# What would you tell a 25 year old male virgin? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [January 21, 2016, 5:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-you-tell-a-25-year-old-male-virgin/743761 "2016-01-21T05:55:06Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![TheLadyMage](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/8c91f0/32.png) [@TheLadyMage](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TheLadyMage)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2016, 12:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-you-tell-a-25-year-old-male-virgin/743761/41 "2016-01-24T00:46:42Z")
I would tell him that his sexuality is not other people’s business, and that he is a rare commodity in this day and age. I would also commend him for not giving up something that is so precious in a willy-nilly sort of way. If he’s saving himself for his future wife, then that’s very admirable. This message brought to you by a 22 year old female virgin who has had to resist the advances of several men due to her very strong religious beliefs. ---
**Author:** ![Count\_Blucher](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/c5a1d2/32.png) [@Count\_Blucher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Count_Blucher)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2016, 2:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-you-tell-a-25-year-old-male-virgin/743761/42 "2016-01-24T02:24:31Z")
> [@PSXer](#): > > What would you tell a 25 year old male virgin?? “Get away from me kid, ya bother me…!” ---
**Author:** ![Trinopus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/2bfe46/32.png) [@Trinopus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Trinopus)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2016, 2:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-you-tell-a-25-year-old-male-virgin/743761/43 "2016-01-24T02:32:40Z")
> [@TheLadyMage](#): > > . . . willy-nilly . . . I see what you did there. ---
**Author:** ![LSLGuy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lslguy/32/5813_2.png) [@LSLGuy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LSLGuy)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2016, 2:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-you-tell-a-25-year-old-male-virgin/743761/44 "2016-01-24T02:52:15Z")
It’s been a couple days. I wonder if the OP will return to grace us with another post on topic? Hey **PSXer** : You’ve got several lines of advice here based on different hypotheticals about this hypothetical person’s hypothetical behaviors and hypothetical attitudes. Care to throw us a bone (heh :))and tell us which hypothetical is the correct avenue for us to explore further? ---
**Author:** ![WF\_Tomba](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/d9b06d/32.png) [@WF\_Tomba](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/WF_Tomba)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2016, 4:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-you-tell-a-25-year-old-male-virgin/743761/45 "2016-01-24T04:31:14Z")
I was a male virgin until age 30. I’m 32 now. I would advise any 25-year-old male virgin to contact the woman who operates the following site: > **[Be Open and Honest: Kendra Holliday](https://www.beopenandhonest.com/)** > > Personal Consulting, Sex Therapy, Surrogate Partner, St Louis MO ---
**Author:** ![HeXen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/c89c15/32.png) [@HeXen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/HeXen)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2016, 4:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-you-tell-a-25-year-old-male-virgin/743761/46 "2016-01-24T04:54:33Z")
I wouldn’t advice him of anything. If he’s a virgin, I’m sure there’s a reason for it, rather I’d tell him not to ask questions for which he won’t listen to the solutions for anyway. Because that’s what people like that do, listen then do nothing. Waste of time. ---
**Author:** ![suranyi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e36b37/32.png) [@suranyi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/suranyi)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2016, 2:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-you-tell-a-25-year-old-male-virgin/743761/47 "2016-01-25T02:31:52Z")
The most direct and impartial thing I could say is this: Just because someone is a virgin at age 25 does not mean that person will be a virgin for his entire life. I am personal evidence of this. ---
**Author:** ![Drunky\_Smurf](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/drunky_smurf/32/449_2.png) [@Drunky\_Smurf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Drunky_Smurf)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2016, 11:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-you-tell-a-25-year-old-male-virgin/743761/48 "2016-01-25T23:13:50Z")
> [@TheLadyMage](#): > > This message brought to you by a 22 year old female virgin who has had to resist the advances of several men due to her very strong religious beliefs. You and **PSXer** should hook up. Another doper marriage in the making. ---
**Author:** ![Emtar\_KronJonDerSohn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/58956e/32.png) [@Emtar\_KronJonDerSohn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Emtar_KronJonDerSohn)\ **Post date:** [January 25, 2016, 11:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-you-tell-a-25-year-old-male-virgin/743761/49 "2016-01-25T23:42:54Z")
> [@Ravenman](#): > > “Start with a mental girlfriend and work your way up.” …and by the time you realize they’re _all_ mental you’ll at least have a few notches in your belt. 😃 [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/what-would-you-tell-a-25-year-old-male-virgin/743761.md?page=2)