# What music was playing when you lost your virginity?

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**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [November 15, 2012, 8:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-music-was-playing-when-you-lost-your-virginity/641069 "2012-11-15T08:15:26Z")\
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**Author:** ![pulykamell](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/pulykamell/32/3166_2.png) [@pulykamell](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pulykamell)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2012, 3:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-music-was-playing-when-you-lost-your-virginity/641069/21 "2012-11-15T15:15:07Z")

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I don’t think there was any, nor do I even exactly remember where I lost my virginity. I do remember my first kiss, though. No music there, either.

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**Author:** ![johnpost](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/f17d59/32.png) [@johnpost](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/johnpost)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2012, 3:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-music-was-playing-when-you-lost-your-virginity/641069/22 "2012-11-15T15:24:01Z")

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not me but some people probably intentionally listened to and did

Paradise by the Dashboard Light

in the front seat of a car. there might even be a fan club or something.

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**Author:** ![Loach](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/loach/32/350_2.png) [@Loach](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Loach)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2012, 3:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-music-was-playing-when-you-lost-your-virginity/641069/23 "2012-11-15T15:25:24Z")

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Ride of the Valkyries. It was epic.

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**Author:** ![Isamu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/7c8e57/32.png) [@Isamu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Isamu)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2012, 3:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-music-was-playing-when-you-lost-your-virginity/641069/24 "2012-11-15T15:32:43Z")

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G.I. Blues

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**Author:** ![Living\_Well\_Is\_Best\_Revenge](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/6bbea6/32.png) [@Living\_Well\_Is\_Best\_Revenge](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Living_Well_Is_Best_Revenge)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2012, 3:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-music-was-playing-when-you-lost-your-virginity/641069/25 "2012-11-15T15:37:19Z")

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The Cranberries first album in 1993. Haha.

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**Author:** ![TriPolar](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tripolar/32/3008_2.png) [@TriPolar](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TriPolar)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2012, 3:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-music-was-playing-when-you-lost-your-virginity/641069/26 "2012-11-15T15:54:26Z")

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Hallelujah Chorus. At least that’s what I was hearing.

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**Author:** ![Lars\_Aruns](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/c68b51/32.png) [@Lars\_Aruns](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lars_Aruns)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2012, 4:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-music-was-playing-when-you-lost-your-virginity/641069/27 "2012-11-15T16:12:05Z")

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It was an odd one for me. [This one](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Olias_of_sunhillow). _Olias of Sunhillow_ by Jon Anderson. Very New agey prog rock. I still like it a lot, but man, listening to it feels weird sometimes.

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**Author:** ![Phila444](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ba8739/32.png) [@Phila444](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Phila444)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2012, 4:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-music-was-playing-when-you-lost-your-virginity/641069/28 "2012-11-15T16:34:14Z")

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“Bittersweet Symphony” by The Verve is the only one I specifically remember

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**Author:** ![Yorikke](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/yorikke/32/4335_2.png) [@Yorikke](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Yorikke)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2012, 4:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-music-was-playing-when-you-lost-your-virginity/641069/29 "2012-11-15T16:49:45Z")

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None. I’m certain that the room did not have a radio or stereo system at all, and the TV would have been off.

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**Post date:** [November 15, 2012, 4:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-music-was-playing-when-you-lost-your-virginity/641069/30 "2012-11-15T16:52:27Z")

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> [@Jophiel](#):
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> We were watching “Ed Wood”. Obviously the movie didn’t hold our attention.

If there was a male involved (I don’t know if you are M or F or straight or gay or whatever) was his name “Ed?”

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**Author:** ![Ludy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/d6d6ee/32.png) [@Ludy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ludy)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2012, 4:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-music-was-playing-when-you-lost-your-virginity/641069/31 "2012-11-15T16:56:06Z")

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Since my boyfriend at the time was obsessed with them, I would say most likely The Bare Naked Ladies.

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**Author:** ![Yorikke](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/yorikke/32/4335_2.png) [@Yorikke](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Yorikke)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2012, 5:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-music-was-playing-when-you-lost-your-virginity/641069/32 "2012-11-15T17:17:47Z")

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> [@Ludy](#):
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> Since my boyfriend at the time was obsessed with them, I would say most likely The Bare Naked Ladies.

Obsessed with at least one barenaked lady…

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**Post date:** [November 15, 2012, 5:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-music-was-playing-when-you-lost-your-virginity/641069/33 "2012-11-15T17:27:53Z")

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The End by the Doors.

Wonderfully, deliciously ironic. 😛

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**Author:** ![gaffa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/e68b1a/32.png) [@gaffa](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gaffa)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2012, 5:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-music-was-playing-when-you-lost-your-virginity/641069/34 "2012-11-15T17:40:27Z")

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The soundtrack of _The Rocky Horror Picture Show_ from the theater upstairs.

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**Post date:** [November 15, 2012, 5:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-music-was-playing-when-you-lost-your-virginity/641069/35 "2012-11-15T17:42:53Z")

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> [@Krokodil](#):
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> We were walking back to the dorm from a Taj Mahal nightclub gig and did the nasty at the side of the Psychology building.

Can’t say I blame you. A friend of mine who is friends with Taj says that he has 17 kids with a variety of women.

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**Post date:** [November 15, 2012, 5:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-music-was-playing-when-you-lost-your-virginity/641069/36 "2012-11-15T17:44:53Z")

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I don’t actually remember but I strongly suspect it was the album _Maxinquaye_ by Tricky. That and _Dummy_ by Portishead were my go-to shag albums of the mid-90s.

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**Post date:** [November 15, 2012, 6:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-music-was-playing-when-you-lost-your-virginity/641069/37 "2012-11-15T18:28:43Z")

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It was outside during the summer so there were birds singing, wind in the trees, etc.

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**Post date:** [November 15, 2012, 6:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-music-was-playing-when-you-lost-your-virginity/641069/38 "2012-11-15T18:47:52Z")

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I really don’t know, but if there was music it was probably some sort of early 90’s slow jam R&B.

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**Author:** ![3\_20\_59\_or\_bust](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/3/47e85d/32.png) [@3\_20\_59\_or\_bust](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/3_20_59_or_bust)\
**Post date:** [November 15, 2012, 7:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-music-was-playing-when-you-lost-your-virginity/641069/39 "2012-11-15T19:38:03Z")

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I don’t remember any music, but I was so f’n nervous at the time, I may have just missed it.

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**Post date:** [November 15, 2012, 7:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-music-was-playing-when-you-lost-your-virginity/641069/40 "2012-11-15T19:46:01Z")

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I don’t remember the exact songs playing during the act. This was long ago… 1978 when I was as horny as a little devil. I was 15, which answers the question of the thread that inspired this one. I wasn’t nervous because we were pretty familiar with each others’…er…bodies. In the weeks before there had been a lot of heavy petting prior to the official "deflowering."After my dad left for the office my boyfriend came over and we spent the day playing hooky from school, getting stoned, rating the fridge and rolling around on my waterbed. Most definitely we had to have listened to Led Zeppelin, they were one of my favorite bands at the time. The only song that I distinctly remember hearing at some point was, Wish You Were Here, by Pink Floyd. He also had his guitar with him and played for a while.  
Good times.

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