# What was your first dance at your wedding?

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**Created:** [October 5, 2015, 1:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-was-your-first-dance-at-your-wedding/733607 "2015-10-05T13:37:08Z")\
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**Author:** ![The\_wind\_of\_my\_soul](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ecc23a/32.png) [@The\_wind\_of\_my\_soul](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_wind_of_my_soul)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2015, 1:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-was-your-first-dance-at-your-wedding/733607/1 "2015-10-05T13:37:08Z")

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Just wondering. My husband and I only had six guests at our wedding (our parents and siblings), so we didn’t have any sort of true wedding reception or first dance. But after we got done with the ceremony, I put on “How Forever Feels” by Kenny Chesney and we danced to it in my living room, so I count it as our first dance.

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**Author:** ![Telemark](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/telemark/32/372_2.png) [@Telemark](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Telemark)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2015, 2:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-was-your-first-dance-at-your-wedding/733607/2 "2015-10-05T14:30:49Z")

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“The Best is Yet to Come” by Frank Sinatra

We were introduced to the reception with “Dirty Water” by The Standells. 🙂

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**Author:** ![pulykamell](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/pulykamell/32/3166_2.png) [@pulykamell](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pulykamell)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2015, 2:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-was-your-first-dance-at-your-wedding/733607/3 "2015-10-05T14:46:18Z")

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“This Will Be Our Year” by the Zombies.

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**Author:** ![silenus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/silenus/32/166_2.png) [@silenus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/silenus)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2015, 2:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-was-your-first-dance-at-your-wedding/733607/4 "2015-10-05T14:49:51Z")

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We eloped and both hate to dance, so…

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**Author:** ![bup](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/6bbea6/32.png) [@bup](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bup)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2015, 3:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-was-your-first-dance-at-your-wedding/733607/5 "2015-10-05T15:12:53Z")

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PEnnsylvania 6-5000.

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**Post date:** [October 5, 2015, 3:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-was-your-first-dance-at-your-wedding/733607/6 "2015-10-05T15:20:26Z")

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What a sweet memory to bring forward this morning.

We specifically requested “This Magic Moment” by Jay and the Americans because that had been the first song we ever danced to together when we started dating.

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**Author:** ![Spud](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spud/32/347_2.png) [@Spud](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spud)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2015, 3:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-was-your-first-dance-at-your-wedding/733607/7 "2015-10-05T15:26:55Z")

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It was supposed to be Why Worry by Dire Straits. We picked Why Worry because we were just coming out of college and didn’t have the best finances and weren’t sure what life had in store for us. Unfortunately the band didn’t know that one so they played Lady in Red. I remember initially being mad, but then dancing with my new wife it all melted away and we danced and hugged and it was one of the best experiences in my life. I really didn’t know that song and just listened to it recently and realized that it really was appropriate (other than she was in white). We’ve had 28 years of ups and downs and three kids but I wouldn’t trade if for anything, and still remember that dance.

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**Author:** ![Yodalicious](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/yodalicious/32/8195_2.png) [@Yodalicious](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Yodalicious)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2015, 4:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-was-your-first-dance-at-your-wedding/733607/8 "2015-10-05T16:02:47Z")

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In Your Eyes by Peter Gabriel.

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**Author:** ![FinsToTheLeft](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/finstotheleft/32/2930_2.png) [@FinsToTheLeft](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FinsToTheLeft)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2015, 4:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-was-your-first-dance-at-your-wedding/733607/9 "2015-10-05T16:05:19Z")

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Feels Like Home by Randy Newman

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**Author:** ![Apocalypso](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/f19dbf/32.png) [@Apocalypso](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Apocalypso)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2015, 4:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-was-your-first-dance-at-your-wedding/733607/10 "2015-10-05T16:21:43Z")

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Rascal Flatts “Bless the Broken Road”

Second marriage for both of us, and we’d both been through a lot in our lives, so it really spoke to us.  
BTW we just celebrated our 3rd anniversary and are very much still in love!

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**Author:** ![Dendarii\_Dame](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/bbce88/32.png) [@Dendarii\_Dame](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dendarii_Dame)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2015, 6:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-was-your-first-dance-at-your-wedding/733607/11 "2015-10-05T18:28:52Z")

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Theme from “Around the World in 80 Days”.

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**Author:** ![AncientHumanoid](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ancienthumanoid/32/278_2.png) [@AncientHumanoid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AncientHumanoid)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2015, 6:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-was-your-first-dance-at-your-wedding/733607/12 "2015-10-05T18:40:54Z")

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_Into the Hands of Death_ - Rob Zombie

Just kidding, it was actually the first 3 or 4 minutes of Art of Noise’s _Moments In Love_

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**Post date:** [October 5, 2015, 6:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-was-your-first-dance-at-your-wedding/733607/13 "2015-10-05T18:45:03Z")

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No dancing for us!

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**Author:** ![lieu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/c2a13f/32.png) [@lieu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lieu)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2015, 6:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-was-your-first-dance-at-your-wedding/733607/14 "2015-10-05T18:54:45Z")

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Wonderful Tonight. She did and does even more so here twenty years later.

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**Author:** ![Andy\_L](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/c67d28/32.png) [@Andy\_L](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Andy_L)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2015, 6:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-was-your-first-dance-at-your-wedding/733607/15 "2015-10-05T18:56:59Z")

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> [@Dendarii\_Dame](#):
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> Theme from “Around the World in 80 Days”.

“Around the world, I’ve searched for you…”

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**Author:** ![msmith537](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/d9b06d/32.png) [@msmith537](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/msmith537)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2015, 6:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-was-your-first-dance-at-your-wedding/733607/16 "2015-10-05T18:59:49Z")

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‘At Last’ by Etta James. We had been dating a long time so it had kind of become a running joke with our friends and family.

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**Post date:** [October 5, 2015, 7:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-was-your-first-dance-at-your-wedding/733607/17 "2015-10-05T19:00:04Z")

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“The Way You Look Tonight”, covered by Frank Sinatra

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**Author:** ![Caricci](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/85f322/32.png) [@Caricci](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Caricci)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2015, 7:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-was-your-first-dance-at-your-wedding/733607/18 "2015-10-05T19:02:41Z")

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I Won’t Last A Day Without You by The Carpenters. It’s my worst song in the world and I was just kidding and the joke went too far and the next thing you know, there I am, dancing to it at my wedding!

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**Author:** ![kenobi\_65](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kenobi_65/32/13178_2.png) [@kenobi\_65](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kenobi_65)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2015, 7:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-was-your-first-dance-at-your-wedding/733607/19 "2015-10-05T19:09:12Z")

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“[Forever’s As Far As I’ll Go](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EAGaB30f1PI)”, by Alabama. My wife was a big country-music fan at the time, and Alabama was one of her favorite groups. So, while it was her idea, I found it more than agreeable. 🙂

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**Author:** ![Telemark](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/telemark/32/372_2.png) [@Telemark](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Telemark)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2015, 7:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-was-your-first-dance-at-your-wedding/733607/20 "2015-10-05T19:13:45Z")

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> [@msmith537](#):
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> ‘At Last’ by Etta James. We had been dating a long time so it had kind of become a running joke with our friends and family.

I wanted this but my wife vetoed it - it was too long and she didn’t want to be out there dancing for over 3 minutes. 🙂

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