# What Song is Pure Sex to You?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-song-is-pure-sex-to-you/68882>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [June 15, 2001, 2:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-song-is-pure-sex-to-you/68882 "2001-06-15T02:49:52Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Tuckerfan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/eada6e/32.png) [@Tuckerfan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tuckerfan)\
**Post date:** [June 16, 2001, 12:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-song-is-pure-sex-to-you/68882/41 "2001-06-16T00:04:31Z")

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Oh, I need to add _Drove All Night_ by Cyndi Lauper. Probably the finest thing she’s ever done.

Also _American Dreaming_\* by Dead Can Dance.

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**Post date:** [June 16, 2001, 12:16am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-song-is-pure-sex-to-you/68882/42 "2001-06-16T00:16:40Z")

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Two different songs for two kinds of sex. (There are more, of course, but these popped to mind.)

For long, slow, spiritual lovemaking, you’ve got Pink Floyd’s “Great Gig in the Sky.”

For fast-and-nasty grab-your-partner’s-hair fucking, you’ve got Frankie Goes to Hollywood’s “Relax.”

Those pretty much say it all, for me.

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**Author:** ![Finagle](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/b19c9b/32.png) [@Finagle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Finagle)\
**Post date:** [June 16, 2001, 1:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-song-is-pure-sex-to-you/68882/43 "2001-06-16T01:34:31Z")

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> \*Originally posted by pcubed \*  
> \*\ ***Big Love** by Fleetwood Mac. Now I must go and cleanse myself for having admitted to liking a Fleetwood Mac song (alright, two. I happen to like **Tusk** ) \*\*

Don’t go dissing Fleetwood Mac. I hate it when people sneer at a band just because they were insanely popular.

I’d have to nominate their “Landslide” as a song that’s damned sexy, not so much for the lyrics but because Stevie Nicks’ voice is saying “Take me now!” all the way through it.

And there’s Lucinda Williams’ “Right in Time” from Car Wheels on a Gravel Road.

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**Post date:** [June 16, 2001, 5:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-song-is-pure-sex-to-you/68882/44 "2001-06-16T17:53:07Z")

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Just remembered a couple;  
Crazy on You - Heart (ooh, baby)  
Wanna Make Love to You - Eric Clapton  
Ana Stasia - Prince  
I’m So Excited and Slow Hand - The Pointer Sisters  
Lightning Crashes - Live  
While My Guitar Gently Weeps - The Beatles  
Leather and Lace - Stevie Nicks & Don Henley

And a second vote for Don’t Let Go by En Vogue

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**Post date:** [June 16, 2001, 7:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-song-is-pure-sex-to-you/68882/45 "2001-06-16T19:00:48Z")

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_Kiss You All Over_–Exile

_Wicked Game_–Chris Isaak

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**Author:** ![virtee](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/dbc845/32.png) [@virtee](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/virtee)\
**Post date:** [June 16, 2001, 7:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-song-is-pure-sex-to-you/68882/46 "2001-06-16T19:15:24Z")

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_Don’t Touch Me There_ by the Tubes

_Hey, Pretty_ by Poe

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**Post date:** [June 17, 2001, 3:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-song-is-pure-sex-to-you/68882/47 "2001-06-17T03:14:40Z")

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Great stuff here. I envision a CD burning soon.

For myself, already mentioned: **Kiss** by Prince and **I Want Your Sex** by George Michael.

I guess it depends upon what you mean by pure sex. I tend to focus more on the singer than the song. When I was between wives, just about anything by Bonnie Raitt from her “Nick of Time” and the follow-up album was enough to inspire the most desperate longings and cravings. She sounded like a woman opening herself up to me. Now, Wynonna and Mary Chapin Carpenter seems to be doing it to me lately. I’m just a slut for women with the right voice. 😃

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**Author:** ![Eo\_Echo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/ebca7d/32.png) [@Eo\_Echo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Eo_Echo)\
**Post date:** [June 17, 2001, 6:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-song-is-pure-sex-to-you/68882/48 "2001-06-17T18:46:40Z")

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My shortlist:

“Caress Me Down” by Sublime  
“Go All the Way” by the Raspberries  
“Hot Cherie” by Hardline

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**Post date:** [June 17, 2001, 7:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-song-is-pure-sex-to-you/68882/49 "2001-06-17T19:40:47Z")

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sugar high- coyote shivers  
that’s my bubblegum teenage sex song baby!

hold on, i’m coming- sam&dave  
heheheh…old soul says it best.

best sex album in my possession happens to be “Neither Am I” by a very obscure irish group called BellX1.

Volcano;  
“don’t hold yourself like that,  
you’ll hurt your knees  
i kiss your mouth and back,  
is that all you need”

and Face:  
“how i choose bruise loose win sin bin tease please  
better have her on her knees  
play pray rock feel kneel dream.  
how i choose to scream.  
shout wake sleep need to touch her deep. change rearrange.  
fate wait weight kiss or taste the place.  
and make weather in my face.”

being the best songs.

sexy songs though are generally songs that just happen to be playing while you have sex, you can never listen to them again with a straight face!

