# What were you THINKING?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-were-you-thinking/991532>\
**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [October 13, 2023, 7:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-were-you-thinking/991532 "2023-10-13T19:36:53Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![I\_Love\_Me\_Vol.I](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/i_love_me_vol.i/32/521_2.png) [@I\_Love\_Me\_Vol.I](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/I_Love_Me_Vol.I)\
**Post date:** [August 15, 2025, 9:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-were-you-thinking/991532/5663 "2025-08-15T21:00:32Z")

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> [@LSLGuy](#):
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> My general view is the [ignore poster] feature is useless. Anyone who posts so much crap that I’m unwilling to see any more of it means that when I do block them, half the other posts by other posters are still talking about or quoting the prolific jerk’s contents.

This is a large part of the reason I don’t have anyone on ignore. I question the utility of the feature and I think many posters prefer to _tell_ you they have someone on ignore rather than actually doing it.

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**Author:** ![What\_Exit](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/what_exit/32/10652_2.png) [@What\_Exit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/What_Exit)\
**Post date:** [August 15, 2025, 9:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-were-you-thinking/991532/5664 "2025-08-15T21:07:11Z")

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There were posters I used to largely ignore by just skipping over their posts. I’ve almost never used the ignore feature and of course as a Mod, now I can’t.

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**Author:** ![Atamasama](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/atamasama/32/12961_2.png) [@Atamasama](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Atamasama)\
**Post date:** [August 15, 2025, 9:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-were-you-thinking/991532/5665 "2025-08-15T21:20:26Z")

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> [@I\_Love\_Me\_Vol.I](#):
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> I question the utility of the feature and I think many posters prefer to _tell_ you they have someone on ignore rather than actually doing it.

There are posters who say shit that is so fucking infuriating that reading it ruins my experience on this board.

Not many, but a few. In my opinion they are either skilled or lucky to not be banned (and one is probably on the verge of it as he has been suspended for long periods more than once). But they really are on my ignore list and the board is better for it.

I think all but one has a long Pit thread devoted to them. The one who doesn’t is someone always picking fights and looking for excuses to get into conflict, I seriously think they get off on it and have a screw loose.

It’s a feature that is no necessary I literally would quit this board if it didn’t exist.

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**Author:** ![LSLGuy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lslguy/32/5813_2.png) [@LSLGuy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LSLGuy)\
**Post date:** [August 15, 2025, 9:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-were-you-thinking/991532/5666 "2025-08-15T21:28:59Z")

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That’s me. The skipover part, not the mod part.

I tend to get more annoyed with the stupid than the tendentious. I avoid most tendentious posters by avoiding tendentious topics.

So checking who is the OP author in addition to the preview contents is an important step in my personal [new topics] filtration.

I’m pleased to help the slow-witted or benignly ignorant.

The “I can’t even think” or the willfully confused? My response is “Buh-bye, loser; not worth my time. It might well genuinely suck to be you, and it’s a durn shame you’re stuck in that role. But I’m not Og and your problems need that level of intervention. Sorry.”

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**Author:** ![DavidNRockies](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/davidnrockies/32/6279_2.png) [@DavidNRockies](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DavidNRockies)\
**Post date:** [August 15, 2025, 9:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-were-you-thinking/991532/5667 "2025-08-15T21:34:17Z")

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> [@LSLGuy](#):
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> I’m pleased to help the slow-witted or benignly ignorant.

Bless you.

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**Author:** ![puzzlegal](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/puzzlegal/32/3827_2.png) [@puzzlegal](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/puzzlegal)\
**Post date:** [August 15, 2025, 9:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-were-you-thinking/991532/5668 "2025-08-15T21:52:58Z")

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> [@What\_Exit](#):
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> There were posters I used to largely ignore by just skipping over their posts. I’ve almost never used the ignore feature and of course as a Mod, now I can’t.

There are posters that i currently mostly ignore by skipping over their posts. Except i don’t always notice who the poster is, so I’m not great at this.

Agree that a mod can’t use the ignore feature.

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [August 15, 2025, 10:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-were-you-thinking/991532/5669 "2025-08-15T22:12:40Z")

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The threat _“I’m putting you on ignore”_ is really laughable.

You still know they’re there. And it’s easy peasy to un-blur.

People read them anyway. When an ignored poster is quoted, well there it is.

If you can’t skip over a poster you don’t wanna read, that’s a you problem.

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**Author:** ![Johanna](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/johanna/32/8318_2.png) [@Johanna](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Johanna)\
**Post date:** [August 15, 2025, 10:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-were-you-thinking/991532/5670 "2025-08-15T22:14:01Z")

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The ones I put on ignore some years ago have all been banned by now.

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**Author:** ![LSLGuy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lslguy/32/5813_2.png) [@LSLGuy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LSLGuy)\
**Post date:** [August 15, 2025, 10:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-were-you-thinking/991532/5671 "2025-08-15T22:15:07Z")

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I _knew_ you had excellent taste in posters! 😁

Meant seriously, not snarkily.

