# What would you be willing to permanently give sex for?

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**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [December 10, 2012, 1:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-you-be-willing-to-permanently-give-sex-for/643558 "2012-12-10T01:32:51Z")\
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**Author:** ![Siam\_Sam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d78d45/32.png) [@Siam\_Sam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Siam_Sam)\
**Post date:** [December 10, 2012, 3:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-you-be-willing-to-permanently-give-sex-for/643558/21 "2012-12-10T03:29:58Z")

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Sorry, I’m more intrigued with the idea of permanently giving sex.

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**Author:** ![Ambivalid](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a5b964/32.png) [@Ambivalid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ambivalid)\
**Post date:** [December 10, 2012, 3:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-you-be-willing-to-permanently-give-sex-for/643558/22 "2012-12-10T03:34:16Z")

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> [@Fear\_Itself](#):
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> No, getting clean is not worth giving up sex. I would require something better than mere sobriety.

Interesting.

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**Author:** ![HoneyBadgerDC](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/honeybadgerdc/32/1033_2.png) [@HoneyBadgerDC](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/HoneyBadgerDC)\
**Post date:** [December 10, 2012, 3:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-you-be-willing-to-permanently-give-sex-for/643558/23 "2012-12-10T03:50:06Z")

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I had a very strange week this week, I have been obsessing over a new hobby and have been on a natural high. I normaly want sex nearly everyday but this entire week have been close to impotent and unable to achieve orgasm, actually I have been uninterested but trying to go through the motions. To maintain a high level of passion and energy for something I suspect it could take the place of sex and I would not miss it.

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**Author:** ![Trinopus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/2bfe46/32.png) [@Trinopus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Trinopus)\
**Post date:** [December 10, 2012, 3:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-you-be-willing-to-permanently-give-sex-for/643558/24 "2012-12-10T03:56:14Z")

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Sex, per se, I have already given up. (Late middle-age male virgin. So it goes.) However, I’d have to be offered something pretty good to give up the old right-hand-wank. Among other things, milking the prostate has health benefits. Still, make me an offer – say, $400,000 after taxes. Make me one of the world’s ten best oboists. Make me editor-in-chief at Marvel Comics…

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**Author:** ![andrewbub](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/b9e5f3/32.png) [@andrewbub](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/andrewbub)\
**Post date:** [December 10, 2012, 4:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-you-be-willing-to-permanently-give-sex-for/643558/25 "2012-12-10T04:21:01Z")

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be financially secure (read: rich) for the rest of my life.

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**Author:** ![nion](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/c5a1d2/32.png) [@nion](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/nion)\
**Post date:** [December 10, 2012, 5:42am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-you-be-willing-to-permanently-give-sex-for/643558/26 "2012-12-10T05:42:46Z")

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Nothing here, as well.

I actually greatly miss sex, and have missed out dearly for far too long. ☹

Long live sex!

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**Author:** ![Blackberry](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/ecd19e/32.png) [@Blackberry](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Blackberry)\
**Post date:** [December 10, 2012, 6:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-you-be-willing-to-permanently-give-sex-for/643558/27 "2012-12-10T06:17:00Z")

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Do you still WANT sex, or do you lose sexual desire?

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**Author:** ![Ranchoth](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ranchoth/32/1066_2.png) [@Ranchoth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ranchoth)\
**Post date:** [December 10, 2012, 6:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-you-be-willing-to-permanently-give-sex-for/643558/28 "2012-12-10T06:23:56Z")

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Being able to heal people, a la Jesus, would be worth it. In fact, I think I’d _have_ to.

…and/or to [untraceably slay them at a whim.](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i0BWUHTobxQ) I could live with that.

🙂

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**Author:** ![nion](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/c5a1d2/32.png) [@nion](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/nion)\
**Post date:** [December 10, 2012, 6:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-you-be-willing-to-permanently-give-sex-for/643558/29 "2012-12-10T06:30:11Z")

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> [@Blackberry](#):
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> Do you still WANT sex, or do you lose sexual desire?

I very much WANT sex. lol

My estranged wife did not, however, and therefore I can count my encounters from the past couple of YEARS on one hand. Now that I am single, I’m hoping that will change in the future…

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**Author:** ![AClockworkMelon](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/aclockworkmelon/32/10803_2.png) [@AClockworkMelon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AClockworkMelon)\
**Post date:** [December 10, 2012, 6:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-you-be-willing-to-permanently-give-sex-for/643558/30 "2012-12-10T06:33:45Z")

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I’d almost definitely wind up seriously regretting it but I’d probably take the deal if I stood to gain immense wealth, as in billions of dollars.