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**Post date:** [June 18, 2001, 2:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-song-is-pure-sex-to-you/68882/50 "2001-06-18T02:49:16Z")

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I love **Jewel.** In a very wholesome way, mind you. My Jewel favorites are _Jupiter_ and _Morning Song._ I think I have a lust reflex for her voice.

**At the Dark End of the Street** is the same song that was covered by the Committments (and lots of other people). James Carr recorded the first version. The Clarence Carter version is sublimely ridiculous – maybe I shouldn’t have included it. Then again…

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**Post date:** [June 18, 2001, 3:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-song-is-pure-sex-to-you/68882/51 "2001-06-18T03:22:54Z")

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“Cream” and “Get Off” by The Artist Once Again Known As Prince.

Patty

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**Post date:** [June 18, 2001, 4:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-song-is-pure-sex-to-you/68882/52 "2001-06-18T04:41:32Z")

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At Last – Etta James  
Oooo laaaaa laaaa 😉

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**Post date:** [June 18, 2001, 7:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-song-is-pure-sex-to-you/68882/53 "2001-06-18T07:31:42Z")

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I’ll second (or third) the people who said **Let’s Get It On** by **Marvin Gaye**.

I’ll add **Between the Sheets** and **For the Love of You** by **The Isley Brothers**. Also, the original **Giving Him Something He Can Feel** by **Aretha Franklin** \*.

\*the **En Vogue** version is pretty good, too.

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**Post date:** [June 18, 2001, 10:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-song-is-pure-sex-to-you/68882/54 "2001-06-18T10:54:53Z")

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“Baby It’s You” by Smith

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**Post date:** [June 18, 2001, 10:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-song-is-pure-sex-to-you/68882/55 "2001-06-18T22:56:17Z")

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I’ll add **Last Night** by Az Yet and **Freak Me** by Silk to my list.

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**Post date:** [June 19, 2001, 5:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-song-is-pure-sex-to-you/68882/56 "2001-06-19T17:54:59Z")

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I would like to add to my list:

**Do You Feel Loved?** by U2

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**Post date:** [June 19, 2001, 10:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-song-is-pure-sex-to-you/68882/57 "2001-06-19T22:02:31Z")

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“Close to Me” - The Cure  
[Robert Smith’s heavy breathing … oh my]

“Trip Like I Do” & “High Roller” - The Crystal Method

“Get Off” by Bad Religion - don’t ask me why, just seems oh so appropriate.

Oh, and for the humor factor, “My Vagina” by NOFX. Gotta love silly punk songs about getting a sex change.

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**Post date:** [June 19, 2001, 10:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-song-is-pure-sex-to-you/68882/58 "2001-06-19T22:05:55Z")

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I forgot about “Comin’ Back” by The Crystal Method.

But now that I think about it, might as well just nominate the whole damn album [“Vegas”], it’s all sex as far as I’m concerned.

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**Post date:** [June 20, 2001, 5:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-song-is-pure-sex-to-you/68882/59 "2001-06-20T05:01:02Z")

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Another vote for 60 MINUTE MAN-1953?-BILLY WARD & THE DOMINIOS

UNCHAINED MELODY–RIGHTEOUS BROS.(BOBBY HATFIELD)  
A LITTLE BIT MORE–DR. HOOK  
GREASED LIGHTENING—GREASE-SOUNDTRACK

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**Post date:** [June 20, 2001, 6:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-song-is-pure-sex-to-you/68882/60 "2001-06-20T06:00:32Z")

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Right now my number one with a bullet is on the **Maxinquoye** album by **Tricky**. There are many good ones on this CD. But the sexiest, in my opinion, is _Overcome_, (but _Pumpkin_, _Aftermath_, and _Suffocated Love_ are also pretty good). I feel certain that this entire CD makes the Baby Jesus cry.

Also, I’ve got to mention:

_Rough Sex_ by **Lords of Acid**  
_Crash_ by **Dave Matthews Band**  
_Natural One_ by **Folk Implosion**  
_Trigger Hippie_ by **Morcheeba**  
_A Girl Like You_ by **Edwyn Collins**  
_Take My Breath Away_ by **Berlin**  
_I Have The Touch_ by **Peter Gabriel**  
_Feel Like Makin’ Love_ by **Bad Company**  
_Perhaps, Perhaps, Perhaps_ by **Doris Day**. If you’ve seen Strictly Ballroom, you know why.

Already mentioned:

_Feelin’ Love_ by **Paula Cole**. Ohhhhh, yesssss.  
_Justify My Love_ by **Madonna**  
_Closer_ by **NIN**  
_You Can Leave Your Hat On_ by **Joe Cocker**  
_Need You Tonight_ by **INXS**  
_Wicked Game_ by **Chris Isaak**  
\*Pour Some Sugar on Me \* by **Def Leppard**. I’m just glad I didn’t have to be the first to mention this.  
And I’m going to be looking up that song **jarbabyj** mentioned!!!

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