006, 3:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766 "2006-08-15T03:24:57Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 4
**Author:** ![Lama\_Pacos](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/d6d6ee/32.png) [@Lama\_Pacos](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lama_Pacos)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2006, 4:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/61 "2006-08-16T04:14:48Z")
> [@cmkeller](#): > > While I’m sure there’s such a thing a four-bean salad, the more common “x-bean salad” is three-bean salad. And of course, Thousand Island dressing is a very common salad dressing. So three-bean salad :: Thousand Island dressing, four-bean salad :: 1,333 Island dressing. > > Not my best attempt at humor, I guess. Sorry. Wow. I have no idea what it says about me that I thought it was a semen joke. ---
**Author:** ![Lord\_Il\_Palazzo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/b9e5f3/32.png) [@Lord\_Il\_Palazzo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lord_Il_Palazzo)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2006, 4:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/62 "2006-08-16T04:21:08Z")
[QUOTE=Lama Pacos] Wow. I have no idea what it says about me that I thought it was a semen joke. [/QUOTE] Nothing good. Though I personally suspected that 1333 had some esoteric sexual significance of which I was unaware. Turns out it was just a geeky math joke. Gotta love the Dope. Where else does even a thread about deviant sexual proclivities provoke math jokes and _I Love Lucy_ references? (I laughed to **Bosda**.) ---
**Author:** ![Apricot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/bcef8e/32.png) [@Apricot](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Apricot)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2006, 5:42am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/63 "2006-08-16T05:42:52Z")
While we were having sex, he wanted to hear all about the guy I last had sex with - how I seduced him, what the exact physical sensations were, what he looked like during, etc. He just couldn’t keep it up unless I went on, at length. I don’t think he really wanted to be doing a girl. I was also seeing a voyeur at the same time I was dating that guy, and his interest in the last guy I did was way different than this guy. Gosh, that doesn’t parse well on re-read, but I don’t think I can make it make sense. ---
**Author:** ![Thalion](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/f475e1/32.png) [@Thalion](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Thalion)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2006, 6:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/64 "2006-08-16T06:12:46Z")
Many years ago I was dating a woman who wanted to be dominated, used as my sex slave and put on display for all my friends. I knew all that going into the relationship so it was no surprise. However, one night she suddenly mentioned that she had been reading about something called “fisting”, and thought it might be interesting . . . It is really something to watch a woman have continuous orgasms for 45 minutes. ---
**Author:** ![scotandrsn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a4c791/32.png) [@scotandrsn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/scotandrsn)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2006, 6:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/65 "2006-08-16T06:19:52Z")
Two Words: Rubik’s Snake ---
**Author:** ![Orville\_mogul](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/aeb1de/32.png) [@Orville\_mogul](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Orville_mogul)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2006, 7:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/66 "2006-08-16T07:06:45Z")
[QUOTE=Cerowyn] Pffft. [My next weekend.](http://www.dssg.org/camp.htm) [/QUOTE] Just checked out the link… Friday… chili dinner… why, oh why? :eek: ---
**Author:** ![Mtgman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b5a626/32.png) [@Mtgman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mtgman)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2006, 7:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/67 "2006-08-16T07:56:09Z")
[QUOTE=Endemic] Just checked out the link… Friday… chili dinner… why, oh why? :eek: [/QUOTE] Here’s a hint. The S and M letters in BDSM aren’t just for show. One reflects the type of person who would serve chili at a large gathering of people who will be engaged in kinky activities. The other the type of person who would consume chili at a large gathering of people who will be engaged in kinky activities. Enjoy, Steven ---
**Author:** ![corkboard](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/e9bcb4/32.png) [@corkboard](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/corkboard)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2006, 1:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/68 "2006-08-16T13:43:19Z")
I guess the most bizarre for me would be the girl who often made hints and aside comments about drinking my piss and me drinking hers. Never during the actual act of sex, though, but out of the blue while we were on the subway, for instance. “You’d drink my piss, wouldn’t you?” Several times while we’d be having sex I’d have to get up and take a piss, and when I came back she’d be masturbating and wouldn’t let me back in; instead she’d grab my junk and lick the tip, as if to catch any remaining drops that might have been clinging on. Another time we were just sitting around the apartment and my friend was using the bathroom before he left- he had a long drive home- and I really had to pee. I jokingly suggested that since the bathroom was occupied, I do it into an ice tray and stick it in the freezer, that way she could use the cubes in her drinks. She became extremely turned on and the moment my friend walked out the door, she attacked me and screwed the hell out of me. I think she really wanted to experiment with it but was afraid to come right out and ask for it during sex. ---
**Author:** ![corkboard](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/e9bcb4/32.png) [@corkboard](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/corkboard)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2006, 1:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/69 "2006-08-16T13:50:09Z")
Forgot to mention- sorry for the double post- she was the same girl that would have sex with me during her period, then hop off and enthusiastically go down on me. It was simultaneously a turn-on and somewhat gross, as she would periodically have to stop to pull gooey chunks from her mouth, then she’d get right back to work. Then she’d sit on it again for a while, then oral again, etc. I guess that technically wasn’t a bizarre sexual request, she just did it all on her own. ---
**Author:** ![melondeca](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b5a626/32.png) [@melondeca](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/melondeca)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2006, 1:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/70 "2006-08-16T13:54:04Z")
[QUOTE=McNew] Forgot to mention- sorry for the double post- she was the same girl that would have sex with me during her period, then hop off and enthusiastically go down on me. It was simultaneously a turn-on and somewhat gross, as she would periodically have to stop to pull gooey chunks from her mouth, then she’d get right back to work. Then she’d sit on it again for a while, then oral again, etc. I guess that technically wasn’t a bizarre sexual request, she just did it all on her own. [/QUOTE] Wow, that was probably the grossest thing I have read on here in a long time. :eek: ---
