# What makes you sexy?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-makes-you-sexy/69588>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [June 21, 2001, 8:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-makes-you-sexy/69588 "2001-06-21T08:19:04Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![SuaSponte](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/67e7ee/32.png) [@SuaSponte](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SuaSponte)\
**Post date:** [June 21, 2001, 6:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-makes-you-sexy/69588/21 "2001-06-21T18:11:17Z")

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:: Sua comtemplates the question. He frowns, licks his eyebrows ::

I really have no idea.

Sua

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**Author:** ![bughunter](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/aeb1de/32.png) [@bughunter](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bughunter)\
**Post date:** [June 21, 2001, 6:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-makes-you-sexy/69588/22 "2001-06-21T18:13:18Z")

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Why are so many women not clued in on this? All men adore long hair. Don’t cut it. Ever.

I know: It’s hard to take care of. And the hair gets into everything. And it gets in your face. And wind is not your friend. I know it all - I have long hair too. (Which, btw, is what makes _me_ sexy. And why it’s worth all of the trouble.)

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**Author:** ![SuaSponte](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/67e7ee/32.png) [@SuaSponte](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SuaSponte)\
**Post date:** [June 21, 2001, 6:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-makes-you-sexy/69588/23 "2001-06-21T18:52:21Z")

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> \*Originally posted by bughunter \*  
> Why are so many women not clued in on this? All men adore long hair. Don’t cut it. Ever.

Whatcha talking about, Willis? On some women, long hair looks fantastic. On some women, short hair rules. And, in my personal experience, women I’ve dated for a while who either cut their long hair, or grew their hair out, looked sexy either way, just in different ways.

In any event, running my hand across the lay of a gf’s short hair and watching her shiver is a fantastic turn-on.

Sua

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**Author:** ![Tygr](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/df788c/32.png) [@Tygr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tygr)\
**Post date:** [June 21, 2001, 7:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-makes-you-sexy/69588/24 "2001-06-21T19:50:35Z")

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What, you mean you can’t tell just by looking at me? I’m hurt.

In all honesty, I can’t answer this for myself. I really don’t think of myself as being that way. When I’ve been told I was sexy, I knew it was because of how I was treating her, no matter who her was. As far as I know, that’s all I’ve got going for me, knowing how to treat a woman special.

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**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\
**Post date:** [June 21, 2001, 8:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-makes-you-sexy/69588/25 "2001-06-21T20:20:44Z")

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My playfulness, I think. I’m just a really fun person.

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**Author:** ![Wildest\_Bill](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/b9e5f3/32.png) [@Wildest\_Bill](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Wildest_Bill)\
**Post date:** [June 21, 2001, 8:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-makes-you-sexy/69588/26 "2001-06-21T20:37:16Z")

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> \*Originally posted by ThisYearsGirl \*  
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> > \*Originally posted by Wildest Bill \*  
> > \*\*My chemically induced hard looking musclely body and my sense of humor. 😉 \*\*
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> Wow–that was one of the cleverest things I’ve ever read on this board. Seriously. \*\*

If you serious, what you said was one of the nicest things anybody has said to me on this board. Thanks.

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**Author:** ![Francesca](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/9fc348/32.png) [@Francesca](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Francesca)\
**Post date:** [June 21, 2001, 8:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-makes-you-sexy/69588/27 "2001-06-21T20:40:00Z")

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This is going to sound bad, but I really do think I can be quite sexy. I’ve got good curves in the right places, I’m funny (apparently) and I’m intelligent. That, and I’m filthy in bed 😉

Fran

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**Author:** ![manhattan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/manhattan/32/7_2.png) [@manhattan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/manhattan)\
**Post date:** [June 21, 2001, 9:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-makes-you-sexy/69588/28 "2001-06-21T21:28:07Z")

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It’s obviously my wit, intelligence, humor – and distance. ‘Cuz in person I put out a anti-sexiness pheromone so strong that a research team Columbia Presbyterian are the only people who want my body.

I think I’m gonna hit some golf balls now so I feel better – wait, I suck at that, too.

Anyone need a junk bond analyzed?

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**Author:** ![magdalene](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/df788c/32.png) [@magdalene](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/magdalene)\
**Post date:** [June 21, 2001, 9:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-makes-you-sexy/69588/29 "2001-06-21T21:51:09Z")

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> \*Originally posted by SuaSponte \*  
> \*\*:: Sua comtemplates the question. He frowns, licks his eyebrows ::
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> I really have no idea.
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> Sua \*\*

It’s your brain and your way with words, silly.

For me, I think it’s the attitude and the big brown eyes. My rack gets a lot of attention, but if I could I’d donate it to charity.

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**Author:** ![Anniz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/cc9497/32.png) [@Anniz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anniz)\
**Post date:** [June 21, 2001, 9:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-makes-you-sexy/69588/30 "2001-06-21T21:59:30Z")

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I would say, being myself.  
Not trying to be someone else.

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**Author:** ![racinchikki](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/eada6e/32.png) [@racinchikki](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/racinchikki)\
**Post date:** [June 21, 2001, 10:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-makes-you-sexy/69588/31 "2001-06-21T22:24:59Z")

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Apparently, my chest. Other than that, not a clue.

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**Author:** ![Edwardina](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/5f8ce5/32.png) [@Edwardina](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Edwardina)\
**Post date:** [June 21, 2001, 10:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-makes-you-sexy/69588/32 "2001-06-21T22:37:03Z")

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Tangibles: a rather large set of bosoms, longish hair (used to be longer), nice lips.

Intangibles: enthusiasm, intelligence, relaxed attitude, seasonal nymphomania . . . :o

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**Author:** ![Arden\_Ranger](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/b487fb/32.png) [@Arden\_Ranger](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Arden_Ranger)\
**Post date:** [June 21, 2001, 11:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-makes-you-sexy/69588/33 "2001-06-21T23:45:59Z")

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> [@](#):
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> \*Originally posted by manhattan \*  
> \*\*‘Cuz in person I put out a anti-sexiness pheromone so strong that a research team Columbia Presbyterian are the only people who want my body.  
> \*\*

I don’t believe you. I demand proof.

In person

In the interest of science, of course.

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**Author:** ![bughunter](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/aeb1de/32.png) [@bughunter](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bughunter)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2001, 12:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-makes-you-sexy/69588/34 "2001-06-22T00:17:30Z")

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> **On some women, long hair looks fantastic. On some women, short hair rules.**

I agree that there are women that look sexy in short hair. But short hair does not flatter most women as much as long hair does. And every woman is more attractive with **very** long hair.

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> **running my hand across the lay of a gf’s short hair and watching her shiver is a fantastic turn-on**

Oh, I’m with ya there, **Sua** , but the short hair I’m thinking about _ain’t_\* on my girlfriend’s _head_.

Hmmm… time to hurry home, I think. 😉

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**Author:** ![Gunslinger](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/4491bb/32.png) [@Gunslinger](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gunslinger)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2001, 1:16am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-makes-you-sexy/69588/35 "2001-06-22T01:16:58Z")

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I couldn’t think of anything, so I asked **racinchikki** :  
_Copied and pasted directly from AIM. Only the names have been changed._

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\*_Gunslinger_: Well, what makes me sexy?  
**racinchikki** : What doesn’t?  
\*_Gunslinger_: Good point. Anything in particular, though?  
**racinchikki** : Well, you’re so modest.  
**racinchikki** : Your accent. Your intelligence. Your dick…

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😃

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**Author:** ![Dragon\_Phoenix](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/bcef8e/32.png) [@Dragon\_Phoenix](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dragon_Phoenix)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2001, 1:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-makes-you-sexy/69588/36 "2001-06-22T01:36:46Z")

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First of all, I have to support Sua on the long versus short hair thing. Many men, like me, even prefer shorter hair. And your loved one can look great in both (mine does).

Back to the quesiton, what makes \* me \* sexy? Before I met Mrs Phoenix, I had no clue, but she really goes for my blue eyes…

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**Author:** ![Ace309](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ace309/32/1050_2.png) [@Ace309](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ace309)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2001, 3:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-makes-you-sexy/69588/37 "2001-06-22T03:07:35Z")

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Well, according to many women who have gone on to say “but I really don’t like you like that…”

[ul]  
[li] My light blue eyes[/li][li] My spikey hair and sideburns[/li][li] The fact that I love little kids and apparently look really cute playing with a toddler[/li][li] My Canadian accent (“PLEASE say ‘I’m going out of the house’ again!”[/li][/ul]

Now ask me what makes me unattractive. 😃

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**Author:** ![Kilt-wearin\_man](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/82dd89/32.png) [@Kilt-wearin\_man](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kilt-wearin_man)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2001, 3:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-makes-you-sexy/69588/38 "2001-06-22T03:26:41Z")

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Nine yards of plaid wool, pleated in the back and held on with a belt.

And my beard. Gotta be the beard.

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**Author:** ![drewbert](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/drewbert/32/15890_2.png) [@drewbert](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/drewbert)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2001, 3:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-makes-you-sexy/69588/39 "2001-06-22T03:39:01Z")

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Lots and lots of skilled photo retouching.

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**Author:** ![GingerOfTheNorth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/cdc98d/32.png) [@GingerOfTheNorth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GingerOfTheNorth)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2001, 3:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-makes-you-sexy/69588/40 "2001-06-22T03:52:42Z")

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My voice  
long curly red hair  
deep-blue eyes  
nice rack (NOT my words)  
my attitude  
sense of humour

And that Canadian Accent thing…

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