# What type of sexual are you?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-type-of-sexual-are-you/659062>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [May 22, 2013, 8:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-type-of-sexual-are-you/659062 "2013-05-22T20:25:03Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Annie-Xmas](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ecc23a/32.png) [@Annie-Xmas](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Annie-Xmas)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2013, 8:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-type-of-sexual-are-you/659062/1 "2013-05-22T20:25:03Z")

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Today at work a 24 year old guy and myself, a 58 year old woman, got into a discussion of the joys and frustrations of being asexual. I realized that everyone within earshot was listening, and the crowd was growing bigger as other people came over. Kind of like the Three Stories episode of House.  
So, this is a private poll, and you are on your honor to answer truthfully.

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**Author:** ![Skald\_the\_Rhymer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ecccb3/32.png) [@Skald\_the\_Rhymer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Skald_the_Rhymer)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2013, 8:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-type-of-sexual-are-you/659062/2 "2013-05-22T20:44:27Z")

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I’m 95% hetero. I’ve never had sex with another guy but the idea doesn’t repel me; it’s just that women are soooooo pretty.

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**Author:** ![perfectparanoia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/a5b964/32.png) [@perfectparanoia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/perfectparanoia)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2013, 8:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-type-of-sexual-are-you/659062/3 "2013-05-22T20:48:05Z")

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Bi-ish? I don’t think I could ever be in an exclusive relationship with a girl (since we’d drive each other nuts out of the sack) but having sex with one is something I have done before and would consider doing again (except that I am married and all).

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**Author:** ![panaccione](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@panaccione](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/panaccione)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2013, 8:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-type-of-sexual-are-you/659062/4 "2013-05-22T20:52:28Z")

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Plain old boring Herero here.

How is someone a-sexual?

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**Author:** ![Collaborator](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/3ec8ea/32.png) [@Collaborator](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Collaborator)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2013, 8:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-type-of-sexual-are-you/659062/5 "2013-05-22T20:53:41Z")

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Not sure what ‘hetro’ is but on the off chance that it’s supposed to be ‘hetero’ I went with it.

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**Author:** ![Annie-Xmas](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ecc23a/32.png) [@Annie-Xmas](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Annie-Xmas)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2013, 8:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-type-of-sexual-are-you/659062/6 "2013-05-22T20:54:33Z")

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Your sexuality is based on which gender you find sexually attractive. Asexuals find neither.

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**Author:** ![Skald\_the\_Rhymer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ecccb3/32.png) [@Skald\_the\_Rhymer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Skald_the_Rhymer)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2013, 8:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-type-of-sexual-are-you/659062/7 "2013-05-22T20:54:58Z")

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> [@panaccione](#):
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> Plain old boring Herero here.
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> How is someone a-sexual?

An asexual is a person who is not interested in having sex with persons of either gender.

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**Author:** ![XT](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/xt/32/456_2.png) [@XT](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/XT)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2013, 8:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-type-of-sexual-are-you/659062/8 "2013-05-22T20:56:59Z")

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> [@Skald\_the\_Rhymer](#):
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> I’m 95% hetero. I’ve never had sex with another guy but the idea doesn’t repel me; it’s just that women are soooooo pretty.

Pretty much. I’m drawn to, um, curvy women let’s say while plump men don’t really appeal…probably because I’m so plump myself. 😉 I’m certainly not repelled by homosexuality nor homosexuals, either male or female, and certain aspects of it appeal (won’t get into TMI), but I’m simply sexually drawn to women.

Bit surprised by the responses to the poll so far though…would have thought we had a more even mix here on the 'dope of homosexual/bi posters to heteros.

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**Author:** ![Little\_Nemo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/little_nemo/32/3120_2.png) [@Little\_Nemo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Little_Nemo)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2013, 9:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-type-of-sexual-are-you/659062/9 "2013-05-22T21:03:04Z")

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> [@XT](#):
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> Bit surprised by the responses to the poll so far though…would have thought we had a more even mix here on the 'dope of homosexual/bi posters to heteros.

This is a safe non-judgmental environment where heterosexuals can feel free to reveal themselves.

