Has anyone noticed your favorite place in the world changes as you grow?
As a kid - hell, til I was about 25 - my favorite place in the world was approximately halfway between the house in which I currently reside and the house in which I grew up. Before my father was born a granite company came through looking for mineable granite. Turns out the vein under my family’s land wasn’t mineable, but before that company left my great-grandfather made them build him a sort of park in our pasture. Four oak trees, two on each side of the creek. One great pink granite boulder carved into a chaise lounge, and two smaller boulders, stacked one on top of the other, on the other side. Together the rocks formed a kind of dam when the water was high, and a cool and relaxing place to lie on those hot summer days when all you want to do is …nothing. By the time I was 10 I had decided I was going to build a house right THERE.
Over the years, people upstream farmed too close to the swamp and dumped in too many chemicals. What used to be a creek is nothing more than an over-grown drainage ditch. Floods have toppled the two boulders, and silt has all but covered up the chaise.
Change, for the most part, is good. But when change takes away an integral part of one’s existence it is too sad for words.
When I lived in Pensacola, FL, I decided wanted 20 acres of white sand as my front yard. Then I realized there is no way in hell I could live there.
After several road trip through Tennessee, I decided I wanted a hilltop all to my own. See Pensacola.
I still want to live in Washington, DC someday - a townhouse on Q Street, on the Foxhall Road end.
I really really really like Chicago. Enough stuff to do that one is never bored, but yet not pretentious like NYC can be.
But if I could live anyplace, I think it would be Calle Gravina in Rota, Spain. And if I could not live there, it would be any one of a number of streets just like it on Spain’s Atlantic coast. It must be near the ocean; I should be able to hear the waves pound into shore from my rooftop.
In the end? None of these places would be worth the bricks and mortar without friends or family to share my home. So I’ll pick any place that is close to people who care for me.