# What movie is this humorous sex scene from?

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**Created:** [December 6, 2008, 4:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-movie-is-this-humorous-sex-scene-from/475958 "2008-12-06T04:54:21Z")\
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**Author:** ![Cagey\_Drifter](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/b2d939/32.png) [@Cagey\_Drifter](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cagey_Drifter)\
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Note: during all this I don’t believe any actual nudity is shown; it is only implied (to the best of my recollection, anyway).

I remember seeing a movie clip about 10-14 years ago in which a man is sitting on a chair complaining to a woman about their relationship. He is essentially trying to break up with her, or at the very least suggesting that he doesn’t trust her or respect her anymore. While he’s going on this extended monologue about the pointlessness of their relationship, she begins performing, rather dutifully, sexual acts on him. I don’t remember the exact details of this part, but my recollection is that she initially begins by performing a hand job, then fellatio, then finally she performs a “reverse cowgirl” on him, and they both orgasm together-- interrupting his string of complaints.

What movie is this from? I tried to get an answer on IMDB, but no success…

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**Author:** ![Sage\_Rat](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sage_rat/32/399_2.png) [@Sage\_Rat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sage_Rat)\
**Post date:** [December 6, 2008, 5:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-movie-is-this-humorous-sex-scene-from/475958/2 "2008-12-06T05:03:59Z")

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It’s the beginning scene of The Rock, I suspect.

(Nicolas Cage is the guy)

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**Author:** ![lissener](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lissener/32/6139_2.png) [@lissener](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lissener)\
**Post date:** [December 6, 2008, 5:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-movie-is-this-humorous-sex-scene-from/475958/3 "2008-12-06T05:05:07Z")

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Animal House

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**Author:** ![Cagey\_Drifter](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/b2d939/32.png) [@Cagey\_Drifter](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cagey_Drifter)\
**Post date:** [December 6, 2008, 5:42am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-movie-is-this-humorous-sex-scene-from/475958/4 "2008-12-06T05:42:25Z")

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Hm. The Rock seems too serious a movie; I would suspect it was some kind of romantic comedy. Animal House also doesn’t really match the tone that I remember.

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**Author:** ![Justin\_Bailey](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/justin_bailey/32/8792_2.png) [@Justin\_Bailey](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Justin_Bailey)\
**Post date:** [December 6, 2008, 2:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-movie-is-this-humorous-sex-scene-from/475958/5 "2008-12-06T14:33:23Z")

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> [@Cagey\_Drifter](#):
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> Hm. The Rock seems too serious a movie; I would suspect it was some kind of romantic comedy. Animal House also doesn’t really match the tone that I remember.

It was definitely not The Rock. The only female character is Cage’s girlfriend and they don’t have a sex scene in that movie.

“Your best? Losers always whine about their best. Winners go home and fuck the prom queen.”

“Julie was the prom queen.”

The Rock is one of the best action movies ever.

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**Author:** ![Dunderman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ecb155/32.png) [@Dunderman](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dunderman)\
**Post date:** [December 6, 2008, 2:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-movie-is-this-humorous-sex-scene-from/475958/6 "2008-12-06T14:45:33Z")

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> [@Justin\_Bailey](#):
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> It was definitely not The Rock. The only female character is Cage’s girlfriend and they don’t have a sex scene in that movie.

Yes they do, but it’s nothing like the scene described.

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**Author:** ![Moirai](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/96bed5/32.png) [@Moirai](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Moirai)\
**Post date:** [December 6, 2008, 4:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-movie-is-this-humorous-sex-scene-from/475958/7 "2008-12-06T16:13:48Z")

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> [@Justin\_Bailey](#):
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> It was definitely not The Rock. The only female character is Cage’s girlfriend and they don’t have a sex scene in that movie.

Yes, they do. They are up on the roof early on in the film, Cage is sitting in a chair. She is dressed as a schoolgirl in plaid and pigtails, and she’s bouncing up and down on his lap. Pretty fucking hard to miss! 😉

They are trying to have some kind of conversation in the scene, but he keeps getting distracted…

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**Author:** ![Sage\_Rat](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sage_rat/32/399_2.png) [@Sage\_Rat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sage_Rat)\
**Post date:** [December 6, 2008, 4:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-movie-is-this-humorous-sex-scene-from/475958/8 "2008-12-06T16:39:09Z")

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> [@Priceguy](#):
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> Yes they do, but it’s nothing like the scene described.

