What's up with this phenomenon? (Won't watch TV ... but will watch TV shows on DVD.)

It’s not snobbery; it’s self-preservation.

It started with my first son, who at a tender age would be transfixed by the television for hours, then turn into a brat for the rest of the day.

On one memorable occasion, I watched with him an episode of “Bill Nye The Science Guy.” For those who are unfamiliar, it’s an incredibly fast-paced show with MTV video-style editing, with each episode devote to a single aspect of science. The show we watched was devoted to describing centrifugal force.

After the show, I asked him what it was about. He couldn’t tell me. I asked if he could describe anything we had just watched. He couldn’t.

It was like his memory had been scrubbed clean.

So, when the TV broke, we didn’t bother replacing it and yanked the cable.

This seemed to disturb people. We had relatives offer us their spare sets. My mother, on her death bed, asked if I wanted hers.

We weren’t being radical about it. We just liked the quiet.

Eventually, we acquired another set, and we’ve fallen into the habit of buying DVDs. We get the shows we want to watch, with subtitles (trying watching “The Full Monty” and “Shaun of the Dead” without it), and we don’t have to deal with commercials.

My wife’s folks have cable, and everytime we visit, we watch a bit of the telly, and we’re glad all over again that we don’t subscribe. And at our income, the $600+ a year can buy a lot of DVDs!

But what I find interesting most about this experiment is that, even though we have at least 40+ movies from Disney, Pixar and Looney Tunes, my three kids rarely watch them. It goes in cycles. But they understand that they can decide for themselves what to watch, when they want to. And we’ve found that, cut off from the TV, they demand far less new crap than other kids we know.

Exhibit A: Desperate Housewives. On TV on Sunday night, usually in conflict with a football game.

I live with men and boys. They are going to watch the football game. We only have one TV, which is one too many (but I digress).

So watching DH is a hassle for me since I have to kick the boys out and then my kid shouldn’t be seeing some of this stuff. There have been nights when I plopped him in the tub (where he will stay happily for awhile) and watched, but generally it was too much trouble, and since I’m not in the habit of watching, there were nights that I just plumb forgot.

If I get the DVD I can sit and watch all the episodes at once, without commercials, in the middle of the night or some other time at my convenience.

There were others I never heard of until they were in their second or third year. And I never had HBO so I could never watch The Sopranos except on DVD.

In case the user name wasn’t a tipoff, college sports (well, most sports, honestly) are very important to me, and for that reason alone, until (if ever) a la carte cable packages are available, I will continue to get basic cable (especially if my future places of residence are like my current one, where people are pretty ignorant about college sports and a solitary woman is made to feel very uncomfortable in a sports bar).

However, besides sports, most of my TV watching tends to be in the “repeat, syndicated shows that happen to be on at the time and catch my fancy” category (e.g., L&O). Like many others, I find it very hard to be in front of the TV at the same time every week (So You Think You Can Dance? is a real struggle for me to keep up with) and I use Netflix to introduce myself to new shows or to watch shows that need to be seen in a particular order. Then, if they’re as awesome as Babylon 5, I buy them. :slight_smile:

You have no idea how much I hate advertising. I can feel commercials making me stupid. Especially cable commercials. Maybe you’re numb to the sensation, or have figured out how to ward them off. Congrats. I’d rather be bored than watch some terrible old movie on television, edited for content and inundated with interruptions.

You also have no idea how annoying I find it to watch over and over the same commercials for service upgrades with the same terrible jingle at the end.
I live in a town where cable is the only option for watching any kind of television broadcast, unless it’s on CBS. They raised the prices; I switched it off.

Plus, it’s lovely. No interruptions, unless I seek them. I have the control. What’s going to happen next episode? I watch it. No need to pay $10+/month for a premium channel, just for Six feet under or curb. I don’t miss a thing about broadcast TV.

Television news makes me stupid - or angry; I mostly stopped watching it when I noticed that my young son was picking up my habit of shouting at the newsreaders. I don’t care about Harry Potter one way or the other, but is the release of some children’s book the most important thing in the world today? Are there no wars, no famines, no earthquakes? Why are you devoting ten minutes to free advertising for a commercial enterprise?

I’m one of those people, as well. I like some TV shows, but won’t watch broadcast television either for these two primary reasons:

I can’t stand (really can’t stand) commercials.

I want to watch shows on my own schedule.

The “edited for content” thing makes me really :mad:. I hate watching some movie and finding all the good jokes have been cut, or all the language has been changed.

Whoever said TV watchers were beta testers was very true.

I don’t want to be stuck watching TV during a specific time period when I could be having the sex. And since I never know when I could be having the sex, I don’t let myself get hooked on live TV.

For some reason, it’s a lot easier to interrupt the DVD of a TV show with the sex. Probably because you can always get it back.

Tivo seems good, but think of all the sex you give up while you’re telling Tivo what you like and dislike? Hey Tivo- I like sex. Shut your ass.

I like this point.

Rather than wonder why some people watch TV shows on DVD, I wonder why more people don’t do so.

The only reasons I can think of for watching live TV are sports, daily programs, and current events. So, if those things are important to you, I guess it justifies paying more (way more, if you want the option of HBO, Showtime, etc.), commercial interruption, bleeped out words, pop up ads, forced scheduling (or paying even more for a machine that undoes the scheduling), and not being able to pause or rewind easily.

Sure, a DVR solves some of those problems, but doesn’t Tivo cost around $10/month (after $100+ to buy it)? That’s a bit more than half of what a Netflix or Blockbuster subscription costs, and that’s just to give you the basic abilities to control video flow that you already have on a $40 DVD player. You have to pay a whole bunch more for the content.

I find your ideas fascinating and would like to subscribe to your newletter! :smiley: