# What's it like to have sex as/with an obese human?

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**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [December 1, 2006, 12:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-it-like-to-have-sex-as-with-an-obese-human/382414 "2006-12-01T00:58:41Z")\
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**Author:** ![Aeschines](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/aeschines/32/16251_2.png) [@Aeschines](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Aeschines)\
**Post date:** [December 2, 2006, 6:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-it-like-to-have-sex-as-with-an-obese-human/382414/61 "2006-12-02T18:18:11Z")

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[QUOTE=Zoe]  
And sexual attraction with absolutely no finesse will get even the most attractive guy a reputation for being a dud.  
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Who says you can’t fake whatever your partner wants? As I said, I can parse those different kinds of love. That knowledge increases one’s power; it doesn’t make one a heavy-breathing lothario.

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> Stop thinking of the women as slabs of meat to be graded.

Another cliche, babe. I’m attracted to hot, intelligent, dominant women. And I like hot, intelligent, sex with both partners as equals. At the same time, participating in such a relationship doesn’t send me into rainbows/unicorns/eternal love mode.

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> And don’t confuse love with smaltz – though you don’t have to be in love to experience _love_-making.

Um, whatever, sounds like you have it all figured out. :rolleyes:

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**Author:** ![Aeschines](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/aeschines/32/16251_2.png) [@Aeschines](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Aeschines)\
**Post date:** [December 2, 2006, 6:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-it-like-to-have-sex-as-with-an-obese-human/382414/62 "2006-12-02T18:23:30Z")

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[QUOTE=tvvat]  
oh BURN!

though i agree with most of your opponents.  
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You enjoying the fantasy of eternal monogamy too?

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**Author:** ![Frank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Frank](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Frank)\
**Post date:** [December 2, 2006, 6:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-it-like-to-have-sex-as-with-an-obese-human/382414/63 "2006-12-02T18:45:05Z")

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[QUOTE=Aeschines]  
You enjoying the fantasy of eternal monogamy too?  
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I’m not going to let you take this thread sneering in all directions.

Thread closed.

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