# What is your family motto?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-your-family-motto/663074>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [July 9, 2013, 8:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-your-family-motto/663074 "2013-07-09T20:08:07Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Draelin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ce73a5/32.png) [@Draelin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Draelin)\
**Post date:** [July 10, 2013, 12:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-your-family-motto/663074/41 "2013-07-10T12:22:09Z")

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I think it would probably have to be “No, _you_ shut up!!”

With a close second of “Stop laughing, that’s really our name.”

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**Author:** ![DrumBum](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e79b87/32.png) [@DrumBum](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DrumBum)\
**Post date:** [July 10, 2013, 12:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-your-family-motto/663074/42 "2013-07-10T12:22:35Z")

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While “It’s taking longer than we thought.” probably applies, that is taken so my fallback would be “Buy low and sell high.”

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**Author:** ![Prof.Pepperwinkle](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/prof.pepperwinkle/32/13627_2.png) [@Prof.Pepperwinkle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Prof.Pepperwinkle)\
**Post date:** [July 10, 2013, 12:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-your-family-motto/663074/43 "2013-07-10T12:29:12Z")

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“Non carborundum illegitimi est”

[Don’t let the bastards wear you down.]

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**Author:** ![Lightlystarched](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/eb8c5e/32.png) [@Lightlystarched](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lightlystarched)\
**Post date:** [July 10, 2013, 4:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-your-family-motto/663074/44 "2013-07-10T16:15:00Z")

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“Go to sleep!”

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**Author:** ![Qadgop\_the\_Mercotan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/qadgop_the_mercotan/32/83_2.png) [@Qadgop\_the\_Mercotan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Qadgop_the_Mercotan)\
**Post date:** [July 10, 2013, 4:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-your-family-motto/663074/45 "2013-07-10T16:59:15Z")

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> [@Prof.Pepperwinkle](#):
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> “Non carborundum illegitimi est”
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> [Don’t let the bastards wear you down.]

Literally I think that comes out as “bastards aren’t grinding”. 😉

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**Author:** ![Prof.Pepperwinkle](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/prof.pepperwinkle/32/13627_2.png) [@Prof.Pepperwinkle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Prof.Pepperwinkle)\
**Post date:** [July 10, 2013, 5:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-your-family-motto/663074/46 "2013-07-10T17:02:32Z")

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> [@Qadgop\_the\_Mercotan](#):
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> Literally I think that comes out as “bastards aren’t grinding”. 😉

Well, I got it from my Dad, and he picked it up in WW2. So, yes, it’s mock Latin.  
and, cite: [Illegitimi non carborundum - Wikipedia](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Illegitimi_non_carborundum)

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**Author:** ![Sattua](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sattua/32/11906_2.png) [@Sattua](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sattua)\
**Post date:** [July 10, 2013, 5:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-your-family-motto/663074/47 "2013-07-10T17:25:47Z")

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> [@jsquire](#):
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> Having an extremely old English name, we actually have one: “Hold firm”.

We descend from the same clan.

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**Author:** ![gwendee](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/35a633/32.png) [@gwendee](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gwendee)\
**Post date:** [July 10, 2013, 7:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-your-family-motto/663074/48 "2013-07-10T19:16:23Z")

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On the mail order family crest plaque that’s ours, but really not because my family’s Polish name was anglicized when they emigrated: Nil Desperandum.

Dad’s side: Miseris succerere disco

My family’s actual, oft repeated words to live by: If you wore shoes it wouldn’t happen.

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**Author:** ![Sampiro](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/2acd7d/32.png) [@Sampiro](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sampiro)\
**Post date:** [July 10, 2013, 7:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-your-family-motto/663074/49 "2013-07-10T19:18:09Z")

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“We won’t leave bruises or visible marks.”

