# What's your current relationship status? (A snapshot poll)

**URL:** https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-your-current-relationship-status-a-snapshot-poll/530615
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion
**Created:** [February 27, 2010, 4:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-your-current-relationship-status-a-snapshot-poll/530615 "2010-02-27T04:11:33Z")
**Posts on this page:** 20
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### Author: ![Asimovian](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/asimovian/32/172_2.png) [@Asimovian](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Asimovian)
#### Post date: [February 27, 2010, 4:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-your-current-relationship-status-a-snapshot-poll/530615/1 "2010-02-27T04:11:33Z")

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That’s it. What’s your status RIGHT NOW, people? At least one inquiring mind wants to know. No, I’m not writing a paper that involves gathering statistical data or anything. Just curious. 🙂

As always, feel free to share as little or as much information as you want in your posts. I hope you will at least include how long you’ve been at your current status (and I’m particularly curious about this for those Dopers around who are in long distance relationships).

Note that you can check more than one answer in this poll. Choices are in no particular order. Have fun!

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### Author: ![Trick\_Rider](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/d6d6ee/32.png) [@Trick\_Rider](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Trick_Rider)
#### Post date: [February 27, 2010, 5:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-your-current-relationship-status-a-snapshot-poll/530615/2 "2010-02-27T05:08:37Z")

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Single for… a fairly long while, I guess. XD

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### Author: ![Covered\_In\_Bees](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/7ab992/32.png) [@Covered\_In\_Bees](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Covered_In_Bees)
#### Post date: [February 27, 2010, 5:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-your-current-relationship-status-a-snapshot-poll/530615/3 "2010-02-27T05:09:15Z")

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Dating casually with a friend with benefits on the side.

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### Author: ![Mrs\_Johnson](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7cd45c/32.png) [@Mrs\_Johnson](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mrs_Johnson)
#### Post date: [February 27, 2010, 5:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-your-current-relationship-status-a-snapshot-poll/530615/4 "2010-02-27T05:15:52Z")

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Committed relationship for the past 5 1/2 years. Living together for just over 1 year.

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### Author: ![porcupine](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ac91a4/32.png) [@porcupine](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/porcupine)
#### Post date: [February 27, 2010, 5:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-your-current-relationship-status-a-snapshot-poll/530615/5 "2010-02-27T05:59:28Z")

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Committed long-distance for 8 years. Very unconventional but it works for us. Four hour drive apart, and he does the vast majority of the driving.

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### Author: ![Ephemera](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/8baadc/32.png) [@Ephemera](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ephemera)
#### Post date: [February 27, 2010, 6:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-your-current-relationship-status-a-snapshot-poll/530615/6 "2010-02-27T06:15:06Z")

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Single for about 2.5 years.

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### Author: ![Glory](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/7cd45c/32.png) [@Glory](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Glory)
#### Post date: [February 27, 2010, 6:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-your-current-relationship-status-a-snapshot-poll/530615/7 "2010-02-27T06:17:41Z")

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Married as of Saturday, Feb. 20!

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### Author: ![suranyi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e36b37/32.png) [@suranyi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/suranyi)
#### Post date: [February 27, 2010, 6:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-your-current-relationship-status-a-snapshot-poll/530615/8 "2010-02-27T06:47:58Z")

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I’m married, about 3 and half years now.

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### Author: ![Maiira](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f04885/32.png) [@Maiira](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Maiira)
#### Post date: [February 27, 2010, 6:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-your-current-relationship-status-a-snapshot-poll/530615/9 "2010-02-27T06:51:27Z")

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Committed relationship. I said locally, though technically I suppose I should’ve said long distance, since he lives about 180 miles away from me. We plan on living together soon.

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### Author: ![TreacherousCretin](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/treacherouscretin/32/476_2.png) [@TreacherousCretin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TreacherousCretin)
#### Post date: [February 27, 2010, 7:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-your-current-relationship-status-a-snapshot-poll/530615/10 "2010-02-27T07:04:34Z")

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Married 40 years this June.

