What to say to those who pray for you?

If the person want to make a big deal about their religion being better then mine (which is how I take a statement like that) then I’ll normally say “pray for yourself sinner”

I’m just feeling a bit guilty about this continuing hijack. You could open a MPSIMS instead. :slight_smile:

Anyway, I’ve c&p my latest responses below so we can get some continuity… if you like you can continue the discussion by email - my address should be in my profile.

So, if I understand the OP, one is free to say things that people in mixed society would find offensive if they overhear the conversation (the kind of people one finds when walking down a public street), but if a member of the public responds to said offensive speech that person is in need of a rebuke?

So the OPer has fee speech, but the woman who was offended does not. How do I get a sweet deal like that?

Madmonk, you don’t understand the invitation.

Nobody is calling for a coercive end to anyone’s speech. Nobody is saying that anyone’s speech should be curtailed at all, except by the use of more speech.

The woman who was offended made a snarky, insulting comment. We’re having fun suggesting snarky, insulting comments that could have been made in return. No jack-booted thugs here.

Personally, I’d consider the woman to be perfectly respectful if she’d said, “Would you mind keeping the swearing down? It really bothers me.” But that’s not what she did: she was ruder and more disrespectful than the OP was. It’s a good thing to make her aware of how rude and disrespectful she’s being.

Daniel

Well the woman was probably stunned by the OP’ers rudeness and responded in a way that made sense to her.

When one shocks and offends people with outlandishly poor behavior, it doesn’t seem reasonable to criticize the person shock and offended for not responding in a way acceptable to the offendor.

The poor woman was mortified.

As for responses to the woman:

I’m sorry, I’m a self-involved jerk who is smuggly proud of the fact;

or how about:

thank you, although I don’t share your faith, I appreciate that you wish me well and recogonize I am clearly damaged (and inarticulate)

Okay, madmonk28, then is it fair if I go to people talking about God and tell them to please stop that conversation because it offends me?

And would you expect them to take it?

And can you possibly believe that some of us who use profanity (I don’t by means use it everywhere, but I’ve been known to use it in public with my friends) are very intelligent, articulate, thoughtful people?

If a mother with small children asked me politely in public to please not swear around her children, I would happily comply.

If someone had the audacity to suggest to me that I should not keep using profanity because THEIR God dislikes it, I would try to be as nice as possible, but I would make it quite clear that I don’t believe in their God, that they’re welcome to pray for me, but that I think they’re pretty rude.

Huh. When quoted out of context, you actually start to make sense.

Daniel

Kinda funny. You can’t say shit on the TV. Or fuck. Nigger is iffy at best. Faggot, kike, etc are all some what iffy, and almost always portrayed as very strongly bad things.

“Blaspheming,” though? “Oh, God,” “God damnit,” “God you’re an <insult here>.” All of these go by with hardly a notice. They don’t even register.

Yeah, that’s pretty much what I thought.

[The Bastard Love Child of St. Anselm of Canterbury and William Jefferson Clinton]“Well, that depends on what the definition of ‘God’ is.”[/TBLCoSAoCaWJC]

Better idea: “I’ll sacrifice a virgin to Baal in your name. Praise the gods!”