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**Author:** ![Typo\_Negative](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/typo_negative/32/484_2.png) [@Typo\_Negative](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Typo_Negative)\
**Post date:** [July 10, 2013, 7:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-your-family-motto/663074/50 "2013-07-10T19:22:59Z")

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“If you can’t say something nice about someone…sit next to me”  
[sub]yes, we stole it. we’re not an original bunch[/sub]

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**Author:** ![teela\_brown](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/d9b06d/32.png) [@teela\_brown](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/teela_brown)\
**Post date:** [July 10, 2013, 7:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-your-family-motto/663074/51 "2013-07-10T19:27:08Z")

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“Don’t _ever_ spend money on fancy luxurious stuff.”

Yes, I was raised by Depression babies.

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**Author:** ![Draelin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ce73a5/32.png) [@Draelin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Draelin)\
**Post date:** [July 10, 2013, 7:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-your-family-motto/663074/52 "2013-07-10T19:39:01Z")

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> [@Typo\_Negative](#):
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> “If you can’t say something nice about someone…sit next to me”

I often think of this as my mother’s personal motto. Makes her a blast at parties. 🙂

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**Author:** ![NoOrdinaryRabbit](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/eada6e/32.png) [@NoOrdinaryRabbit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/NoOrdinaryRabbit)\
**Post date:** [July 10, 2013, 7:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-your-family-motto/663074/53 "2013-07-10T19:57:59Z")

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My mother says it must be, “Never miss a meal.” She hates the habit on my dad’s side of the family of discussing what we will eat at the next meal while we are eating the current one.

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**Author:** ![cainxinth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/7bcc69/32.png) [@cainxinth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/cainxinth)\
**Post date:** [July 10, 2013, 9:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-your-family-motto/663074/54 "2013-07-10T21:02:52Z")

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> [@NoOrdinaryRabbit](#):
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> My mother says it must be, “Never miss a meal.” She hates the habit on my dad’s side of the family of discussing what we will eat at the next meal while we are eating the current one.

We have a few of those. Some people eat to live, and some live to eat.

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**Author:** ![Pixel\_Dent](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/bc8723/32.png) [@Pixel\_Dent](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Pixel_Dent)\
**Post date:** [July 10, 2013, 9:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-your-family-motto/663074/55 "2013-07-10T21:06:02Z")

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pontis transimus quom pervenimus

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**Post date:** [July 10, 2013, 9:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-your-family-motto/663074/56 "2013-07-10T21:11:11Z")

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On my dad’s side, it’s Veritas Vincit (Truth Conquers) and on my mom’s it’s Non Oblitus (Not forgetful).

For more practical applications, I’ll probably just steal from a good friend and say, “Sometimes shit just happens.”

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**Author:** ![Lanzy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/74df32/32.png) [@Lanzy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lanzy)\
**Post date:** [July 10, 2013, 9:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-your-family-motto/663074/57 "2013-07-10T21:23:37Z")

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Because we’re a fucking family, that’s why.

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**Author:** ![PookahMacPhellimey](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/pookahmacphellimey/32/3175_2.png) [@PookahMacPhellimey](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/PookahMacPhellimey)\
**Post date:** [July 10, 2013, 10:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-your-family-motto/663074/58 "2013-07-10T22:35:44Z")

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The two best parts of the day are dinner and a book.

I love my family.

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**Author:** ![Bosda\_Di\_Chi\_of\_Tricor](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bosda_di_chi_of_tricor/32/16845_2.png) [@Bosda\_Di\_Chi\_of\_Tricor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bosda_Di_Chi_of_Tricor)\
**Post date:** [July 10, 2013, 10:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-your-family-motto/663074/59 "2013-07-10T22:40:23Z")

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Never Forgive,  
Never Forget,  
Imperfection Makes You Worthless.

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**Author:** ![gwendee](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/35a633/32.png) [@gwendee](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gwendee)\
**Post date:** [July 11, 2013, 12:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-is-your-family-motto/663074/60 "2013-07-11T12:04:25Z")

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> [@PookahMacPhellimey](#):
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> The two best parts of the day are dinner and a book.
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> I love my family.

Now I do, too. That’s a motto I can solidly get behind.

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