What language should I start my four year old on?

Ok, so Latin is the base for the Romance languages, it has some concepts that are used in Slavic and Germanic languages (case) but I would hardly call it the “base for anything else.” It’s useful for figuring out words on the SAT, but as a second language it’s, well, just too damn academic. I don’t mean any offense.

My votes would be:

  1. Spanish
  2. Chinese, ahem, that is, Mandarin or Cantonese
  3. Russian

Spanish is relatively easy to learn, and if you live in the States, the practical reasons for learning it are obvious. And there’s plenty of chance for exposure.

The Chinese languages I think will play a very important part in the global economy. There’s not a hell of a whole lot of native English speakers who also speak Chinese, and this would be a very marketable skill to have. Plus the access to a vast culture. And Mandarin is the most spoken language in the world, followed by Spanish, then English. So the numbers are on your side.

And my reasons for Russian are similar to my reasons for Chinese. Large global presence. Millenia of culture, literature, art. Marketable skill.

I also have a theory that dealing with two languages that are quite apart from each other, such as English and Mandarin, or, to a lesser extent, English and Russian, makes it easier to learn new languages in the future and you don’t have preconceived notions of how languages should work. I grew up in a bilingual environment of Polish and English, and this made it easier for me to learn French, German, Croatian and Hungarian (no, no, I’m not fluent in these. just conversationally passable) with little effort because I didn’t try to force these languages to conform to English word formation and sentence structure. I really think this is because I grew up bilingual.

Your daughter is at an age where language acquisition is very quick and natural, and I think it’s great that you want to foster it. But as the other posters said, a video or three won’t do it. She needs to be in an active bilingual environment. It is absolutely AMAZING how fast these kids learn! We had a Kosovar refugee and her kid staying at my friend’s flat here in Hungary, and she had a five-year-old kid who spoke Albanian and Serbian. Within a month or two, she was able to communicate in English with us, just by listening to us talk, and when she went to a Hungarian school, she started picking up Hungarian in a couple of months. They’re like SPONGES! Four or five months and she’s speaking Hungarian naturally in a way I can’t after two and a half years of being here. So do take advantage of it. She’ll thank you at some point.

Oops. My bad. I must have been in humourless mode at the time.

Oh, sure. You could teach her sign language. Esperanto, yeah. I have nothing against Latin (hell, I’ve taken Latin for nearly three years now), but rarely do you speak it. (It’s all reading.)

As people have said: I know ebonics can help you if you’re stuck in Harlem, and Chinese if you’re a tycoon, and Spanish if you go to a variety of places.

But it all depends on what YOU want for your daughter. Do you want her to learn something REALLY useful? If so, I would highly reccomend, la langue d’amour- francais! :slight_smile: You may argue that French isn’t as common as Spanish, and it’s certainly not as acedemic as Latin, but well…it’s sexy. And wouldn’t you like your daughter to be able to walk into a room and seduce every straight guy there with just a simple toss of her head, and a French catch phrase or two? (You don’t have to be able to understand French to be taken in.) Oh- and one phrase she’ll want to remember the rest of her life: Voulez-vous coucher avec moi ce soir?

Seriously, though. Wonderful language. Absolutely fab.

Spanish.

  1. Practical. It might well be useful to know Chinese in some imagined future, but Spanish is practical in the here-and-now.

  2. Opportunity for practice. There are no shortage of Spanish-speakers in New Jersey. Maybe you could find her a playmate who’s family speaks Spanish at home?

I think that with Spanish, there s a greater chance of her actually achieving fluency.

How about the international language of music? I am completely amazed by peers of mine who have been playing their instruments since 3 or 4 years old. I wish that my parents would have had the foresight to start me on an instrument at that age. If it turns out she doesn’t like the instrument she started on, string instruments are very easy to switch between. I suggest the Suzuki Method of teaching. However, this requires that you learn the same instrument as your child (but only on an elementary level). I’m sure you’ve heard how music greatly helps children in math and science. Weekly lessons may be a little pricey, but listening to your child play beautiful music in a few years will be a tremendous reward!

I would suggest a language OTHER than Spanish. Reason being…I recently graduated with a degree in Spanish and although many people have told me that I should be able to find a GREAT job with that marketable skill…somehow I haven’t been able to market it.

Another reason is that 20 years from now, EVERYONE will be speaking Spanish. To have your child stand out from the job-seeking crowd, she should be able to speak a language that is not as common. The “mystique” of knowing something that others find extremely hard (in my opinion, I would say Russian or Mandarin) would give her an edge and also bargaining power.

However, if you aren’t going for that farsighted of a goal, try a language that is commonly spoken in the area where you are. That way she will be immersed, and immersion is the ONLY way to learn a language.

English. English. English. English. English. English. English. English. English. English. English. English.
English. English. English. English. English. English. English. English. English. English. English. English.
English. English. English. English. English. English. English. English. English. English. English. English.
English. English. English. English. English. English. English. English. English. English. English. English.

Good old fashioned, Standard American English. See if you can get her to perfect accent reduction, too. There is nothing more impressive than someone who can actually SPEAK their given language. Expose her to Joyce, Maugham, Baldwin, Thomas–IMHO, a love of literature leads to a love of language.

After she’s mastered English, Spanish would be a good second, followed by French. Kids at four can learn all three languages at once, and can perfect foreign accents if they’re taught correctly. (You’ll have to forgive my zeal, especially with my introduction–I love languages.) :slight_smile:

Go with Nihongo (Japanese for all of you that don’t speak it). Think about it, if you have her on Japanese and English, you guys could go to japan on trips and have her translate everything. God I love that language…

Yeah, but what if they go to Belgium? They’re screwed.
10 years of Japanese lessons down the drain.

Maybe it’s just because I haven’t studied it, but French seems difficult as Hell to me. I’ve taken Spanish for several years and speak passably, and my reading and pronunciation of most languages is decent (even if I don’t understand what I’m saying). However, French pronunciation is very wacky. I think there are about 4 or 5 letters that make sounds, and everything else is just silent.

As far as a language to learn, Spanish is it. Forget being marketable, and think more about being useful. Sign language is a decent idea, but once again, unless you know someone who speaks in sign constantly, it’s not practical.

Sign Language and Russian. Two VERY cool languages. I’m learning Russian now, and I love it. It’s very phonetic.
And the Cyrillic Alphabet is a HELL of a lot easier than you would think.