# What's the best goodbye song that's at least a little uplifting?

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**Created:** [September 23, 2002, 8:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-the-best-goodbye-song-thats-at-least-a-little-uplifting/129337 "2002-09-23T20:32:24Z")\
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**Author:** ![stpauler](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9d8465/32.png) [@stpauler](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/stpauler)\
**Post date:** [September 23, 2002, 8:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-the-best-goodbye-song-thats-at-least-a-little-uplifting/129337/1 "2002-09-23T20:32:24Z")

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I was talking with my S.O. and we were talking about this. Anybody have any?  
So far, my ideas haven’t been the best:  
Don’t Go-Hothouse Flowers  
Slide-Gus

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**Author:** ![astro](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/9dc877/32.png) [@astro](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/astro)\
**Post date:** [September 23, 2002, 9:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-the-best-goodbye-song-thats-at-least-a-little-uplifting/129337/2 "2002-09-23T21:37:19Z")

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> [@](#):
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> \*Originally posted by stpauler \*  
> \*\*I was talking with my S.O. and we were talking about this. Anybody have any?  
> So far, my ideas haven’t been the best:  
> Don’t Go-Hothouse Flowers  
> Slide-Gus \*\*

[So Long, Farewell](http://www.geocities.com/Tokyo/Flats/2429/sound/10.html) from the Sound of Music

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**Author:** ![chiefhardcrab](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/e68b1a/32.png) [@chiefhardcrab](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/chiefhardcrab)\
**Post date:** [September 23, 2002, 10:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-the-best-goodbye-song-thats-at-least-a-little-uplifting/129337/3 "2002-09-23T22:33:34Z")

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“Goodbye, Good-Lookin’”- Robbie Fulks

“The earth sure felt like heaven…for awhile”

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**Author:** ![The\_Big\_Cheese](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/8baadc/32.png) [@The\_Big\_Cheese](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Big_Cheese)\
**Post date:** [September 23, 2002, 11:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-the-best-goodbye-song-thats-at-least-a-little-uplifting/129337/4 "2002-09-23T23:57:52Z")

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Unanswered Prayers by Garth Brooks [http://www.planetgarth.com/lyrics/unanswered\_prayers.shtml](http://www.planetgarth.com/lyrics/unanswered_prayers.shtml)

She’s Finally over me - by Teddy Pendergrass, can’t find a link.

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**Author:** ![Ersatz\_Shmoe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/ee59a6/32.png) [@Ersatz\_Shmoe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ersatz_Shmoe)\
**Post date:** [September 24, 2002, 2:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-the-best-goodbye-song-thats-at-least-a-little-uplifting/129337/5 "2002-09-24T02:05:36Z")

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“Don’t Think Twice, It’s Alright” by Bob Dylan.

Probably not what the OP was referring to, but after a particularly drawn out and ugly breakup, it was particularly uplifting for me:

“I ain’t sayin’ you treated me unkind/ you coulda done better but I don’t mind/ You just kinda wasted my precious time/ but don’t think twice, it’s alright.”

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**Author:** ![Scotticher](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e9c0ed/32.png) [@Scotticher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Scotticher)\
**Post date:** [September 24, 2002, 2:35am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-the-best-goodbye-song-thats-at-least-a-little-uplifting/129337/6 "2002-09-24T02:35:50Z")

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“Love Lives On” by Joe Cocker…also, in a slightly different vein…“Letting Go” by Joe Cocker. Yes, I am on a tangent these days, why do you ask? 😃

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**Author:** ![Kat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/b19c9b/32.png) [@Kat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kat)\
**Post date:** [September 24, 2002, 2:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-the-best-goodbye-song-thats-at-least-a-little-uplifting/129337/7 "2002-09-24T02:51:32Z")

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“The Dance” by Garth Brooks

[What Might Have Been](http://www.lyricscafe.com/l/little_texas/ltexas22.html) by Little Texas

[Don’t Happen Twice](http://www.lyricscafe.com/c/chesney_kenny/kc37.html) by Kenny Chesney

(Although those two are more “looking back after some time has passed” rather than “saying good-bye” songs)

[A Girl’s Gotta Do What a Girl’s Gotta Do](http://www.lyricscafe.com/m/mccready_mindy/mindy05.html) by Mindy McCready

Oh, here’s [The Dance](http://www.lyricscafe.com/b/brooks_garth/garth12.html), if you’re interested.

Oh, wait. Damn. Can’t believe I forgot this one. [A Better Man](http://www.lyricscafe.com/b/black_clint/cb01.html) by Clint Black

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**Author:** ![rjk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/ed655f/32.png) [@rjk](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/rjk)\
**Post date:** [September 24, 2002, 3:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-the-best-goodbye-song-thats-at-least-a-little-uplifting/129337/8 "2002-09-24T03:01:45Z")

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**Losin’ You (Might be the Best Thing Yet)** by Jimmy Martin - Edria Humphrey.  
(Imagine the fiddle here…)  
"The longest day I live I’ll still be suff’rin’ from the shame.  
In the gutter you were makin’ yourself quite a name.

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I wanted you, you wanted anyone you could get.  
Losin’ you could be the best thing yet."

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**Author:** ![rjk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/ed655f/32.png) [@rjk](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/rjk)\
**Post date:** [September 24, 2002, 3:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-the-best-goodbye-song-thats-at-least-a-little-uplifting/129337/9 "2002-09-24T03:07:29Z")

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Damn! For ‘could’, read ‘might’.

I even read it over in preview. Maybe I shouldn’t have been singing along. ☹

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**Author:** ![ElwoodCuse](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/edb3f5/32.png) [@ElwoodCuse](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ElwoodCuse)\
**Post date:** [September 24, 2002, 4:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-the-best-goodbye-song-thats-at-least-a-little-uplifting/129337/10 "2002-09-24T04:00:51Z")

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Leaving on a jet plane. I don’t know who sings it for real, I have a cover version by Me First and the Gimme Gimmes.

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**Author:** ![StephenG](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/7feea3/32.png) [@StephenG](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/StephenG)\
**Post date:** [September 24, 2002, 4:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-the-best-goodbye-song-thats-at-least-a-little-uplifting/129337/11 "2002-09-24T04:38:45Z")

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> [@](#):
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> \*Originally posted by ElwoodCuse \*  
> \*\*Leaving on a jet plane. I don’t know who sings it for real, I have a cover version by Me First and the Gimme Gimmes. \*\*

I believe it was John Denver. [Canadian artist plug]Chantal Kreviazuk[/plug] also sings it excellently, as featured in _Armageddon_.
