# What proportion of women who give blowjobs like to do so? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [February 9, 2003, 1:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800 "2003-02-09T01:56:34Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![matt\_mcl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7ab992/32.png) [@matt\_mcl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/matt_mcl)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2003, 1:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/1 "2003-02-09T01:56:34Z")
Of those men who give blowjobs, I know a hell of a lot like to do so, and in fact specifically want to and take steps to do so. However, I’ve never heard a woman say, “Damn, I’d like to suck someone’s cock right about now.” I know I really enjoy it. Women, how about you? Commentary? ---
**Author:** ![Batsinma\_Belfry](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/ea5d25/32.png) [@Batsinma\_Belfry](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Batsinma_Belfry)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2003, 2:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/2 "2003-02-09T02:07:36Z")
Yep, I enjoy it. NOT like \* “Damn, I’d like to suck someone’s cock right about now.” \* But if there’s going to be sexual activity anyway, I always try to include it. ---
**Author:** ![SylverOne](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c0e974/32.png) [@SylverOne](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SylverOne)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2003, 2:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/3 "2003-02-09T02:18:48Z")
When the moment presents itself, I like to take advantage of it, but not to the excess that I’ll be sitting in my office in the middle of the day thinking to myself, “You know, I could do with a cock in my mouth right now.” Otherwise, I consider it one of my ‘specialties.’ Something I like to do, and something I’m told I do very well. Yes, it’s something of a power trip, but not in a demeaning way. I don’t give blowjobs to get my way, win an argument, or demean my husband. Though I think if I asked for a million dollars and a Maserati at an opportune moment, he’d probably be willing to rob a bank and steal a car for me! 😃 And I’m _soooo_ glad no one can see me sitting at this desk blushing like crazy! _ha_ ---
**Author:** ![Witch](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/258eb7/32.png) [@Witch](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Witch)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2003, 2:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/4 "2003-02-09T02:25:36Z")
Meh. Does nothing for me sexually and makes my jaw hurt for an hour afterwards(which I’m sure is why it does nothing for me sexually). When I do it I do it because he enjoys it so much, and no other reason. ---
**Author:** ![Ringo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/779978/32.png) [@Ringo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ringo)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2003, 2:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/5 "2003-02-09T02:30:48Z")
Too bad **KayKay** ’s gone. _sniff_ ---
**Author:** ![Nocturne](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/9fc348/32.png) [@Nocturne](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nocturne)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2003, 2:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/6 "2003-02-09T02:36:03Z")
> [@](#): > > “Damn, I’d like to suck someone’s cock right about now.” Actually…yeah, that about describes it. The act of giving a blowjob is my favorite thing to do, even trumping HIM doing things to ME. It does make my jaw ache a little, but the…reaction I get takes care of that. I hear I’m very talented. ---
**Author:** ![Essured](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/278dde/32.png) [@Essured](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Essured)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2003, 2:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/7 "2003-02-09T02:55:10Z")
Yep. I enjoy giving my husband a blowjob. Not sure what sort of commentary you’re interested in 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Forbin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/5e9695/32.png) [@Forbin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Forbin)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2003, 3:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/8 "2003-02-09T03:43:20Z")
I shall never forget her. Whew! ---
**Author:** ![Persephone](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ecc23a/32.png) [@Persephone](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Persephone)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2003, 3:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/9 "2003-02-09T03:55:25Z")
> [@](#): > > When the moment presents itself, I like to take advantage of it, but not to the excess that I’ll be sitting in my office in the middle of the day thinking to myself, “You know, I could do with a cock in my mouth right now.” That’s my line of thinking as well. So chalk up another woman in the “I do it because I like it” category. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![matt\_mcl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7ab992/32.png) [@matt\_mcl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/matt_mcl)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2003, 4:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/10 "2003-02-09T04:27:45Z")
Women who enjoy bjs: what part about it do you like? The only response I’ve seen is his reaction, but the main thing for me is how it feels in my mouth and the (pre-ejaculatory) taste. ---
**Author:** ![Essured](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/278dde/32.png) [@Essured](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Essured)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2003, 4:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/11 "2003-02-09T04:37:32Z")
What do I like about BJ’s ? - the reaction, of course 😃 - the taste (nothing like freshly-washed cock in the morning) - the power, - the intimacy, - the contours of the penis/head, - the giving aspect, - the reaction, of course 😃 😃 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Cosmopolitan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/94ad74/32.png) [@Cosmopolitan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cosmopolitan)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2003, 4:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/12 "2003-02-09T04:43:56Z")
