# What's you and your SO's "song"?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-you-and-your-sos-song/80367>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [September 8, 2001, 6:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-you-and-your-sos-song/80367 "2001-09-08T06:12:48Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![GENE\_STONER](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/2bfe46/32.png) [@GENE\_STONER](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GENE_STONER)\
**Post date:** [September 8, 2001, 11:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-you-and-your-sos-song/80367/21 "2001-09-08T23:10:04Z")

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“Blue Monday” , by the Doors. It was written by Jim Morrison. He wanted to give it to Frank Sinatra when Sinatra married Mia Farrow.

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**Author:** ![xcheopis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/x/bc8723/32.png) [@xcheopis](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/xcheopis)\
**Post date:** [September 8, 2001, 11:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-you-and-your-sos-song/80367/22 "2001-09-08T23:34:58Z")

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**Lonesome Moonlight Waltz** by Bill Monroe.  
No lyrics.

In fact, **carnie** is playing it right now. 🙂

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**Author:** ![Kittie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/f07891/32.png) [@Kittie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kittie)\
**Post date:** [September 9, 2001, 1:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-you-and-your-sos-song/80367/23 "2001-09-09T01:38:43Z")

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“Stellar” by Incubus…It was our song before they got popular dammit!!  
~Kittie

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**Author:** ![Chanteuse](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/9de053/32.png) [@Chanteuse](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Chanteuse)\
**Post date:** [September 9, 2001, 3:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-you-and-your-sos-song/80367/24 "2001-09-09T03:09:05Z")

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“Can’t Fight This Feeling” by REO Speedwagon.  
We’ll be celebrating 16 years of marriage on September 22 and that song still means the world to us! _sigh!_🙂

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**Author:** ![Nacho4Sara](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Nacho4Sara](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nacho4Sara)\
**Post date:** [September 9, 2001, 3:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-you-and-your-sos-song/80367/25 "2001-09-09T03:11:47Z")

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“These Foolish Things” by Billie Holliday.

Perfect for a long, sweet, romantic dance.

_“A cigerette that bears a lipstick’s traces,  
an airline ticket to romantic places.  
Oh, my heart has wings-  
these foolish things remind me of you.”_

Plus, it has a really long, beautiful intro that makes me all tingly.

The only alternative I would ever consider is “A Kiss to Build A Dream On” by Louis Armstrong, or “At Last” by Etta James. Come to think of it, all three are on our mix tape.

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**Author:** ![Skijumper](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/3e96dc/32.png) [@Skijumper](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Skijumper)\
**Post date:** [September 9, 2001, 9:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-you-and-your-sos-song/80367/26 "2001-09-09T09:57:49Z")

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Our tastes in music are pretty different but my gf and I do occasionally agree on certain songs. Presently it’s ‘Exit Music (For a Film)’ by Radiohead.

Morbid, yes we know.

“Breathe, keep breathing  
I can’t do this alone…  
now we are one  
in everlasting peace.”

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**Author:** ![Montfort](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/d6d6ee/32.png) [@Montfort](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Montfort)\
**Post date:** [September 9, 2001, 2:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-you-and-your-sos-song/80367/27 "2001-09-09T14:18:42Z")

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> [@](#):
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> \*Originally posted by Redukter \*  
> \*\*I don’t have a signifigant other, although I’d fall in love with anyone who would consider ‘Let It Be’ by the Beatles their song.
> 
> Hey, **Montfort** … (hopes you’re female) \*\*

First, check the sig. Read both pages of it. Then, ask **Anniz** _her_self if I’m female or not. ;)\

Sorry, bud, but I’m not female…

[sub]Unless you’re female, too[/sub]

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**Author:** ![Dragon\_Phoenix](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/bcef8e/32.png) [@Dragon\_Phoenix](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dragon_Phoenix)\
**Post date:** [September 9, 2001, 2:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-you-and-your-sos-song/80367/28 "2001-09-09T14:53:07Z")

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You needed me - Anne Murray.  
The first song we sang for eachother and the song we got married to.

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**Author:** ![Hamadryad](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/6de8d8/32.png) [@Hamadryad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hamadryad)\
**Post date:** [September 9, 2001, 3:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-you-and-your-sos-song/80367/29 "2001-09-09T15:19:59Z")

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We don’t have a song that’s “our song,” though I keep wanting to tell people it’s “Every Breath you Take” by the Police just so they’ll all have the joy of telling me how inappropriate that is. 😃

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**Author:** ![Peta\_Tzunami](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/b487fb/32.png) [@Peta\_Tzunami](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Peta_Tzunami)\
**Post date:** [September 9, 2001, 4:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-you-and-your-sos-song/80367/30 "2001-09-09T16:52:32Z")

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“Here, There & Everywhere” - The Beatles  
(Followed closely by “I’ve Just Seen a Face” by same)

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**Author:** ![Sasquatch](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e79b87/32.png) [@Sasquatch](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sasquatch)\
**Post date:** [September 9, 2001, 5:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-you-and-your-sos-song/80367/31 "2001-09-09T17:27:38Z")

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If I had to choose, “Two Princes” by Spin Doctors.