**Author:** ![Anaamika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Anaamika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anaamika)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2006, 2:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/71 "2006-08-16T14:09:54Z")
[QUOTE=McNew] Forgot to mention- sorry for the double post- she was the same girl that would have sex with me during her period, then hop off and enthusiastically go down on me. It was simultaneously a turn-on and somewhat gross, as she would periodically have to stop to pull gooey chunks from her mouth, then she’d get right back to work. Then she’d sit on it again for a while, then oral again, etc. I guess that technically wasn’t a bizarre sexual request, she just did it all on her own. [/QUOTE] Oh god that was disgusting. :eek: ---
**Author:** ![ShelliBean](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f9ae1b/32.png) [@ShelliBean](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ShelliBean)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2006, 2:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/72 "2006-08-16T14:23:24Z")
Jeez. I think I just found the thing that grosses and weirds me out. ---
**Author:** ![Uncommon\_Sense](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Uncommon\_Sense](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Uncommon_Sense)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2006, 3:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/73 "2006-08-16T15:01:01Z")
[QUOTE=cmkeller] While I’m sure there’s such a thing a four-bean salad, the more common “x-bean salad” is three-bean salad. And of course, Thousand Island dressing is a very common salad dressing. So three-bean salad :: Thousand Island dressing, four-bean salad :: 1,333 Island dressing. Not my best attempt at humor, I guess. Sorry. [/QUOTE] Next time try this. > [@](#): > > I hope there’s only two-hundred and thirty-nine beans in the bowl. > “Why?” > Because, one more would make it two-farty. (Get it? Two-hundred and forty???!) Or not. ---
**Author:** ![Renee](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/renee/32/287_2.png) [@Renee](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Renee)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2006, 3:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/74 "2006-08-16T15:02:07Z")
[QUOTE=McNew] she would periodically have to stop to pull gooey chunks from her mouth. [/QUOTE] If ever we needed a pukey smiley… ---
**Author:** ![ASAKMOTSD](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/919ad9/32.png) [@ASAKMOTSD](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ASAKMOTSD)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2006, 4:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/75 "2006-08-16T16:54:46Z")
[QUOTE=pbbth] I once went out with a guy who on our first date asked me to go to a BDSM potluck with him…does that count? /QUOTE] I keep picturing someone being handcuffed and forced to eat jello salad… 😛 ---
**Author:** ![DrDeth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b487fb/32.png) [@DrDeth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DrDeth)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2006, 4:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/76 "2006-08-16T16:54:43Z")
[QUOTE=silenus] Probably the one who liked public sex. I’m a reasonably private person, so doing it doggie-style while she was bent over the hood of the car in the Pike Place Parking Garage in the middle of the day was a bit of an adventure for me. [/QUOTE] One of my personal faves. 😉 **cmkeller** : good one. 😃 **pbbth** - Hi there, babe. 😉 I am a bit weirded out about requests to be Choked. BDSM- as in “spank me Daddy!” is OK by me, but nothing _too_ painful or dangerous. I met a girl once and she hinted strongly she was into Rape fantasies and that’s what she wanted as a “First Date”. Too scary for me. 20 years in Prison becuase no one believed that I thought that “she was _asking_ for it, really!” is too much of a risk. Now, later on in the relationship, maybe. ---
**Author:** ![ShelliBean](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f9ae1b/32.png) [@ShelliBean](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ShelliBean)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2006, 5:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/77 "2006-08-16T17:15:24Z")
[QUOTE=DrDeth] I am a bit weirded out about requests to be Choked. [/QUOTE] Yeah, that one usually leaves an awkward moment for me (the one asking). ---
**Author:** ![Antinor01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ecae2f/32.png) [@Antinor01](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Antinor01)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2006, 5:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/78 "2006-08-16T17:24:28Z")
I’ve done a lot of bizarre sexual things, but the one that freaked me out was when a female wanted sex with me. I’m a gay male so I consider that a bizarre sexual request that totally wierds me out. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![DrDeth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b487fb/32.png) [@DrDeth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DrDeth)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2006, 5:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/79 "2006-08-16T17:28:25Z")
[QUOTE=ShelliBean] Yeah, that one usually leaves an awkward moment for me (the one asking). [/QUOTE] Oh, I’ll do it. I like being the top. In fact a little choking (with a whip or something) while doggy style can be fun. Or my hands on your neck while you’re on top or pinned under me. I had a GF would simply would not climax during actual sex. But once- during anal with a leash tighened around her neck _just right_- WHAMMO! But it needs to be discussed off-line, not during the heat of the moment, to make sure both know what the other wants. Giving someone bruises on the neck when that’ll cause problems at work is a BAD thing. Here’s what I suggest- during post-coital snuggling, quitely say, “Wow, that was great. Hey, anything you’d like to try next time?” He’ll say something like anal or you dressing in garter-belt and stockings or whatever. If it’s not too weird for you, agree. They you say “You know, sometimes, I like to be controled, maybe with a little choking, not too hard, not so that I can’t really breathe or it’ll leave bruises, but it’s kind of a turn on sometimes”. Then, later, if you \*really do \* want to be choked harder, _then_ mention it. ---
**Author:** ![Dottygumdrop](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ce73a5/32.png) [@Dottygumdrop](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dottygumdrop)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2006, 6:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/80 "2006-08-16T18:06:02Z")
Weirdest request I EVER had was a guy who asked, begged in fact, that I use my teeth! [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766.md?page=3) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766.md?page=5)