# What proportion of women who give blowjobs like to do so? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [February 9, 2003, 1:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800 "2003-02-09T01:56:34Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 5
**Author:** ![Davebear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/bcef8e/32.png) [@Davebear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Davebear)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2003, 5:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/81 "2003-03-29T05:04:00Z")
How the HELL did I miss _this_ thread, the first time??? > [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Pammipoo \* > \*\*I really enjoy giving them. A lot. Of course, actual sex is preferable, but a BJ is a very close second. I love the visable reaction you can get out of a guy from sucking him off… > > Damn I need a fckbuddy… \*\* You _are_ coming to the Boston Mini-Dope, aren’t you? So…how YOU doin’? 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Honeydew\_1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/e19b73/32.png) [@Honeydew\_1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Honeydew_1)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2003, 4:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/82 "2003-03-29T16:23:06Z")
I love it … adore it… everything about it … taste, feel, sense of touch, the intimacy, the smell… there is so nothing wrong with it at all… God I want bf’s cock right now !!! ---
**Author:** ![FaerieBeth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/e95f7d/32.png) [@FaerieBeth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FaerieBeth)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2003, 4:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/83 "2003-03-29T16:57:19Z")
_blushing furiously_ I’m going to weigh in on the ‘I love it!’ side. I do! Hubby seems to think I’m pretty good at it, too. btw-nobody has mentioned this yet- am I the only girl who likes for her hubby/SO to ‘fuck her mouth’ while she ‘double clicks her mouse’? _still blushing_ ---
**Author:** ![Davebear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/bcef8e/32.png) [@Davebear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Davebear)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2003, 8:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/84 "2003-03-29T20:53:51Z")
I neglected to address the “oral fixation” question. My GF has one, to some extent. She was a long term thumb sucker, and is currently a smoker. She does not put other things in her mouth, though. Unfortunately, this includes me. She just doesn’t enjoy it, which pretty much takes the shine off it, for me. I’ve also started a followup thread, based on this poll. You can find it [here](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?s=&threadid=173531), if you’re so inclined. (My first cross-link on this board! Woohoo! ;)) Oh, and **Pammipoo** , sorry about doing the “How YOU doin’?” gag to you a second time. I’d forgotten **Payne N. Diaz** had already done it. ---
**Author:** ![samarm](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/4da419/32.png) [@samarm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/samarm)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2003, 10:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/85 "2003-03-29T22:28:45Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by FaerieBeth \* > **…am I the only girl who likes for her hubby/SO to ‘fuck her mouth’ while she ‘double clicks her mouse’?..** Mind if I use this as a sig? 😉 Never tried this, but it sounds interesting. I’ll suggest it to SO sometime. ---
**Author:** ![lorinada](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/b5e925/32.png) [@lorinada](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lorinada)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2003, 11:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/86 "2003-03-29T23:12:19Z")
I have a great oral fixation. I always have to have something in my mouth. Now that I no longer smoke it is usually gum or mints. I also enjoy using my mouth and tongue during sex. I hate blow jobs. I will do it if my SO of the moment really likes them, but there is absolutely nothing about them that I enjoy. I don’t mind a little bit of mouth or tongue action down there, but an actual blow job gives me absolutely no pleasure. I only do it to be accomodating, because I think a healthy relationship requires a little give and take and sacrifice. BTW, I also don’t enjoy being on the receiving end of oral sex, either. I guess I’m one for the books! ---
**Author:** ![Medea\_s\_Child](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/8baadc/32.png) [@Medea\_s\_Child](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Medea_s_Child)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2003, 1:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/87 "2003-03-30T01:34:58Z")
I like giving oral. A lot. But the people that I say “Damn, I need to suck a cock right this second!” too are generally people who are willing to take me up on the offer. So, generally not any of my gay friends. Though most of my friends are aware of my likes in that arena, I think. ---
**Author:** ![Simbelmyne](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/258eb7/32.png) [@Simbelmyne](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Simbelmyne)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2003, 3:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/88 "2003-03-30T03:03:41Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Witch \* > \*\*Meh. Does nothing for me sexually and makes my jaw hurt for an hour afterwards(which I’m sure is why it does nothing for me sexually). When I do it I do it because he enjoys it so much, and no other reason. \*\* I am _so_ disenchanted…☹ Originally posted by FaerieBeth …am I the only girl who likes for her hubby/SO to ‘fuck her mouth’ while she ‘double clicks her mouse’?.. I dub thee an honorary Pagan. Blessed Be:) ---
**Author:** ![matt\_mcl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7ab992/32.png) [@matt\_mcl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/matt_mcl)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2003, 3:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/89 "2003-03-30T03:08:17Z")
um… I must have been asleep on the day in Witch School where they told us you have to love giving oral sex in order to be a part of this religion. ---