I second **Goo** ’s response concerning everything but the taste, which I could take or leave, honestly. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Essured](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/278dde/32.png) [@Essured](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Essured)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2003, 5:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/13 "2003-02-09T05:05:55Z")
I was seconding **Matt’s** taste comment which had the pre-ejaculation qualification 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Forbin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/5e9695/32.png) [@Forbin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Forbin)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2003, 5:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/14 "2003-02-09T05:11:48Z")
The thread, “What vacuum should I buy” is at this very moment sequential to this one. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![betenoir](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/258eb7/32.png) [@betenoir](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/betenoir)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2003, 5:16am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/15 "2003-02-09T05:16:55Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by matt\_mcl \* > \*\*However, I’ve never heard a woman say, “Damn, I’d like to suck someone’s cock right about now.” > > \*\* Okay. Ahem. Damn, I’d like to suck someone’s cock right about now. Now you’ve heard it. Well, ok, not technically. I guess I could send you an mp3… Generally I rate it just below actual fucking and right above all other human passtimes. Why? Well, there’s the taste and the smell. It’s soooo…intimate. And the penatration. It doesn’t feel as good as genital penetration, to be sure, but I like the idea of penetration. Sex as (consensual) violation. And there’s the fact that it’s, on the one hand, a submissive act (on your knees and all) and on the other, you have all the power. Ambiguity is so hot. ---
**Author:** ![Venoma](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/c4cdca/32.png) [@Venoma](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Venoma)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2003, 5:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/16 "2003-02-09T05:30:43Z")
I’ve had those moments when I was sitting at the office and thinking ‘Damn, I’d like to suck my SO’s cock right now.’ but didn’t vocalize. Mostly because the guys in the office might offer to be a stand-in, so to speak. My jaw is rather sore at the moment, normally I quite enjoy giving head - the feel, the (pre-ejaculate) taste, the reaction, everything. HOWEVER. For me to really WANT to my other sexual needs have to be fed as well. If I haven’t been getting laid often, I’m not really gonna wanna give head. ---
**Author:** ![XJETGIRLX](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/x/9fc29f/32.png) [@XJETGIRLX](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/XJETGIRLX)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2003, 5:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/17 "2003-02-09T05:54:16Z")
I think for me it might be an oral fixation thing, but I definitely enjoy it a great deal. I find that I’m not satisfied unless my mouth is active in some way, so giving oral pleasure is the most expedient way to do that. That said, it is all in all a quite rigorous ordeal for me, as I’ve got TMJ and a very small mouth. My dentist has told me I have the smallest mouth of any adult he’s ever seen. I think part of the appeal is the intimacy, and the ability to control your partner’s level of pleasure. Also, being able to repay hubby for all the wonderful things he does in a manner that he appreciates to a very great extent is always a good thing 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Persephone](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ecc23a/32.png) [@Persephone](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Persephone)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2003, 6:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/18 "2003-02-09T06:03:45Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by matt\_mcl \* > \*\*Women who enjoy bjs: what part about it do you like? Sex is such an intimate thing. But there’s something about giving head that, to me, is even more intimate than penis/vagina intercourse, if you will. The man’s penis is just _right there,_ literally, in my face. I can see it, taste it, and smell it. I can touch it (which is doable, but a little more awkward, IMHO, during regular intercourse). It allows me to pay a lot of attention to my partner’s penis. Full-body contact during sex is wonderful, and I do love that too. But sometimes…you’ve just got to zero in a bit. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![GuanoLad](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guanolad/32/42_2.png) [@GuanoLad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GuanoLad)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2003, 11:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/19 "2003-02-09T11:53:16Z")
Woohah! ---
**Author:** ![Texican](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ebca7d/32.png) [@Texican](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Texican)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2003, 2:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/20 "2003-02-09T14:39:06Z")
I have been fortunate in life to have known a few women who liked it so much that they thought that we guys were doing them a favor by letting them perform. I remember one girl in high school who never had a problem finding a ride home from a party because she would ALWAYS offer to give head. I remember another girl who no one would kiss at parties because she was known for giving lots of guys hummers in a given night. She was real shy, quiet in “regular” life, but get a couple of beers in her and she was on a hunt for man juice. [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800.md?page=2)