Yeah, I was linking the two scenes where he starts by talking about how the world sucks and is going to hell, and then is soon followed by a scene where she’s riding him cowboy style.

But I’d agree that it’s probably not the movie the OP is looking for. (Cage’s character is pretty comedic though.)

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**Author:** ![Justin\_Bailey](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/justin_bailey/32/8792_2.png) [@Justin\_Bailey](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Justin_Bailey)\
**Post date:** [December 6, 2008, 5:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-movie-is-this-humorous-sex-scene-from/475958/9 "2008-12-06T17:28:54Z")

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Well apparently I need to rewatch The Rock…

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**Post date:** [December 6, 2008, 6:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-movie-is-this-humorous-sex-scene-from/475958/10 "2008-12-06T18:11:11Z")

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> [@EJsGirl](#):
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> Yes, they do. They are up on the roof early on in the film, Cage is sitting in a chair. She is dressed as a schoolgirl in plaid and pigtails, and she’s bouncing up and down on his lap. Pretty fucking hard to miss! 😉

Pretty easy to miss as I don’t remember that scene at all (of course since I have only watched ‘The Rock’ (twice) on television, perhaps some editing was involved…:dubious: ),

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**Post date:** [December 6, 2008, 11:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-movie-is-this-humorous-sex-scene-from/475958/11 "2008-12-06T23:18:14Z")

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I don’t remember that scene in _The Rock_ at all. But it’s a moronic fucking movie, so maybe I’ve blocked most of it.

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> [@lissener](#):
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> Animal House

Haven’t seen _The Rock_, but it’s definitely not _Animal House_.

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**Author:** ![control-z](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/eada6e/32.png) [@control-z](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/control-z)\
**Post date:** [December 7, 2008, 2:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-movie-is-this-humorous-sex-scene-from/475958/13 "2008-12-07T02:56:45Z")

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I just skimmed through _The Rock_, and I don’t see any scene like the OP described. The opening scene is a funeral in the rain. The second scene is a military action scene, and the third is Cage hanging out setting off a Rube Goldberg-type device.

About 12 min in Cage is sitting in a chair playing guitar, and his GF comes in and they talk about what happened, then she announces she’s pregnant.

About 25 min in there’s a scene where they’re having sex with her straddling him on a chair on a rooftop, but that’s it, they’re not breaking up or anything. No nudity, no schoolgirl outfit.

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**Author:** ![Cagey\_Drifter](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/b2d939/32.png) [@Cagey\_Drifter](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cagey_Drifter)\
**Post date:** [December 7, 2008, 8:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-movie-is-this-humorous-sex-scene-from/475958/14 "2008-12-07T20:19:22Z")

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Thanks for checking, **control-z.**. But darn, I was hoping to find this movie because that scene was really funny.

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**Post date:** [December 8, 2008, 5:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-movie-is-this-humorous-sex-scene-from/475958/15 "2008-12-08T17:35:11Z")

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was it possibly a porno movie?

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**Author:** ![kasuo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/8c91f0/32.png) [@kasuo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kasuo)\
**Post date:** [December 8, 2008, 6:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-movie-is-this-humorous-sex-scene-from/475958/16 "2008-12-08T18:44:03Z")

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I think you’re thinking of [Harvard Man](http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0242508/).

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**Author:** ![cmkeller](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cmkeller/32/118_2.png) [@cmkeller](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/cmkeller)\
**Post date:** [December 8, 2008, 9:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-movie-is-this-humorous-sex-scene-from/475958/17 "2008-12-08T21:05:56Z")

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It sounds a bit like something in Wedding Crashers, the Vince Vaughn character having “bitten off” more than he could sexually “chew”.

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**Author:** ![ShibbOleth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/848f3c/32.png) [@ShibbOleth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ShibbOleth)\
**Post date:** [December 8, 2008, 9:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-movie-is-this-humorous-sex-scene-from/475958/18 "2008-12-08T21:46:55Z")

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It’s also similar to some of the scenes in the movie “Love, Actually”, although not quite like that. The film is a series of vignettes and there are several that are matter of fact discussions during takes of a porno.

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**Post date:** [December 8, 2008, 9:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-movie-is-this-humorous-sex-scene-from/475958/19 "2008-12-08T21:50:04Z")

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Gone in Sixty Seconds has a similar scene but you probably wouldn’t have seen it 10-15 years ago.
