But it was a quote. Here is a complete rendition of the line:
And what does Skinner v. Oklahoma say?
Skinner was a case about procreation – involuntary sterilization, in fact.
So when the Court in Loving used those words, they were talking about the fact that (in their view, anyway) marriage and procreation were inextricably intertwined.
Other courts that have had to reconcile Loving’s (really, Skinner’s) language with same-sex marriage have pointed out this precise fact.
There are excellent arguments for legal same-sex marriage. Those words from those court cases don’t qualify.
No. When the court in Skinner used those words, tey were talking about the right to marry and the right to procreate, and their interrelatedness. When the court in Loving used those words, they were abstracting from the precedent set in the previous case that marriage itself was a fundamental civil right. Mr. and Mrs. Loving were not discussing their putative desire for children, they were seeking the court’s defense of their right to contract marriage and live together in their home state as a married couple – irrespective of whether or not they chose to have children. (With your fondness for the phrase “oenumbra or emanation”, surely you’re familiar with Griswold v. Connecticut, the case from which that phrase, uh, emanated, which held that it is none of government’s damn business whether or not a couple chooses to prevent the conception of progeny?)
Bottom line: a person has the right to contract marriage to a willing potential spouse. That right can be restricted for a valid governmental purpose (such as the protection of the young, the orohibition of fraudulent bigamous unions, the need to reinforce defective genes through incest, etc.). The issue at hand is whether the prohibition of same-sex marriage has a valid governmental purpose.
Why don’t we start all of our discussions by assuming you’re guilty until proven innocent because some fraction of the people who believe as you believe do so out of less than defensible positions?
See, that will allow me to characterize all homos as drag queen, SF gay parade prancing, Bette Midler listening, Judy Garland worshiping flaming queers.
And it’s not simply that they’re TIVO-ing Golden Girls, they’re using things like Tele-Tubbies and Barney to indoctrinate our children.
So, please, (and to make sure you aren’t missing the finer points) answer the charges of your heterophobia before we can proceed.
Unless, of course you are willing to provide an example of “objections to homosexuals” that DON’T come from homophobia? The reasonable objections that you mentioned, yet for some odd reason are unwilling to actually specify.
OK - I know where you are coming from, so to rephrase…
It’s generally considered that the government interest in encouraging procreation, whether a person agrees with it or not, is sufficient to allow legislation that treats different groups differently to pass muster under Equal Protection analysis. Hence tax breaks for having children are not seen as unfairly discriminatory against the infertile, for example.
I suppose we should prevent seniors from marrying after their spouse dies. They have no intention of having kids. That would be so wrong. Perhaps 2 age limits. One at 18 the other at 40.
Well, just for women. Men can obviously father children later in life.
Of course, comments like these go to the wisdom of the law. If you’re suggesting they go to the constitutionality of the law, then remember that the rational basis test does not ask whether the law at issue is the best way to implement the government goal, or if it’s narrowly tailored to implement the government goal. The test is if the law bears a rational relationship to the goal.
But men who want to marry after 40 ought to have to undergo some sort of means or social fitness test, to make sure that they really do intend to start a family and aren’t just looking for a ticket out of loser bachelorhood.
There are well-reasoned arguments on both sides of this issue. For those who are against SSM (and ftr, I have never taken that position) there are reasons----for many to be sure----that aren’t borne of an “unreasoning fear of or antipathy toward homosexuals and homosexuality.” (the definition that dictionary.com uses for “homophobia”)
For those for SSM, the separation of Church/State is a compelling argument as well. (assuming that religious grounds make up the bulk of the anti-SSM argument)
But I think only a fool allows himself to be drawn into the “when did you stop beating your wife” as the starting point of the discussion.
So I’m not making an argument for either side, but pointing out that demonizing, or caricaturing your opponent as means of discussing this issue is either ignorant* or disingenuous.
(* From time to time we see a real live “homophobe”’ a small minded, abusive, ignorant, bigot. More often then not, however, we simply use the term to diminish someone we disagree with.)
I think you’re missing the point. I haven’t seen a single argument against gay marriage that doesn’t reduce to an “unreasoning fear of or antipathy towards homosexuals and homosexuality.”
The so-tolerant, not homophobic yorick73 has simply said it will degrade opposite sex marriage. But without any attempt at explaining why. I just don’t see how that can be reasoned, unless based upon an antipathy towards gays.
There is a separation between church and state on this.
The pro-SSM crowd is in no way demanding that a given church or mosque or whatever must perform a SSM. It is entirely up to an individual church/whatever to make their own decision on that. If a SS-couple’s church does not perform SSM they can work to change their church’s policy, find another church or go see a judge.
SSM is all about how the government treats SS-couples to make them on par with hetero-couples in a legal sense and all the benefits and responsibilities that entails. Period.
Religion has nothing to do with it.
Indeed it is the separation of church and state that argues most strongly for SSM and to not let religious dogma decide the issue.
I cannot speak for villa but I think the problem is people like you keep saying there are rational reasons to oppose SSM yet provide nothing in the way of actual reasonable arguments you assert exist to back this up.