# What motivates you to perform oral sex?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-motivates-you-to-perform-oral-sex/660837>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [June 12, 2013, 7:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-motivates-you-to-perform-oral-sex/660837 "2013-06-12T19:22:36Z")\
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**Author:** ![diggerwam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/919ad9/32.png) [@diggerwam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/diggerwam)\
**Post date:** [June 15, 2013, 11:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-motivates-you-to-perform-oral-sex/660837/41 "2013-06-15T11:27:49Z")

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Married het male and I love giving. Recv’ING, eh take it or leave it. Gotta say shy partners suck, I want you to want it, ya know. If you don’t show enthusiasm, I’m gonna assume that you don’t get much from it. And if that’s the case, I dont want to dive in to a place where I’m not wanted.

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**Author:** ![panache45](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/panache45/32/64_2.png) [@panache45](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/panache45)\
**Post date:** [June 15, 2013, 2:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-motivates-you-to-perform-oral-sex/660837/42 "2013-06-15T14:09:54Z")

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> [@Stoid](#):
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> Hmmm. This is interesting to me, given the biological limitations on varieties of activity inherent in gay sex. I hope you won’t be offended if I ask you what you _ **do** _ like, in terms of pleasing your partner? Yes, I get that it is pleasing to him to do it, (just as it is to me) but what about activities that he does like to receive that you like to give that lead to his physical pleasure and release?

You’re assuming so many things; I’ll address only a few:

Whose biological limitations? Can straight couples play with each other’s dick (or foreskin)? Play with each other’s balls? Massage each other’s prostate? Play with each other’s facial hair or chest hair? Each gender’s anatomy involves limitations . . . unless we’re talking about hermaphrodites.

I’ve already told you what I \*\*\*do \*\*\*like in terms of pleasing my partner. And yes, it leads to his “physical pleasure and release.” Physical pleasure and release are not limited to \*\*\*directly \*\*\* stimulating someone’s penis.

We have a fully-equipped dungeon (use your imagination).

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