# What Is The Most Bizarre Sexual Request You've Received From A Partner? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [August 15, 2006, 3:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766 "2006-08-15T03:24:57Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 6
**Author:** ![Anaamika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Anaamika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anaamika)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2006, 12:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/101 "2006-08-17T00:43:57Z")
Jeez, **Skald** , we get the idea! You don’t have to tell us twice! 😛 ---
**Author:** ![bouv](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/bc8723/32.png) [@bouv](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bouv)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2006, 2:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/102 "2006-08-17T02:14:14Z")
This thread just once again proves to me the vanilla-ness that is (well…was, seeing as I have none right now) sex life, through no fault of my own. No girl I have been with has ever made any kind of kinky or bizarre request. The kiniest was one girl wanted to be tied up, but in this day and age, that’s barely kinky anymore. 😉 I never did, but not because I didn’;t want to, but because my bed had no place to tie anyone to. Well, I guess maybe you can count the (same) girl who kept asking for a threesome with me and one of a couple other guys she thought were attractive, but I could never tell how serious she was, since she would ask in a joking manner. But my guess is that had I actually said yes, then she would have actually gone through with it, so I guess we can count that. ---
**Author:** ![Skald\_the\_Rhymer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ecccb3/32.png) [@Skald\_the\_Rhymer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Skald_the_Rhymer)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2006, 2:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/103 "2006-08-17T02:14:34Z")
[QUOTE=Anaamika] Jeez, **Skald** , we get the idea! You don’t have to tell us twice! 😛 [/QUOTE] Don’t stick your tongue out at me unless you’re prepared to use it, young lady. ---
**Author:** ![Chef\_Troy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/85f322/32.png) [@Chef\_Troy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chef_Troy)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2006, 2:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/104 "2006-08-17T02:20:04Z")
[QUOTE=bouv] The kiniest was one girl wanted to be tied up, but in this day and age, that’s barely kinky anymore. 😉 I never did, but not because I didn’;t want to, but because my bed had no place to tie anyone to. [/QUOTE] Hey bouv, that’s what neckties and mattress handles are for. ---
**Author:** ![bouv](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/bc8723/32.png) [@bouv](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bouv)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2006, 2:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/105 "2006-08-17T02:39:03Z")
[QUOTE=Chef Troy] Hey bouv, that’s what neckties and mattress handles are for. [/QUOTE] Mattresses have handles? Huh. Learn something new everyday. ---
**Author:** ![Skald\_the\_Rhymer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ecccb3/32.png) [@Skald\_the\_Rhymer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Skald_the_Rhymer)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2006, 2:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/106 "2006-08-17T02:46:52Z")
[QUOTE=bouv] Mattresses have handles? Huh. Learn something new everyday. [/QUOTE] How did you not know mattresses have handles? 😕 Have you never installed or flipped a queen or king size mattress? ---
**Author:** ![Renee](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/renee/32/287_2.png) [@Renee](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Renee)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2006, 4:35am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/107 "2006-08-17T04:35:39Z")
My queen sized matress doesn’t have handles (it’s about 5 years old). ---
**Author:** ![Stainz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ecd19e/32.png) [@Stainz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Stainz)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2006, 4:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/108 "2006-08-17T04:47:53Z")
One guy wanted to pee on me. I declined. Another guy wanted me to wear stockings and let him f\*\*\* my feet. I let him, but it was hard not to laugh. ---
**Author:** ![Larry\_Mudd](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/f14d63/32.png) [@Larry\_Mudd](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Larry_Mudd)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2006, 5:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/109 "2006-08-17T05:21:07Z")
[QUOTE=DrDeth] I am a bit weirded out about requests to be Choked. BDSM- as in “spank me Daddy!” is OK by me, but nothing _too_ painful or dangerous. [/QUOTE] Um, these are so frequent that I’ve got 'em filed under “plain vanilla.” (Then again, I’m such a sissy that compliance has never been _too_ painful or dangerous – so that might not count.) ---
**Author:** ![devilsknew](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/4da419/32.png) [@devilsknew](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/devilsknew)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2006, 5:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/110 "2006-08-17T05:46:29Z")
I’ve never been asked for anything kinky. I just don’t inspire that kind of Luv. ---
