# What scenes always bring tears to your eyes, for non plot / acting reasons?

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**Created:** [November 1, 2009, 12:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-scenes-always-bring-tears-to-your-eyes-for-non-plot-acting-reasons/515896 "2009-11-01T00:55:42Z")\
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For me it’s the chariot race in _Ben Hur_. I don’t think I’ve even see the whole film but if it’s on I’ll always watch the race. It’s so freaking awesome - the constant rumble of hooves and wheels, the portrayal of the terrifying reality of Roman sport, the actual danger that the actors and horses were in when doing the filming, the decision to make a scene in a film so long, the horses, everything.

Another is when the Lancasters take off in _Dambusters_ - not for jingoistic reasons (though they wouldn’t be totally unreasonable) but for the noise of the freaking engines, and the efforts in the face of adversity that were being made by people at that time.

A happier one is when Stewie Griffin dances with Gene Kelly.

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**Post date:** [November 1, 2009, 1:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-scenes-always-bring-tears-to-your-eyes-for-non-plot-acting-reasons/515896/2 "2009-11-01T01:45:49Z")

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I’m a sucker for the dramatic - it took my breath away when they lit the beacons from Gondor to Rohan, even though it’s a silly scene for a lot of reasons.

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Any scene where someone’s cutting up onions.

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**Post date:** [November 1, 2009, 10:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-scenes-always-bring-tears-to-your-eyes-for-non-plot-acting-reasons/515896/4 "2009-11-01T22:10:11Z")

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The singing of the Marseilles in **Casablanca**. It always gets me.

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“When Somebody Loved Me” in _Toy Story 2_, and the [montage of Carl and Ellie’s life together](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GroDErHIM_0) in _Up_. Genius animation, although in the case of Toy Story 2, Joan Cusac’s brilliant acting both sets up and delivers the real emotional punch of the scene, though I’m usually weeping long before the song ends and Woody says “I had no idea” and Jesse says “Just go”. One of the most beautiful songs Randy Newman has ever written - then he goes and finally wins an Oscar for one of his worst.

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**Post date:** [November 1, 2009, 11:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-scenes-always-bring-tears-to-your-eyes-for-non-plot-acting-reasons/515896/6 "2009-11-01T23:51:38Z")

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The last sequence in the “Sunshine Through the Rain” sequence of Akira Kurosawa’s _Dreams_. The imagery is just so breathtaking, it always brings tears to my eyes.

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**Post date:** [November 2, 2009, 12:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-scenes-always-bring-tears-to-your-eyes-for-non-plot-acting-reasons/515896/7 "2009-11-02T00:02:38Z")

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In _Firefly_, the episode _Out of Gas_. At the end, when Mal starts to fall asleep, then jerks awake and asks, voice cracking a little, “Y’all gonna be here when I wake up?” This man just about kills himself to watch after his crew, never asking anything more of them than that they do their jobs, but just for that one moment the wall cracks and the tough man’s need for reassurance comes through. It’s damn near heartbreaking.

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**Post date:** [November 2, 2009, 12:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-scenes-always-bring-tears-to-your-eyes-for-non-plot-acting-reasons/515896/8 "2009-11-02T00:36:15Z")

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Can it be animals? Any movie with animals, happy or (god forbid) sad, makes me tear up, i.e. Homeward Bound: the Incredible Journey, when the dogs and cat are reunited with their owners.

Can it be TV? ER episode, Love’s Labour Lost. I need say no more.

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> [@Scheidt-Hoch](#):
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> For me it’s the chariot race in _Ben Hur_. I don’t think I’ve even see the whole film but if it’s on I’ll always watch the race. It’s so freaking awesome - the constant rumble of hooves and wheels, the portrayal of the terrifying reality of Roman sport, the actual danger that the actors and horses were in when doing the filming, the decision to make a scene in a film so long, the horses, everything.

Oh man! The chariot race!

I took Latin in junior high and high school, and every year we watched Ben Hur. This was the mid-'80s, so people were still using regular movie projectors for this stuff.

All I’ve gotta say is this–If you think the scene is awesome as it is, try watching it in reverse!

And how cool was it that our teacher would run it in reverse for us? Multiple times too!

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**Post date:** [November 2, 2009, 2:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-scenes-always-bring-tears-to-your-eyes-for-non-plot-acting-reasons/515896/10 "2009-11-02T02:56:00Z")

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> [@Zsofia](#):
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> I’m a sucker for the dramatic - it took my breath away when they lit the beacons from Gondor to Rohan, even though it’s a silly scene for a lot of reasons.

I came into this thread to say this (well, minus the silly part :D). The music and the cinematography in that scene were amazing.

From the same film, Pippin’s song for Denethor gives me goosebumps every time I hear it. The juxtaposition of Denethor’s court plus Faramir’s crew getting attacked was perfect. Also, Billy Boyd has an awesome voice.

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**Post date:** [November 2, 2009, 3:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-scenes-always-bring-tears-to-your-eyes-for-non-plot-acting-reasons/515896/11 "2009-11-02T03:18:55Z")

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the ending of Futurama’s episode Jurassic Bark.

won’t spoil it for people so if you can find the episode online or from a friend try watching the end.

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**Post date:** [November 2, 2009, 3:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-scenes-always-bring-tears-to-your-eyes-for-non-plot-acting-reasons/515896/12 "2009-11-02T03:27:49Z")

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> [@Maiira](#):
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> I came into this thread to say this (well, minus the silly part :D). The music and the cinematography in that scene were amazing.
> 
> From the same film, Pippin’s song for Denethor gives me goosebumps every time I hear it. The juxtaposition of Denethor’s court plus Faramir’s crew getting attacked was perfect. Also, Billy Boyd has an awesome voice.

Mine is yet another ROTK moment: The charge of the Rohirrim at the final battle. Beautiful scene.

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The end of Back To The Future Part III, with Doc’s locomotive.

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You can always get me, in a movie, with one of two things in a funeral scene: The riderless horse, or pilots flying the “missing man” formation.

It doesn’t matter if the character deserved to die, or even if I actively wanted the character’s death, this still gets me. Every time.

I mean, if I were watching the funeral of the real life Idi Amin, say, and they did the bit with the riderless horse, I would probably weep buckets.

This will definitely be a scene in my screenplay.

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Spock’s funeral, for the way Scotty’s playing “Amazing Grace” on the bagpipes merges into the orchestral version as Spock’s coffin wings over the Genesis planet.

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> [@BMada](#):
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> the ending of Futurama’s episode Jurassic Bark.
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> won’t spoil it for people so if you can find the episode online or from a friend try watching the end.

This +1.

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> [@Maiira](#):
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> I came into this thread to say this (well, minus the silly part :D). The music and the cinematography in that scene were amazing.
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> From the same film, Pippin’s song for Denethor gives me goosebumps every time I hear it. The juxtaposition of Denethor’s court plus Faramir’s crew getting attacked was perfect. Also, Billy Boyd has an awesome voice.

These were the two I was going to say as well! The lighting of the beacons does it every time.

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**Post date:** [November 2, 2009, 6:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-scenes-always-bring-tears-to-your-eyes-for-non-plot-acting-reasons/515896/18 "2009-11-02T06:11:17Z")

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> [@Bosstone](#):
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> In _Firefly_, the episode _Out of Gas_. At the end, when Mal starts to fall asleep, then jerks awake and asks, voice cracking a little, “Y’all gonna be here when I wake up?” This man just about kills himself to watch after his crew, never asking anything more of them than that they do their jobs, but just for that one moment the wall cracks and the tough man’s need for reassurance comes through. It’s damn near heartbreaking.

This +1.

And any scene/setup showing human stupidity, pride or stubbornness resulting in the loss of something finer…The end of ‘Immortal Beloved’, for example. I absolutely will not watch that with anyone else around, because my heart breaks every single time, and it ain’t pretty. 😛

Oh…and hi. Fairly new lurker here, but I won’t get in the way much, I hope. I know how boards build up over time, so I’ll be over here in the corner, nose in a book, ears perking up on occasion and tossing out a few sentences when warranted. And thanks for all the entertainment so far. 😃

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**Post date:** [November 2, 2009, 6:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-scenes-always-bring-tears-to-your-eyes-for-non-plot-acting-reasons/515896/19 "2009-11-02T06:30:42Z")

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> [@Hilarity\_N.Suze](#):
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> You can always get me, in a movie, with one of two things in a funeral scene: The riderless horse, or pilots flying the “missing man” formation.
> 
> It doesn’t matter if the character deserved to die, or even if I actively wanted the character’s death, this still gets me. Every time.
> 
> I mean, if I were watching the funeral of the real life Idi Amin, say, and they did the bit with the riderless horse, I would probably weep buckets.
> 
> This will definitely be a scene in my screenplay.

They fly the missing man formation at Oshkosh and it gets me every time. I think of the 75% mortality rate of British fighter pilots and the mental toll that had to take.

What gets me every time is the seen in K-pax when the astrophysicists overlay the information he gives them (against a drawing) and then stare in amazement. That and the blue bird scene where the whole hospital erupts.

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**Post date:** [November 2, 2009, 11:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-scenes-always-bring-tears-to-your-eyes-for-non-plot-acting-reasons/515896/20 "2009-11-02T11:50:47Z")

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The closing scene of _To Kill A Mockingbird_ always puts a lump in my throat. There’s something about the narrator’s voice combined with the music that gets me.

There’s a scene in _Lonesome Dove_ that always affects me. It’s simply Gus on his horse riding from the corral or barn up to Clara’s house to say goodbye to her & Lori. I don’t know if it’s the way the scene is lit or what, but I knew the first time I saw it that he wasn’t coming back alive.

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