# What's your favorite book you read because someone you know personally recommended it?

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**Created:** [April 18, 2018, 6:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-your-favorite-book-you-read-because-someone-you-know-personally-recommended-it/812656 "2018-04-18T18:56:45Z")\
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For me, it was _Watership Down_, by Richard Adams. My sister recommended it.

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I’m pretty standoffish about reading recommendations, which means people mostly don’t try to give them to me. I find my favorite books by pure happenstance, thank you very much.

Except that \*\*ivylass \*\*told me to read Outlander, and damn. Good book.

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**Post date:** [April 18, 2018, 8:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-your-favorite-book-you-read-because-someone-you-know-personally-recommended-it/812656/3 "2018-04-18T20:23:19Z")

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In junior high school, a friend gave me Robert Heinlein’s _Glory Road_ for a birthday present. Introduced me to one of my favorite authors.

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**Post date:** [April 18, 2018, 8:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-your-favorite-book-you-read-because-someone-you-know-personally-recommended-it/812656/4 "2018-04-18T20:25:06Z")

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**Lonesome Dove** , recommended by my sister.

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**Post date:** [April 18, 2018, 8:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-your-favorite-book-you-read-because-someone-you-know-personally-recommended-it/812656/5 "2018-04-18T20:32:06Z")

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My then-boyfriend, now-husband recommended _Lord of the Rings_ to me. I was about twenty then and I promptly read the whole thing cover-to-cover, as I have continued to do about once every five years since then.

The Aubrey-Maturin series was recommended to me by a guy at work. I love the series to death, but I grew to hate the guy who recommended it. I pretend to him that it didn’t do anything for me, so he won’t try to talk to me about it.

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**Post date:** [April 18, 2018, 8:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-your-favorite-book-you-read-because-someone-you-know-personally-recommended-it/812656/6 "2018-04-18T20:39:32Z")

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A fifth-grade classmate told me about _The Hobbit_ and _Lord of the Rings_. Thanks, Caroline!

More recently, a colleague gave me the first book in Ben Aaronovitch’s _Rivers of London_ series. Have not kept up with them since the first few, as they segued into a quasi-separate graphic-novel series, but they’re very interesting books.

I should maybe get back into _Rivers of London_ as I patiently wait for the next installments of Robert Galbraith’s Cormoran Strike and John Sandford’s Virgil Flowers series. Sigh. “Just a minute, Mr. Postman…”

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**Post date:** [April 18, 2018, 9:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-your-favorite-book-you-read-because-someone-you-know-personally-recommended-it/812656/7 "2018-04-18T21:00:45Z")

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Callahan’s Cross Time Saloon series by Spider Robinson and Myth Inc.series by Robert Aspirin courtesy of my best female friend in high school. I inhaled these books, in a good way!

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**Post date:** [April 18, 2018, 9:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-your-favorite-book-you-read-because-someone-you-know-personally-recommended-it/812656/8 "2018-04-18T21:15:40Z")

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> [@Dendarii\_Dame](#):
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> For me, it was _Watership Down_, by Richard Adams. My sister recommended it.

I can’t remember who actually recommended this to me or if I got it in a “books to read before you die” list. In the off-chance it was from a person, it’s this.

If I didn’t get that recommendation from a person, then it’s a book I read just last month. A YA series called “Six of Crows.” I read it for Book Club and I was hooked on it like I never thought I would be.

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**Author:** ![Andy\_L](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/c67d28/32.png) [@Andy\_L](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Andy_L)\
**Post date:** [April 18, 2018, 9:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-your-favorite-book-you-read-because-someone-you-know-personally-recommended-it/812656/9 "2018-04-18T21:21:13Z")

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> [@swampspruce](#):
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> Callahan’s Cross Time Saloon series by Spider Robinson and Myth Inc.series by Robert Aspirin courtesy of my best female friend in high school. I inhaled these books, in a good way!

My girlfriend recommended these books to me - and I married her!

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**Post date:** [April 18, 2018, 9:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-your-favorite-book-you-read-because-someone-you-know-personally-recommended-it/812656/10 "2018-04-18T21:25:44Z")

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Had an English class in high school where we just read books, wrote a report on them, met with the teacher individually for a conference and did a project on one (I made a nuclear power plant from a pantyhose egg with a light inside to simulate a meltdown). Stephen King’s **salem’s Lot** went through our class like wildfire–_everybody_ recommended it to everybody else.

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**Post date:** [April 18, 2018, 9:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-your-favorite-book-you-read-because-someone-you-know-personally-recommended-it/812656/11 "2018-04-18T21:32:04Z")

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_Time And Again_ by Jack Finney, many years ago.

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My mom gave me [“The Cliff Walk”](https://www.publishersweekly.com/978-0-316-80308-3) by Don Snyder when I was in a rough place in life. It really helped me through.

A friend recommended “the Monkey Wrench Gamg” which led me to the rest of Ed Abbey’s books.

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> [@Andy\_L](#):
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> My girlfriend recommended these books to me - and I married her!

And in answer to the OP’s actual question, a co-worker recommended Shards of Honor (by Lois McMaster Bujold) to me in 1994 - and Bujold is still a favorite.

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A girlfriend (at the time) recommended _A Confederacy of Dunces_. She had a sick, twisted world-view which I very much enjoyed, so I figured I’d enjoy the book, too. I did.

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In college a friend recommended the writings of Jorge Luis Borges to me, saying that I was probably strange enough to understand them. It’s been a lifelong pleasure.

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**Post date:** [April 18, 2018, 11:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-your-favorite-book-you-read-because-someone-you-know-personally-recommended-it/812656/16 "2018-04-18T23:43:11Z")

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My friend Donna suggested _Lonesome Dove by Larry McMurtry_. My first attempt to read the book didn’t take, but a year or so later I tried again and just loved it.

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**Post date:** [April 19, 2018, 12:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-your-favorite-book-you-read-because-someone-you-know-personally-recommended-it/812656/17 "2018-04-19T00:39:17Z")

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**The Stupidest Angel** by Christopher Moore. I’d never read Moore before, so this was my introduction to him. I found something I had to read aloud to my wife on every other page. Now we’ve both read every Moore book published\*, and I’ve read the stuff on his internet site.  
\*except **Noir** , which was just released yesterday. But we’ll get it soon and devour it.

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My wife and my son both recommended that I read Marilynne Robinson’s novel Gilead.

Well, they were right.

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I was about to graduate high school, and my college major was about to be Architecture. A friend recommended _The Fountainhead,_ saying my views on architecture were compatible with those in the book. She was right.

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**Post date:** [April 19, 2018, 9:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/whats-your-favorite-book-you-read-because-someone-you-know-personally-recommended-it/812656/20 "2018-04-19T09:03:09Z")

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_The Once and Future King_

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