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**Author:** ![yellowjacketcoder](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/y/4bbf92/32.png) [@yellowjacketcoder](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/yellowjacketcoder)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2013, 9:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-type-of-sexual-are-you/659062/10 "2013-05-22T21:06:48Z")

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> [@XT](#):
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> Pretty much. I’m drawn to, um, curvy women let’s say while plump men don’t really appeal…probably because I’m so plump myself. 😉 I’m certainly not repelled by homosexuality nor homosexuals, either male or female, and certain aspects of it appeal (won’t get into TMI), but I’m simply sexually drawn to women.
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> Bit surprised by the responses to the poll so far though…would have thought we had a more even mix here on the 'dope of homosexual/bi posters to heteros.

A - The sample size is still pretty small

B - if the ratios stay the same, i think we may have a larger contingent of non-heteros on the dope than in real life, anyway.

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**Author:** ![Inner\_Stickler](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/inner_stickler/32/318_2.png) [@Inner\_Stickler](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Inner_Stickler)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2013, 9:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-type-of-sexual-are-you/659062/11 "2013-05-22T21:08:13Z")

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Big ole 6 on the Kinsey scale or whichever end is the gay one.

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**Author:** ![Inigo\_Montoya](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/inigo_montoya/32/124_2.png) [@Inigo\_Montoya](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Inigo_Montoya)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2013, 9:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-type-of-sexual-are-you/659062/12 "2013-05-22T21:11:11Z")

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Hetero. Boys are disgusting.

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**Author:** ![EmilyG](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/emilyg/32/364_2.png) [@EmilyG](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/EmilyG)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2013, 9:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-type-of-sexual-are-you/659062/13 "2013-05-22T21:12:05Z")

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My sexual orientation is… complicated. It’s taken a while to figure out, but I think I’m heteroromantic and somewhat bisexual.

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**Author:** ![NotBob13](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/e19b73/32.png) [@NotBob13](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/NotBob13)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2013, 9:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-type-of-sexual-are-you/659062/14 "2013-05-22T21:18:53Z")

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I am Bisexual. But mostly straight. I enjoy threesomes a lot, MMF, and FFM. Don’t really have a romantic attachment to other males, so I don’t date them, but I enjoy sex with them. Rarely do I have sex with just a guy, or two other males. It has happened in the past, might happen in the future. If I go on a dating site and say I’m into guys, I get hit on a bunch. I don’t hook-up as a regular thing, though. So I am a mostly straight, bisexual male.

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**Author:** ![Don\_t\_Panic](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/don_t_panic/32/398_2.png) [@Don\_t\_Panic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Don_t_Panic)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2013, 9:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-type-of-sexual-are-you/659062/15 "2013-05-22T21:37:44Z")

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> [@panaccione](#):
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> Plain old boring Herero here.

Hey, I think the [Herero](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Herero_people) are pretty cool.

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**Author:** ![Czarcasm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/czarcasm/32/4050_2.png) [@Czarcasm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Czarcasm)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2013, 9:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-type-of-sexual-are-you/659062/16 "2013-05-22T21:39:57Z")

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Bi.

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**Author:** ![mbh](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/a6a055/32.png) [@mbh](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/mbh)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2013, 9:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-type-of-sexual-are-you/659062/17 "2013-05-22T21:40:14Z")

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I am a flaming hetero.

I look at Botticelli’s _Venus_, and I think, “That’s a hot babe. I’d like to nail her.”

I look at Michelangelo’s _David_, and I think, “Gee, I hope I don’t look that silly when I’m naked.”

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**Author:** ![Loach](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/loach/32/350_2.png) [@Loach](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Loach)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2013, 9:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-type-of-sexual-are-you/659062/18 "2013-05-22T21:46:16Z")

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> [@The Great Sun Jester](#):
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> Hetero. Boys are disgusting.

Agreed. I have no idea why any women are straight. But I’m happy they are.

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**Author:** ![Leaffan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/leaffan/32/299_2.png) [@Leaffan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Leaffan)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2013, 10:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-type-of-sexual-are-you/659062/19 "2013-05-22T22:01:16Z")

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100% hetero. The thought of having sex with another man is frankly repulsive. I certainly have nothing against it; it just isn’t for me.

The thought of two women together though is a complete and utter turn on. I can’t explain this, and I’m pretty sure I’m not alone in my thinking.

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**Author:** ![Robot\_Arm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/robot_arm/32/18280_2.png) [@Robot\_Arm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Robot_Arm)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2013, 10:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-type-of-sexual-are-you/659062/20 "2013-05-22T22:01:49Z")

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[QUOTE=Annie-Xmas]  
What type of sexual are you?  
[/QUOTE]  
In theory or in practice?

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