# What would "giving up" look like for you?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-giving-up-look-like-for-you/420693>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [September 27, 2007, 2:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-giving-up-look-like-for-you/420693 "2007-09-27T14:47:28Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 6\
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**Author:** ![gigi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/a587f6/32.png) [@gigi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gigi)\
**Post date:** [October 4, 2007, 4:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-giving-up-look-like-for-you/420693/141 "2007-10-04T16:59:44Z")

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[QUOTE=msmith537]  
Unless you go on a 3 hour harbor cruise like I did. Then you’re stuck for the duration.  
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I’m not afraid to jump overboard and bail for the distant shore.  
Yes I am.

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**Author:** ![lorene](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/65b543/32.png) [@lorene](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lorene)\
**Post date:** [October 4, 2007, 5:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-giving-up-look-like-for-you/420693/142 "2007-10-04T17:09:00Z")

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[QUOTE=gigi]  
I’m not afraid to jump overboard and bail for the distant shore.  
Yes I am.  
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No joke, this is why I don’t accept invitations to things I can’t leave. No cruises for me, thank you. No outings miles away if I’m depending on someone else for a ride, unless it’s someone I really trust and can talk to about the need to leave should it arrise. I was supposed to go to a baseball game a few weeks ago, while out of state at a conference, but when I realized that I would be in another city with no way to get back from the stadium if I felt like I had to just get out of there…\<shudder\> Fortunately ( 😕 ) the plane ride was very rough on me and so using the excuse that I wasn’t up to it was not a stretch at all.

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**Author:** ![Catamount](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/catamount/32/2840_2.png) [@Catamount](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Catamount)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2007, 7:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-giving-up-look-like-for-you/420693/143 "2007-10-05T19:47:44Z")

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If anyone ever asks if the subscription fee is worth it, point to this thread. I’ve started therapy again today because of it.

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**Author:** ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2007, 8:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-giving-up-look-like-for-you/420693/144 "2007-10-05T20:21:12Z")

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[QUOTE=SpazCat]  
If anyone ever asks if the subscription fee is worth it, point to this thread. I’ve started therapy again today because of it.  
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Wow. Great!

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**Author:** ![Nachos\_Mary](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/9d8465/32.png) [@Nachos\_Mary](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nachos_Mary)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2007, 8:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-giving-up-look-like-for-you/420693/145 "2007-10-05T20:28:53Z")

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Giving up would be walking into the deep woods in winter without a cell phone.  
Sort of like the Cree tradition of sickly old people just going into the woods and lying down to die.

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**Author:** ![Sunspace](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sunspace/32/1250_2.png) [@Sunspace](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sunspace)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2007, 8:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-giving-up-look-like-for-you/420693/146 "2007-10-05T20:42:55Z")

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[QUOTE=SpazCat]  
If anyone ever asks if the subscription fee is worth it, point to this thread. I’ve started therapy again today because of it.  
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Congratulations!

It’s hard work but necessary.

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