Not for the “deep, meaningful lyrical content” or anything, but it was on the radio a lot when we got together (summer of 1992), and it just coincides with driving around with the top down on a nice summer day without a care in the world. It brings back memories of good times of when we first got together.

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**Author:** ![Poirot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/47e85d/32.png) [@Poirot](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Poirot)\
**Post date:** [September 9, 2001, 5:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-you-and-your-sos-song/80367/32 "2001-09-09T17:53:51Z")

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My SO insists “our song” is Moon River, which was playing at the wedding where we met. OK, I don’t recall the song they played, but it was very old then, and I doubt if anyone has played it since, except the Mrs.

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**Author:** ![robgruver](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/13edae/32.png) [@robgruver](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/robgruver)\
**Post date:** [September 10, 2001, 4:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-you-and-your-sos-song/80367/33 "2001-09-10T04:25:31Z")

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> [@](#):
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> \*Originally posted by Arden Ranger \*  
> \*\*Nine Inch Nails _Closer_.
> 
> We’re so bad. \*\*

Actually this is mine and Mrs. robgruver’s song, but since we didn’t think her parents would let that fly during our reception we used Meatloaf’s _Heaven Can Wait_.

[sub]No comments about Meatloaf. I like Meatloaf dammit.[/sub]

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**Author:** ![RickJay](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/bb73d2/32.png) [@RickJay](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RickJay)\
**Post date:** [September 10, 2001, 4:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-you-and-your-sos-song/80367/34 "2001-09-10T04:27:23Z")

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“Bobcaygeon,” The Tragically Hip.

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**Author:** ![Arden\_Ranger](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/b487fb/32.png) [@Arden\_Ranger](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Arden_Ranger)\
**Post date:** [September 10, 2001, 4:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-you-and-your-sos-song/80367/35 "2001-09-10T04:33:51Z")

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I love you, **rob** 😃

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**Author:** ![racinchikki](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/eada6e/32.png) [@racinchikki](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/racinchikki)\
**Post date:** [September 10, 2001, 4:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-you-and-your-sos-song/80367/36 "2001-09-10T04:46:40Z")

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My _third_ post to this thread, already. :rolleyes:

1. I’m listening to _Bobcaygeon_ right now, oddly enough.

2. **Gun** and I are trying to come up with an our song, but having difficulties deciding on anything. The fact that he doesn’t seem to know any music besides Led Zep, AC/DC, Aerosmith and Chuck Berry isn’t really helping.

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**Author:** ![Winnie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/e480ec/32.png) [@Winnie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Winnie)\
**Post date:** [September 10, 2001, 1:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-you-and-your-sos-song/80367/37 "2001-09-10T13:53:12Z")

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Our wedding song is **“Crush”** by the Dave Matthews Band (not to be confused with “Crash”)

Some other songs that make us tingle b/c they remind us of special moments or when we first met:

**"Baby I love your way"** Peter Frampton  
**"Fade to Black"** Metallica  
**"Don’t Close Your Eyes"** Kix  
Lots of **GNR** from the **“Use Your Illusion”** set as we played it constantly during our vehicle makeout sessions 🙂

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**Author:** ![plnnr](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/7ea924/32.png) [@plnnr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/plnnr)\
**Post date:** [September 10, 2001, 2:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-you-and-your-sos-song/80367/38 "2001-09-10T14:08:01Z")

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“My Funny Valentine,” by Ella Fitzgerald, of course.

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**Author:** ![lieu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/c2a13f/32.png) [@lieu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lieu)\
**Post date:** [September 10, 2001, 2:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-you-and-your-sos-song/80367/39 "2001-09-10T14:22:32Z")

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What a coincidence. I made a tape for my later-to-be-wife when I was in grad school and she’d just taken a job in her home state. We didn’t know we were going to fall in love yet.

Probably to cut that got her the most was EL&P’s In the Beginning.

The first dance song at our wedding was Clapton’s Wonderful Tonight.

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**Author:** ![Tygr](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/df788c/32.png) [@Tygr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tygr)\
**Post date:** [September 10, 2001, 6:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-you-and-your-sos-song/80367/40 "2001-09-10T18:49:41Z")

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Allison Krauss, singing [When You Say Nothing At All](http://www.angelfire.com/music3/mixedvariety/Wavs/NothingAtAll.html). IIRC, the original is by Kenny Chesney.

Makes me all smiley and mushy hearing it now.

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