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### Author: ![Taomist](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@Taomist](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Taomist)
#### Post date: [February 27, 2010, 7:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-your-current-relationship-status-a-snapshot-poll/530615/11 "2010-02-27T07:54:39Z")

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> [@Glory](#):
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> Married as of Saturday, Feb. 20!

Congratulations! 😃

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### Author: ![unclviny](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/e274bd/32.png) [@unclviny](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/unclviny)
#### Post date: [February 27, 2010, 8:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-your-current-relationship-status-a-snapshot-poll/530615/12 "2010-02-27T08:33:15Z")

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Single, and I want it to stay that way (I am 44, single, no Kids and loving life).

Unclviny

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### Author: ![Grrr](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/grrr/32/146_2.png) [@Grrr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Grrr)
#### Post date: [February 27, 2010, 12:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-your-current-relationship-status-a-snapshot-poll/530615/13 "2010-02-27T12:59:29Z")

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> [@unclviny](#):
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> Single, and I want it to stay that way (I am 44, single, no Kids and loving life).
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> Unclviny

You sound lonely.

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### Author: ![kapri](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/4491bb/32.png) [@kapri](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kapri)
#### Post date: [February 27, 2010, 2:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-your-current-relationship-status-a-snapshot-poll/530615/14 "2010-02-27T14:24:27Z")

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I chose divorced, but I really should have clicked single. I’m both. No choice for both?

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### Author: ![nicole1912](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/9de0a6/32.png) [@nicole1912](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/nicole1912)
#### Post date: [February 27, 2010, 2:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-your-current-relationship-status-a-snapshot-poll/530615/15 "2010-02-27T14:24:35Z")

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> [@Glory](#):
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> Married as of Saturday, Feb. 20!

Congratulations!

I’m in a committed relationship, we’ve lived together for the last 6 and a half years. We’re talking about getting married, maybe, this year. The idea of planning a wedding, even the scaled-down minimalist version I’d want, scares me slightly…

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### Author: ![MeanOldLady](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/meanoldlady/32/10737_2.png) [@MeanOldLady](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MeanOldLady)
#### Post date: [February 27, 2010, 2:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-your-current-relationship-status-a-snapshot-poll/530615/16 "2010-02-27T14:30:26Z")

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> [@kapri](#):
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> I chose divorced, but I really should have clicked single. I’m both. No choice for both?

> [@Asimovian](#):
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> Note that you can check more than one answer in this poll.

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### Author: ![liberty3701](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/3d9bf3/32.png) [@liberty3701](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/liberty3701)
#### Post date: [February 27, 2010, 2:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-your-current-relationship-status-a-snapshot-poll/530615/17 "2010-02-27T14:40:24Z")

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I’ve been married about 3 1/2 years now. Though not really long distance, he works out of town from Monday to Thursday each week, so it’s this weird, kinda sucky hybrid thing. But we’ve done the long distance thing before, and we’ll probably do it again, so this arrangement isn’t that bad, I suppose. It can be very tricky when two academics get married.

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### Author: ![NinetyWt](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/cc9497/32.png) [@NinetyWt](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/NinetyWt)
#### Post date: [February 27, 2010, 2:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-your-current-relationship-status-a-snapshot-poll/530615/18 "2010-02-27T14:45:27Z")

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Married, for the third time.

Hope springs eternal!

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### Author: ![silenus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/silenus/32/166_2.png) [@silenus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/silenus)
#### Post date: [February 27, 2010, 2:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-your-current-relationship-status-a-snapshot-poll/530615/19 "2010-02-27T14:49:37Z")

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Together 8 years now, married for over 5.

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### Author: ![Sunspace](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sunspace/32/1250_2.png) [@Sunspace](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sunspace)
#### Post date: [February 27, 2010, 3:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-your-current-relationship-status-a-snapshot-poll/530615/20 "2010-02-27T15:09:01Z")

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Broke up but still friends. 🙂

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