**Author:** ![FaerieBeth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/e95f7d/32.png) [@FaerieBeth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FaerieBeth)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2003, 4:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/90 "2003-03-30T04:03:21Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by samarm \* > \*\*Mind if I use this as a sig? 😉 > \*\* I don’t mind at all 😉 It will give hubby something to reminisce about while he spends all those boring hours at work reading through the boards! > [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by samarm \* > \*\*Never tried this, but it sounds interesting. I’ll suggest it to SO sometime. \*\* I cannot recommend this highly enough!!! FB ---
**Author:** ![Badge](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/4bbf92/32.png) [@Badge](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Badge)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2003, 5:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/91 "2003-03-30T05:08:28Z")
I’ve just got to say that **I love all you ladies!** Just knowing that there are women out there who really love giving blow jobs makes me happy, even if I’ll never enjoy the benefits. Especially you, **FaerieBeth**. This line _“am I the only girl who likes for her hubby/SO to ‘fuck her mouth’ while she ‘double clicks her mouse’?”_ made me dizzy!! 🙂 BTW, it’s been about 7years for me, and I have no hope for a change in policy. ☹ ---
**Author:** ![Daerlyn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/898d66/32.png) [@Daerlyn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Daerlyn)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2003, 10:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/92 "2003-03-30T10:57:47Z")
Hmm. I don’t _hate_ giving bj’s, but in my perfect world they’d occur extremely rarely. OTOH, according to public opinion I’m very good at them, so I occasionally just suck it up. (pun intended) 😛 I _do_ hate deep-throating, as I’ve got this industrial-strength gag reflex. ☹ I’d probably like bj’s in general a lot more were it not for that. ---
**Author:** ![anya\_marie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ebca7d/32.png) [@anya\_marie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/anya_marie)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2003, 1:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/93 "2003-03-30T13:21:44Z")
I’ll give them, but do not have anyone to practice upon at the moment. ---
**Author:** ![Badge](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/4bbf92/32.png) [@Badge](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Badge)\ **Post date:** [April 2, 2003, 3:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/94 "2003-04-02T03:36:30Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by anya marie \* > \*\*I’ll give them, but do not have anyone to practice upon at the moment. \*\* Lord, it can’t be that hard to find volunteers for that!! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Pammipoo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/87869e/32.png) [@Pammipoo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Pammipoo)\ **Post date:** [April 2, 2003, 11:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/95 "2003-04-02T23:29:10Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Davebear \* > \*\*How the HELL did I miss _this_ thread, the first time??? > > You _are_ coming to the Boston Mini-Dope, aren’t you? So…how YOU doin’? 😉 \*\* I’ll be there with bells on! (And really, I don’t mind getting the infamous line more than once 😉 ) ---
**Author:** ![thaeryn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/2acd7d/32.png) [@thaeryn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/thaeryn)\ **Post date:** [March 27, 2005, 2:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/96 "2005-03-27T02:46:42Z")
> [@SylverOne](#): > > When the moment presents itself, I like to take advantage of it, but not to the excess that I’ll be sitting in my office in the middle of the day thinking to myself, “You know, I could do with a cock in my mouth right now.” > > Otherwise, I consider it one of my ‘specialties.’ Something I like to do, and something I’m told I do very well. Ditto ---
**Author:** ![thaeryn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/2acd7d/32.png) [@thaeryn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/thaeryn)\ **Post date:** [March 27, 2005, 2:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/97 "2005-03-27T02:53:34Z")
> [@SlowMindThinking](#): > > Anybody else notice that all these women who like to give head are in a committed relationship? I’m not ☹ ---
**Author:** ![Abbie\_Carmichael](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/49beb7/32.png) [@Abbie\_Carmichael](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Abbie_Carmichael)\ **Post date:** [March 27, 2005, 7:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/98 "2005-03-27T07:13:55Z")
What **Witch** said. I’m sort of in the “hurts my jaw but I’ll do it anyway” camp. I have a (single) friend who’s _nuts_ about it, though, she’s a freak when it comes to that. I’m surprised she doesn’t have guys camped out on her doorstep. **I’ve always wondered if there was a correlation between women who have oral fixations (smokers and people who found it hard to give up thumb sucking, mostly?) and those who enjoy giving oral sex. hmmmm.** This is an interesting thought and may deserve its own polling thread, I think. I never sucked my thumb, took a pacifier and I gave up smoking the second I decided I wanted to. PS: Some of ya’ll are _nasty!_ 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Shana](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/3bc359/32.png) [@Shana](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shana)\ **Post date:** [March 27, 2005, 8:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/99 "2005-03-27T08:25:46Z")
I enjoy giving my husband blow jobs and hand jobs. His reaction is the best part. And yes, the power and the closeness…Pretty much every aspect I like 😉 ---
**Author:** ![melondeca](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b5a626/32.png) [@melondeca](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/melondeca)\ **Post date:** [March 27, 2005, 2:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800/100 "2005-03-27T14:33:04Z")
> [@FaerieBeth](#): > > am I the only girl who likes for her hubby/SO to ‘fuck her mouth’ while she ‘double clicks her mouse’? You are NOT the only one who enjoys this. It combines two of my very favorite activities so why shouldn’t I love it. I have always thought that BJ’s should be doled out like vitamins…one should be given every day. :o [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800.md?page=4) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-proportion-of-women-who-give-blowjobs-like-to-do-so/153800.md?page=6)