You know, school just started up, and I’m starting up with a totally new district. I’ve been working my butt off, and taking work home every night. I had a really, really rotten week.
Do you know what got me through it? The fact that I have had really, really rotten weeks before. The fact that ALL new jobs suck. The fact that ALL public schools are more or less chaos the first week.
In short, I have come to terms with the fact that sometimes, life sucks. And you deal with it, and in time, it sucks less. Sometimes, if you’re doing things right, it does not suck at all.
Teens, in particular, need to learn this lesson, because being a teen is a remarkably rotten experience. Sometimes, it’s REALLY, really rotten. Like when your first girl dumps you, or you get pantsed in the lunchroom in front of God and everyone, or… well… general teenage weltschmerz, you know?
This is why drugs are so frickin’ great when you’re a teenager. One doobie, and you’re free of all that. No more weltschmerz, no more problems, no more hurtin’. Life does not suck when you’re stoned, no matter how much it sucked when you lit the joint.
…and that is where the bullet meets the bone. Will the child grow up, and learn that when you’re stoned, you’re really not competent to deal with stuff, and that the weed is no more than a temporary anodyne for your poor hurtin’ self? Or will it become a more or less permanent fixture in your life for long enough to damage your short-term memory? Or are you just gonna be a stoner forever?
THIS is my objection to drugs. You can pretty much substitute any chemical you like for “marijuana,” and my objection would be the same.
Does this mean that drugs are evil? No, not necessarily. It may well be possible for some of us to do them responsibly. Then again, many of us can’t even use alcohol, aspirin, gasoline, automobiles, or chainsaws responsibly, especially in various combinations or all at once.
I mean, I’m sorry if your brother OD’d on drugs. Really. But I think if MY brother died in a car accident that was his own fault, I’d be asking a lot if I started a crusade to make people quit driving cars. We’ve been trying for years to make people quit doing drugs, and we have not succeeded. People are doing drugs, and they are GOING to do drugs. It’s a reality. Deal with it. All we can do is figure out how to minimize the consequences, to individuals, and to our society.
We can attempt to manage drug use and abuse as best we can, because it isn’t going to go away.
I haven’t seen the episode of “South Park” in question, so I will not comment on it.
Sometimes, drug education is at fault. Sometimes, it is not. I got lots of drug education when I was a kid. The problem with it was that parts of it seemed pretty far-fetched to me (including parts that turned out to be true), and, most importantly, the people telling me all this stuff about drugs had never tried the drugs in question, and were operating entirely out of secondhand knowledge, often from questionable sources. Especially the Government. I mean, Nixon was the Government back then, and look how HE turned out, right?
I was told that Diane Linkletter ate some bad acid, thought she could fly, and leaped out a window. Several movies I saw seemed to back this up; people always seemed to be getting weird ideas when they used LSD. On the other hand, LSD sure looked like a lot of *fun. *
Who are you going to believe? The Man, or someone in the drug culture who’s been there, has no reason to lie to you, and says it’s all harmless? (And yes, don’t flame me, I KNOW the Drug Culture Guy has ulterior motives – he wants to sell you dope, or worse – but your kids don’t necessarily know that. And sometimes stoners DON’T have ulterior motives. They just wanna turn you on, is all…)
There is such a thing as effective education about drugs, sex, birth control, and even adulthood, sure. But “just say no” ain’t it.
And neither is “Believe, or die.”
I’ve never seen a drug abuser (that is, an abuser of illegal nonprescription drugs) who didn’t get his start by hooking up with the drug culture. I do not believe in the concept of “gateway drugs.” Believe me, smoking dope for a while does not suddenly give you the idea that you need to try heroin, or that you suddenly need to score some acid. That’s a myth.
But hanging out smoking dope with guys who also like to drop acid, now…
…and if any kind of drug education is going to work, it’s going to need to consider the drug CULTURE, in addition to the drugs themselves. And durned if our government has ever had any idea what to do about clashes of culture. Hell, look at our foreign policy. We don’t have a friggin’ clue.
It starts at home, folks.