What movie has changed your life???

Ed Wood–I just find it so inspirational. I mean, Ed Wood had no talent and no concept of what it took to make a movie, but he was so goddamned passionate (I have no idea if the Ed Wood of reality is like the one in the film. Doesn’t really matter). When I’m feeling down about myself and writing, I watch Ed Wood, because, hey, it could always be worse.

Dead Man–I don’t even know how to describe it. I was just a different person after viewing that film.

Adaptation–Made me view the world, my future, my goals, and my beliefs in a completely different way.

American Beauty. It made me hope to keep my love for life forever.
I have to admit I’m wondering how Donnie Darko could change someone’s life…do you mind sharing?

Richard Roeper, a film critic and Ebert’s partner on his show, wrote a book called ‘Ten Sure Signs a Movie Character is Doomed’ containing humorous categories and subcategories of films. In the intro, he admits that a movie is just a movie, but he names three or four that changed the way he, I believe he says, ‘looks at the world.’ The first three I know he wrote, the fourth might just be one he thinks is one of the best ever:

Pulp Fiction

Maltese Falcon

Memento

(Minority Report?)

If you own the book, please quote the exact words he uses- I know it seems silly, but it has significance to me, and I haven’t found it at Barnes and Noble or been able to read it online since I read it more than a year ago. Unless that’s copyright infringement on this site.

Anyway, I respect his opinion, and he has seen just about all the movies, but I disagree on Pulp Fiction and he doesn’t give detail on the Maltese Falcon.

I do my best to deduct that PF changed his perspective by showing that perhaps in a universe of ‘evil men,’ there may be a god-like figure, or just plain fortune, that allows some to become ‘shepherds (of) the weak through the valley of darkness’ that is our world. Some of you who read are rolling your eyes, but try to see past the gimp - there’s some deep stuff in the movie. Yet I disagree, 'cause I see PF as taking place in a seedy universe of pulp stories, homages to many crime and great films, and tarantino’s own ideas, but not as having so much relevance to our world.

The Maltese Falcon? I suppose that maybe, by being the first noir film that sets the stage for all the great films of the genre to come, it introduces us to a universe of ‘the stuff that dreams are made of:’ femme fatales who deceive and lead into a trap, the macguffin of the falcon, the seedy characters, all held together in the aforementioned universe of its own, which at the end brings bitter justice to its characters. But I would say the same as for PF: it’s a film world, not our world, and therefore would not change my life. But I would love to hear what Roeper has to say about this.

Memento I totally get, how it’s all about how we all lie to ourselves to be happy, that life is simply an illusion of our own lies just so we can get on with the charade.

Minority Report? Well, what it says about crime prevention is one thing, but what it says about avoiding your fate- well, all it says when you get past the Spielberg candy-coated action and melodrama is that you can avoid your fate if someone who knows the future tells you what’s gonna happen. Pffttt… I have gotta start reading Philip K. Dick, not let Hollywood alone tell me these stories.

I’m surprised no one’s listed The Matrix yet, but then again, I hope no ONE DOES. :stuck_out_tongue:

Apocalypse Now… my Dad took me to see it in the theatre when it came out. I was around 15 at the time. I had never seen anything like that before. All my movie experiences up to that date had been kid’s movies, adolescent’s movies and some grown up action and/or comedy movies. I had never seen a movie that challenged my concepts of good/evil, right/wrong or madness/sanity before. I remember coming out of the movie somewhat stunned, I hadn’t merely “seen a movie”, I’d had an experience. This will sound somewhat melodramatic, but what the hell… while I can’t say I stopped being a child at that point, I can say that’s when I started not being a child anymore.

My Name is Bill W.
Goodfellas. Took the romance out of the mafia at an age I could have gone either way.

I could mention the movies I love, or those that shocked me, but I really couldn’t point out none that “changed my life”.

Anyway…movies that have impressed me:

“Trainspotting”
“2001: A Space Odyssey”
“Natural Born Killers”

There are many movies that I don’t remeber and have probably shocked me. It’s a bit like when you remeber some dreams and not others.

PD: Caligula (yeah, it’s the ULTIMATE porn movie)

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Almost Famous - I left the theatre and quit my thankless dead-end job.

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I had the exact same reaction, but, since I’m tethered to my job for insurance purposes, I couldn’t quit. It’s also more of an open ended job. Flexible hours, self-directed, generally unsupervised. I was with you in spirit though.

Also, Jerry Seinfeld: Commedian. Watching Seinfeld fumble his way throught a new act, inspired me. I started keeping a material notebook the next day.

I saw the two relatively close together, and they each reinforced the idea: If you can make a living doing something you love, do it.

2001: A space Odyssey- It changed how I think about art. It made me realize that I did not have to understand a work of art completely to enjoy it. It was also the first thing that made me question whether technology was a good thing, even if it wasn’t used to make a weapon. (Yes, I was very young when I saw it.)

Hm… the farther I get in life the fewer things tend to be life changing (I am a ripe 25, after all), and I can’t think of any films (or any art, for that mater) that has been life changing in my adult life.

As far as life shaping goes, though, certainly The Muppet Movie and The Muppets Take Manhattan were pretty significant movies as far as the young Eonwe learning how to be goes.

Adaptation!!!

It’s what you love, not what loves you.
What a revelation. I quit therapy the next day and my life has made a complete turnaround.

Local Hero
Okay, this is pretty corny: the best things in life aren’t things. That movie, my personal favorite, did a good job of illustrating that little phrase, and did it with beauty, wry humor and quirkiness (well before quirkiness became trendy).

Pride & Prejudice (A&E) : Dont’ judge someone by their looks and gossip. Find out for yourself.

I think the movie Office Space gives people a new outlook on life sometimes. It really shows that working as a small cog in a big, meaningless machine is fairly pointless. Great movie.

If you asked me about the best, or even my favorites, I’d have a different answer. “Changed my life”? Well, here are some that got me to look at something–anything–differently:

Hope and Glory
The Rocky Horror Picture Show
Judgment at Nuremburg
Ferris Bueller’s Day Off
(I’m not joking)
Q
Stand By Me
Crumb
Ghost World

Movies? Mabe Star Wars, which I saw when I was a year old, and permanently imprinted me with the Geek Meme. Other than that, I can’t really think of anything.

If you want to talk books, now, I got a list as long as my arm.

Krokodil, do you mean this Q? 'Cause if seeing a movie about a prehistoric flying Mexican lizard that terrorizes Manhattan was a life changing event for you, you may just have become my new favorite poster.

Can’t think of a movie, but the anime series Rurouni Kenshin changed my life.

Through the entire first season and much of the second, Kenshin protects others with little regard for his own life. You get the feeling that because of guilt over what he has done in the past, he doesn’t value his own life or care if he dies. But he keeps living because he has people to protect.

The process by which he discovers the will to live, apart from just living to protect others, changed my outlook on life.

YES YES YES! Lookee here, someone else that thinks that’s just the best movie ever. “Look here, the leg’s clearly broken…”

Also, I don’t know about life changing, but a movie that changed the way I look at death and what comes next was Defending Your Life. Judgement City. What if? Could you defend your life in a trial after it’s over? Show you beat fear and stayed a good person?

Red Swingline Stapler…

Two chicks at once…

Michael Bolton Sucks!
What is not to love about this movie?

Have to agree on Office Space. Flat out great movie.

Personally, and this is probably the hockey geek in me showing, I have to go with Miracle. Whenever I feel like I need a little kick in the behind, I pop it in the DVD player and go straight to “Again.”

I know this is really pathetic, but Bridget Jones’ Diary really made me realize that no matter how shitty I felt I looked, maybe there was someone out there for me, and gave me the strength to keep looking.
I also loved Eternal Sunshine, and I recommend it to people at work (I work for Blockbuster), and this woman came to me tonight and told me that it was the worst movie that she’s ever seen. I was shocked, but I guess de gustibus non est disputandem.
Mr. Holland’s Opus really strengthened my desire to be a teacher. :slight_smile: