# What is the stereotype "two girls" fantasy? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [April 23, 2007, 7:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-stereotype-two-girls-fantasy/401353 "2007-04-23T19:52:13Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![cmkeller](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cmkeller/32/118_2.png) [@cmkeller](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/cmkeller)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 7:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-stereotype-two-girls-fantasy/401353/1 "2007-04-23T19:52:13Z")
Between the “threesome etiquette” thread and a recent viewing of Office Space, I, as a rather religious conservative guy (i.e., I don’t do porn) cannot contain my curiosity any longer. I’m posting this in IMHO, because I’m not sure there’s a factual answer. I can understand how a threesome of M-F-M would work as a sex act involving all three partners - women have multiple points of entry, and use of any of them falls within what I preceive to be the usual range of sexual activity. But it seems that there’s a very common male fantasy of being somehow serviced by two women. I’m going to assume (If I’m wrong, someone can correct me) that a guy like Lawrence in Office Space, or Chef on South Park, is not fantasizing about a girl using a strap-on to service him anally while he does the second girl. “Pegging” (to use Dan Savage’s coinage) seems to be a niche thing amongst hetero men. Is it just that the guy wants to be aroused by a live lesbian display and then to just have sex with one of them? Or is there actually some act in which both girls are giving the guy pleasure? (Remember, I’m talking about this commonly-expressed _male_ fantasy.) ---
**Author:** ![Speaker\_for\_the\_Dead](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c77e96/32.png) [@Speaker\_for\_the\_Dead](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Speaker_for_the_Dead)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 7:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-stereotype-two-girls-fantasy/401353/2 "2007-04-23T19:56:38Z")
In my discussions with males, it’s always come down to two things, but we could be an anomaly. Either the guy is being pleasured while pleasuring the second female, or else (by various combinations) he’s having sex with one of the women while she does things the other one. ---
**Author:** ![Miller](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/miller/32/481_2.png) [@Miller](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Miller)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 8:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-stereotype-two-girls-fantasy/401353/3 "2007-04-23T20:19:24Z")
If you’ve only got one girl in bed with you, you can’t get a blowjob while making motorboat noises in her cleavage at the same time. More seriously, I’m often bemused by these sorts of questions. There was one a while back about how being anally penetrated by a woman wearing a strap-on would be any different from being anally pentrated by a man, as if the genitals are the only point of contact between two people having sex. I’m not the most sexually experience guy out there, so maybe my conception is just way off, but don’t most people who have sex, also hug, stroke, cuddle, kiss, fondle, etc? Fucking involves a lot more than inserting tab A into slot B. Touching naked skin to naked skin just feels good. Having twice as much naked skin to rub up against seems like a reasonable goal in and of itself, regardless of the mechanics of who gets pentrated where and by what. ---
**Author:** ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 8:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-stereotype-two-girls-fantasy/401353/4 "2007-04-23T20:31:16Z")
As answered above, but a lot of porn has both women going down on the guy at the same time. I can’t say I don’t find that appealling. I think there’s a deeper psychological aspect of that situation, though. Basically it’s the “Look how much attention I’m getting from hot babes!” thing. Who wouldn’t want to be that popular? ---
**Author:** ![coffeecat](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/coffeecat/32/3405_2.png) [@coffeecat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/coffeecat)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 8:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-stereotype-two-girls-fantasy/401353/5 "2007-04-23T20:55:27Z")
[QUOTE=cmkeller] Between the “threesome etiquette” thread and a recent viewing of Office Space, I, as a rather religious conservative guy (i.e., I don’t do porn) cannot contain my curiosity any longer. [/QUOTE] You mean you don’t get an extra girl on Shabbat? ---
**Author:** ![enigm4tic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/7ba0ec/32.png) [@enigm4tic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/enigm4tic)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 9:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-stereotype-two-girls-fantasy/401353/6 "2007-04-23T21:10:37Z")
I’d say in general that the male would be … servicing… one of the females while that female went after the 3rd party. Alternatively, he could be having intercourse with one while pleasuring the 3rd. It’s not _that_ hard to think of a bunch of positions that could lead to gratification all around ---
**Author:** ![cmkeller](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cmkeller/32/118_2.png) [@cmkeller](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/cmkeller)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 9:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-stereotype-two-girls-fantasy/401353/7 "2007-04-23T21:18:52Z")
Miller: > [@](#): > > Having twice as much naked skin to rub up against seems like a reasonable goal in and of itself, regardless of the mechanics of who gets pentrated where and by what. True enough…hadn’t considered that. enigm4tic: > [@](#): > > It’s not _that_ hard to think of a bunch of positions that could lead to gratification all around No, not if it’s one of the women getting double-pleasured, but (notwithstanding Miller’s answer) I couldn’t really think of what a man could, get out of two women at a time that he couldn’t get out of one. coffeecat: > [@](#): > > You mean you don’t get an extra girl on Shabbat? No, we get a double portion of manna, not womanna. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![BrainGlutton](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/82dd89/32.png) [@BrainGlutton](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BrainGlutton)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 9:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-stereotype-two-girls-fantasy/401353/8 "2007-04-23T21:20:04Z")
You could have one girl riding your cock while the other sits on your face for cunnilingus. And meanwhile, they’re French-kissing and playing with each other’s tits. I’ve read that scenario in _Penthouse Letters_ many times. Or, you could just do them in turns. That’s also a common theme. ---