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**Author:** ![Johanna](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/johanna/32/8318_2.png) [@Johanna](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Johanna)\
**Post date:** [August 15, 2025, 10:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-were-you-thinking/991532/5672 "2025-08-15T22:19:28Z")

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You’re OK. It used to be a lot worse around here. It’s better now. There used to be virulent transphobes expressing downright hate here. They’ve all been banned. Now the transphobes are sneaky and try to weasel their hate in with what they think are clever little ploys. Yes, Velocity, I mean you. You’re not fooling anyone.

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**Author:** ![Alessan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/alessan/32/465_2.png) [@Alessan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Alessan)\
**Post date:** [August 15, 2025, 10:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-were-you-thinking/991532/5673 "2025-08-15T22:32:50Z")

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Likewise - I’m perfectly capable of ignoring people without assistance, thank you very much. It’s a skill I’ve been honing my entire life.

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**Author:** ![susan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/susan/32/17537_2.png) [@susan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/susan)\
**Post date:** [August 15, 2025, 10:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-were-you-thinking/991532/5674 "2025-08-15T22:44:25Z")

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Unless they make the first post. Then you have to unignore them on their profile to read it. Or go merrily on your way.

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**Author:** ![Atamasama](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/atamasama/32/12961_2.png) [@Atamasama](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Atamasama)\
**Post date:** [August 15, 2025, 10:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-were-you-thinking/991532/5675 "2025-08-15T22:51:52Z")

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> [@Beckdawrek](#):
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> People read them anyway. When an ignored poster is quoted, well there it is.

When an ignored poster is quoted, the quote is blank. You’ll see the response to the quote, but not the quote. So no, “there it isn’t”.

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [August 15, 2025, 11:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-were-you-thinking/991532/5676 "2025-08-15T23:08:51Z")

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Ahh, well I wouldn’t know. I don’t ignore folks.

It’s not necessary for my enjoyment of the board. Fact is, I wanna know what everyone says. I’m curious, like that.

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**Author:** ![DemonTree](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/demontree/32/8646_2.png) [@DemonTree](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DemonTree)\
**Post date:** [August 15, 2025, 11:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-were-you-thinking/991532/5677 "2025-08-15T23:20:05Z")

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> [@Atamasama](#):
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> When an ignored poster is quoted, the quote is blank. You’ll see the response to the quote, but not the quote. So no, “there it isn’t”.

That’s the most annoying part of ignoring someone; it quickly renders the conversation incomprehensible, and there is no way to display the quote in the post. I’ve found skipping over posts generally preferable.

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**Author:** ![Atamasama](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/atamasama/32/12961_2.png) [@Atamasama](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Atamasama)\
**Post date:** [August 15, 2025, 11:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-were-you-thinking/991532/5678 "2025-08-15T23:20:12Z")

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> [@Beckdawrek](#):
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> It’s not necessary for my enjoyment of the board. Fact is, I wanna know what everyone says. I’m curious, like that.

Then the ignore function doesn’t serve any purpose for you, and it’s good that you don’t bother.

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**Author:** ![hajario](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/hajario/32/171_2.png) [@hajario](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/hajario)\
**Post date:** [August 15, 2025, 11:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-were-you-thinking/991532/5679 "2025-08-15T23:52:22Z")

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> [@Johanna](#):
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> There used to be virulent transphobes expressing downright hate here. They’ve all been banned. Now the transphobes are sneaky and try to weasel their hate in with what they think are clever little ploys.

**Paul Was in Saudi** is still around, that creepy little fuck. He should have been banned long ago.

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**Author:** ![crowmanyclouds](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/crowmanyclouds/32/19884_2.png) [@crowmanyclouds](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/crowmanyclouds)\
**Post date:** [August 16, 2025, 1:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-were-you-thinking/991532/5680 "2025-08-16T01:21:19Z")

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> [@Beckdawrek](#):
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> Ahh, well I wouldn’t know. I don’t ignore folks.

So this,

> [@Beckdawrek](#):
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> You still know they’re there. And it’s easy peasy to un-blur.
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> People read them anyway. When an ignored poster is quoted, well there it is.

was pure bullshit?

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [August 16, 2025, 1:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-were-you-thinking/991532/5681 "2025-08-16T01:38:45Z")

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I read the rules. I read how this place works. If something is blurred all you gotta do is click on it. No one’s posts are blurred fully, for me, so I assume I don’t have anyone on ignore.

I think I tried to ignore someone, but it never worked. Because, they follow every post I make with some incomprehensible post. For shits and giggles, I suppose.

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**Author:** ![crowmanyclouds](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/crowmanyclouds/32/19884_2.png) [@crowmanyclouds](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/crowmanyclouds)\
**Post date:** [August 16, 2025, 1:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-were-you-thinking/991532/5682 "2025-08-16T01:44:24Z")

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> [@Beckdawrek](#):
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> I think I tried to ignore someone, but it never worked.

I apologize for this party being so small and for noticing your turds in the punchbowl.

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