# What movies appeal equally to both men and women?

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**Created:** [March 21, 2024, 11:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-movies-appeal-equally-to-both-men-and-women/999137 "2024-03-21T11:47:05Z")\
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**Author:** ![Maserschmidt](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/maserschmidt/32/18829_2.png) [@Maserschmidt](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Maserschmidt)\
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In a different direction,

Twilight : 4.9, 5.9  
Divergent: 6.4, 7.3  
Sex and the City: 4.9, 6.6

I suspect if there’s a bigger spread on a movie than that last one, it isn’t by much.

ETA Ghostbusters 2016: 4.9, 6.4. Close.

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> [@ASanders](#):
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> Films like The Sting, Silverado, The Untouchables, L.A. Story, and so on.

May I say, you have exceptionally good taste. _L.A. Story_ is not very well known, but I love it. It’s clearly a rom-com, and there’s not much action, but there’s something charmingly goofy about it.

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> [@Maserschmidt](#):
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> ETA Ghostbusters 2016: 4.9, 6.4. Close.

More recent movies will have to be pro-rated [due to potential review bombing](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_review-bombing_incidents#Film_and_television). A lot of the male downvotes are likely motivated by things other than the actual quality of the movie.

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Tombstone

When Harry met Sally

City Slickers

The Fugitive

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> [@Dinsdale](#):
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> I watched Barbie yesterday - and my conclusion (right or wrong) was that women would have been more likely to enjoy it than men.

Not according to my Think Tank …otherwise known as _Older Dads Who Wind Up At The Bar After Supper._ We think that people (and Hollywood fat cats) assume that “guys like this, but gals like the opposite”.

If men like explosions more, and women like “meet cutes” more, that leaves a huge middle ground of movies we can’t call a Guy Movie or a Chick Flick.

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Since _My Cousin Vinny_ was already mentioned, I’ll add _The Sixth Sense_.

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There are some romances and romantic comedies that appeal to both men and women, like When Harry Met Sally, Once, and Roman Holiday.

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_Titanic_ is mostly a chick-flick. The guys are waiting 90-minutes for the iceberg to hit. It’s a disaster movie (guy thing) with a romantic story tacked on to fill time.

Everyone loves _The Princess Bride_ though. And _The Wizard of Oz_.

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I think it’s bullshit to think guys aren’t into romantic stories, macho-posturing aside.

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I’m a man and I am a sucker for romantic stories. Especially rom-coms. So cheesy but I like them.

I found the romance for _Titanic_ to just be filler though. They had to do something other than sink the ship else it would be more documentary.

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> [@Maserschmidt](#):
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> Sex and the City: 4.9, 6.6
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> I suspect if there’s a bigger spread on a movie than that last one, it isn’t by much.

What surprises me is that women only give it a 6.6. I would imagine there would be possible movies that women REALLY liked, but men didn’t (or the opposite.)

What is the most recent movie listed - 5 yrs ago?

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**Post date:** [March 22, 2024, 1:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-movies-appeal-equally-to-both-men-and-women/999137/52 "2024-03-22T13:09:41Z")

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_North By Northwest_

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_Clue_

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Murder mysteries aren’t very gendered, are they? I’d think movies like _Knives Out_ are pretty equal in their fandom.

What about the Star Wars and Star Trek franchises?

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All great suggestions.

My Wife and I share our taste in movies, music and just about everything except mushrooms on pizza.

I did not see American Beauty suggested above, so I’ll suggest that.

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> [@Left\_Hand\_of\_Dorkness](#):
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> _Knives Out_

At last - a relatively recent suggestion.

Made me think of the Roger Craig James Bond movies. I could imagine those having wide gender appeal.

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> [@Dinsdale](#):
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> the Roger Craig James Bond movies

Roger Moore + Daniel Craig?

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_Rocky Horror_

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I think the James Bond movies in general have a lot of cross-gender appeal, much more than most action movies.

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_Young Frankenstein_

_Blazing Saddles_

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