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**Author:** ![Ambivalid](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a5b964/32.png) [@Ambivalid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ambivalid)\
**Post date:** [December 10, 2012, 6:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-you-be-willing-to-permanently-give-sex-for/643558/31 "2012-12-10T06:37:57Z")

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> [@AClockworkMelon](#):
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> I’d almost definitely wind up seriously regretting it but I’d probably take the deal if I stood to gain immense wealth, as in billions of dollars.

Yeah, billions of dollars and nothing to bang…what could be regrettable there?

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**Author:** ![eschereal](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/eschereal/32/18939_2.png) [@eschereal](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/eschereal)\
**Post date:** [December 10, 2012, 6:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-you-be-willing-to-permanently-give-sex-for/643558/32 "2012-12-10T06:44:22Z")

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> [@nion](#):
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> … and therefore I can count my encounters from the past couple of YEARS on one hand…

Nice way to put that 🆒

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**Author:** ![thenonepercent](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@thenonepercent](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/thenonepercent)\
**Post date:** [December 10, 2012, 6:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-you-be-willing-to-permanently-give-sex-for/643558/33 "2012-12-10T06:57:32Z")

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> [@Fear\_Itself](#):
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> I would require something better than mere sobriety.

Something better than sobriety? You sound like an addict.

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**Author:** ![Trepa\_Mayfield](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/edb3f5/32.png) [@Trepa\_Mayfield](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Trepa_Mayfield)\
**Post date:** [December 10, 2012, 7:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-you-be-willing-to-permanently-give-sex-for/643558/34 "2012-12-10T07:19:52Z")

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Would we be able to give up the sex drive along with the sex?

If so, I wouldn’t need anything else to sweeten the deal. Sign me up.

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**Author:** ![Blackberry](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/ecd19e/32.png) [@Blackberry](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Blackberry)\
**Post date:** [December 10, 2012, 7:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-you-be-willing-to-permanently-give-sex-for/643558/35 "2012-12-10T07:19:59Z")

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So you’re not just giving up sex, you’re giving up the option to even have romantic relationships at all. Or at least I would be. Maybe not you if you’ve already been married for 50 years or something.

> [@Trepa\_Mayfield](#):
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> Would we be able to give up the sex drive along with the sex?
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> If so, I wouldn’t need anything else to sweeten the deal. Sign me up.

Not me, that would be so boring and then I’d just have to find something at least as destructive to replace it with.

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**Author:** ![Rushgeekgirl](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rushgeekgirl/32/3715_2.png) [@Rushgeekgirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rushgeekgirl)\
**Post date:** [December 10, 2012, 1:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-you-be-willing-to-permanently-give-sex-for/643558/36 "2012-12-10T13:30:34Z")

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One word: Sneezgasm.

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**Author:** ![black\_rabbit](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/f19dbf/32.png) [@black\_rabbit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/black_rabbit)\
**Post date:** [December 10, 2012, 1:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-you-be-willing-to-permanently-give-sex-for/643558/37 "2012-12-10T13:41:58Z")

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I’ve been dealing with a nasty thrombosed hemorrhoid for the past two weeks, with periodic bursts of level-10 pain and a modal experience of sore, grumpy shittiness. I even went to the ER this weekend to get some oxycodone, which I never do.

Me and the Mrs. are still doin’ it.

So… nothing.

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**Author:** ![TokyoBayer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tokyobayer/32/13989_2.png) [@TokyoBayer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TokyoBayer)\
**Post date:** [December 10, 2012, 1:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-you-be-willing-to-permanently-give-sex-for/643558/38 "2012-12-10T13:46:16Z")

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Well, I know a lot of guys who seem to have unwittingly given up sex for children. . .

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**Author:** ![elbows](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/b3f665/32.png) [@elbows](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/elbows)\
**Post date:** [December 10, 2012, 2:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-you-be-willing-to-permanently-give-sex-for/643558/39 "2012-12-10T14:36:01Z")

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Hmm, interesting question.

I don’t think there is any enticement that would convince be. I can think of a circumstance however.  
If my hubby of many years became unable to perform, via accident or illness, - ever again, I think I could give it up in exchange for that relationship continuing. Willingly and without regret.

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**Author:** ![taskmgr.exe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/d9b06d/32.png) [@taskmgr.exe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/taskmgr.exe)\
**Post date:** [December 10, 2012, 2:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-you-be-willing-to-permanently-give-sex-for/643558/40 "2012-12-10T14:39:14Z")

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> [@Ambivalid](#):
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> Is there anything for which one would be willing to permanently give up all sex, masturbation and orgasm?
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> ETA: ok, that OP title is supposed to say “permanently give UP sex”; not permanently give sex. &aha.

Do you want to give up sex, masturbation and orgasm because you can’t get any? You must tell us the reason behind the fact that you ask this question, so we can answer you accordingly.

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