**Author:** ![chowder](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/977dab/32.png) [@chowder](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/chowder)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2006, 7:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/111 "2006-08-17T07:03:34Z")
[QUOTE=XaMcQ] It wasn’t during, but hubby has off-handedly suggested that we roleplay a scene out of the French Revolution. I’m thinking it over. [/QUOTE] Check the garage for signs of home made tumbrels and guillotines before you think it over any further 😃 ---
**Author:** ![934spe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/9/90db22/32.png) [@934spe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/934spe)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2006, 12:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/112 "2006-08-17T12:05:10Z")
[QUOTE=Dorjän] Did she ever pan fry it? 😃 [/QUOTE] Does one use butter or oil for that?.. ---
**Author:** ![Cartooniverse](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cartooniverse/32/3084_2.png) [@Cartooniverse](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cartooniverse)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2006, 12:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/113 "2006-08-17T12:06:50Z")
I’m thinkin’ that it’s hot scalded in Kosher sea salt… ---
**Author:** ![934spe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/9/90db22/32.png) [@934spe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/934spe)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2006, 12:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/114 "2006-08-17T12:11:24Z")
[QUOTE=Cartooniverse] I’m thinkin’ that it’s hot scalded in Kosher sea salt… [/QUOTE] Wouldn’t that be too salty then?.. ---
**Author:** ![Laughing\_Lagomorph](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/6bbea6/32.png) [@Laughing\_Lagomorph](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Laughing_Lagomorph)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2006, 12:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/115 "2006-08-17T12:11:25Z")
My former girlfriend from many years ago repeatedly expressed a desire to be a spectator while I did it with another guy. It never happened for many reasons, not the least of which was I wasn’t interested in guys then (or now, for that matter). The fact that it was the middle of 1980s AIDS hysteria was further disincentive. ---
**Author:** ![bouv](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/bc8723/32.png) [@bouv](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bouv)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2006, 1:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/116 "2006-08-17T13:20:18Z")
[QUOTE=Skald the Rhymer] How did you not know mattresses have handles? 😕 Have you never installed or flipped a queen or king size mattress? [/QUOTE] Actually, no. I’ve only ever had a twin sized mattress. ---
**Author:** ![Dunderman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ecb155/32.png) [@Dunderman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dunderman)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2006, 1:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/117 "2006-08-17T13:27:43Z")
[QUOTE=Skald the Rhymer] How did you not know mattresses have handles? [/QUOTE] Never seen a mattress with handles. I’ve had to make do with bedposts and such. ---
**Author:** ![Malacandra](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/45deac/32.png) [@Malacandra](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Malacandra)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2006, 1:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/118 "2006-08-17T13:33:32Z")
[QUOTE=Skald the Rhymer] Hmm. In that case, a better analogy from my own life would be white women who’ve wanted to sleep with me because I’m black, and miscegenation, in their minds, is wrong; that is, the desire had little to do with me as a person and more to do with their own weird mores. [/QUOTE] [hijack mode=mild]Y’know, I never knew that?[/hijack] ---
**Author:** ![Skald\_the\_Rhymer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ecccb3/32.png) [@Skald\_the\_Rhymer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Skald_the_Rhymer)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2006, 1:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/119 "2006-08-17T13:38:09Z")
[QUOTE=Malacandra] [hijack mode=mild]Y’know, I never knew that?[/hijack] [/QUOTE] What did you never know? ---
**Author:** ![Martini\_Enfield](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/martini_enfield/32/11123_2.png) [@Martini\_Enfield](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Martini_Enfield)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2006, 2:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766/120 "2006-08-17T14:27:29Z")
[QUOTE=Laughing Lagomorph] My former girlfriend from many years ago repeatedly expressed a desire to be a spectator while I did it with another guy. It never happened for many reasons, not the least of which was I wasn’t interested in guys then (or now, for that matter). The fact that it was the middle of 1980s AIDS hysteria was further disincentive. [/QUOTE] An ex of mine wanted the same thing- to watch me with another guy. It never happened, partly because I’m just not into guys (even though I’m comfortable with my sexuality), and partly because she wasn’t prepared to offer anything in return. ie, if I had decided to go ahead and broaden my horizons a bit on that occaison, all she wanted to do was watch. Not join in, not bring a (female) friend over… just sit there and watch me with another guy. It just didn’t feel right, so I said no. Mostly, _I’m_ the one making the kinky or interesting requests, as it turns out these days… [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766.md?page=5) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-most-bizarre-sexual-request-youve-received-from-a-partner/368766.md?page=7)