**Author:** ![BrainGlutton](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/82dd89/32.png) [@BrainGlutton](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BrainGlutton)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 9:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-stereotype-two-girls-fantasy/401353/9 "2007-04-23T21:22:51Z")
[QUOTE=tdn] I think there’s a deeper psychological aspect of that situation, though. Basically it’s the “Look how much attention I’m getting from hot babes!” thing. Who wouldn’t want to be that popular? [/QUOTE] And I think there’s another reason: If you get laid with just one girl, there’s always the chance, however slim, that it will turn into something, you know, deeply emotional. But a three-way is all about recreational sex, pure and simple. I mean, what else could it be? What kind of relationship could it lead to? (Nothing Mormon or Mormon-schismatic, you can be sure of that.) ---
**Author:** ![Happy\_Scrappy\_Hero\_Pup](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/ea5d25/32.png) [@Happy\_Scrappy\_Hero\_Pup](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Happy_Scrappy_Hero_Pup)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 9:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-stereotype-two-girls-fantasy/401353/10 "2007-04-23T21:24:28Z")
One woman: good. Two women: better. I really don’t understand how there can be more to your question than this. ---
**Author:** ![JohnT](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/johnt/32/15048_2.png) [@JohnT](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JohnT)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 9:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-stereotype-two-girls-fantasy/401353/11 "2007-04-23T21:27:09Z")
I’m wondering, what with the proliferation of internet porn, why the OP couldn’t have just typed in MMF in Google and look at the images? 😛 ---
**Author:** ![Giraffe](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/giraffe/32/129_2.png) [@Giraffe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Giraffe)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 9:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-stereotype-two-girls-fantasy/401353/12 "2007-04-23T21:28:13Z")
[QUOTE=cmkeller] Or is there actually some act in which both girls are giving the guy pleasure? (Remember, I’m talking about this commonly-expressed _male_ fantasy.) [/QUOTE] The usual scenario is to have sex with one girl while the other one hops around the room on a pogo stick. Some guys like to mix it up a little and have the second girl ride an oversized Big Wheel, but most of us aren’t into the weird stuff. ---
**Author:** ![enigm4tic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/7ba0ec/32.png) [@enigm4tic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/enigm4tic)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 9:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-stereotype-two-girls-fantasy/401353/13 "2007-04-23T21:35:56Z")
both girls can definitely orally pleasure the guy at the same time. At that, it’s not too hard to find other erogenous zones besides the penis that the 2nd female could stimulate at the same time, thus more pleasure from 2 girls. ---
**Author:** ![Miller](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/miller/32/481_2.png) [@Miller](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Miller)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 9:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-stereotype-two-girls-fantasy/401353/14 "2007-04-23T21:38:20Z")
[QUOTE=BrainGlutton] What kind of relationship could it lead to? [/QUOTE] A polyamorous relationship? ---
**Author:** ![Asimovian](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/asimovian/32/172_2.png) [@Asimovian](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Asimovian)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 10:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-stereotype-two-girls-fantasy/401353/15 "2007-04-23T22:06:43Z")
[QUOTE=Giraffe] The usual scenario is to have sex with one girl while the other one hops around the room on a pogo stick. Some guys like to mix it up a little and have the second girl ride an oversized Big Wheel, but most of us aren’t into the weird stuff. [/QUOTE] I never thought I’d have a reason to search “naked big wheel” on Google Images before, but the Dope brings me new experiences on a daily basis. ---
**Author:** ![Grrr](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/grrr/32/146_2.png) [@Grrr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Grrr)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 11:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-stereotype-two-girls-fantasy/401353/16 "2007-04-23T23:33:35Z")
I’ve done the threesome thing before. I’m not going to say it sucked but I WILL say the fantasy was much better than the reality. YMMV. ---
**Author:** ![BrainGlutton](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/82dd89/32.png) [@BrainGlutton](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BrainGlutton)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 11:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-stereotype-two-girls-fantasy/401353/17 "2007-04-23T23:35:20Z")
[QUOTE=SHAKES] I’ve done the threesome thing before. I’m not going to say it sucked but I WILL say the fantasy was much better than the reality. YMMV. [/QUOTE] What, too many knees and elbows? ---
**Author:** ![awldune](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/c77e96/32.png) [@awldune](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/awldune)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 11:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-stereotype-two-girls-fantasy/401353/18 "2007-04-23T23:35:41Z")
[QUOTE=JohnT] I’m wondering, what with the proliferation of internet porn, why the OP couldn’t have just typed in MMF in Google and look at the images? 😛 [/QUOTE] MFF. MMF is two guys on one girl. ---
**Author:** ![Cat\_Fight](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/90ced4/32.png) [@Cat\_Fight](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Fight)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2007, 11:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-stereotype-two-girls-fantasy/401353/19 "2007-04-23T23:38:29Z")
It’s the sexual equivalent of longing for immortality (millions long for it who don’t know what they’re doing with one woman). ---
**Author:** ![Gentle\_Robot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/e495f1/32.png) [@Gentle\_Robot](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gentle_Robot)\ **Post date:** [April 24, 2007, 12:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-stereotype-two-girls-fantasy/401353/20 "2007-04-24T00:02:58Z")
[QUOTE=cmkeller] Between the “threesome etiquette” thread and a recent viewing of Office Space, I, as a rather religious conservative guy (i.e., I don’t do porn) cannot contain my curiosity any longer. [/QUOTE] You couldn’t contain your curiosity, so you asked the SDMB? There’s mountains of porn exploring this one fantasy out there. Get thee to the filthy video store! [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-the-stereotype-two-girls-fantasy/401353.md?page=2)