# When and where did you lose your viginity? (Replies totally optional) **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [April 14, 2000, 6:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-and-where-did-you-lose-your-viginity-replies-totally-optional/15958 "2000-04-14T18:13:00Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 14\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![mega\_the\_roo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/3da27b/32.png) [@mega\_the\_roo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/mega_the_roo)\ **Post date:** [April 14, 2000, 11:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-and-where-did-you-lose-your-viginity-replies-totally-optional/15958/21 "2000-04-14T23:48:00Z")
mine wasn’t lost, it was taken. i was 17. * * * “Organs gross me out. That’s _organs_, not orgasms.” -the wallster ---
**Author:** ![Proudest\_Monkey](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/proudest_monkey/32/13257_2.png) [@Proudest\_Monkey](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Proudest_Monkey)\ **Post date:** [April 14, 2000, 11:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-and-where-did-you-lose-your-viginity-replies-totally-optional/15958/22 "2000-04-14T23:51:00Z")
…all this time spent lurking and **this** is the first MPSIMS thread I respond to… Age: 15 Place: the barn Sordid Details: my boyfriend of 3 or 4 months, felt pressured but curious. Totally forgettable as far as sex goes, but I certainly appreciated that it was a milestone moment. I walked around school the next few days wondering who \*\*had \*\* and who \*\* hadn’t \*\* Julie (hoping I worked the UBB Code correctly) ---
**Author:** ![StrTrkr777](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/fbc32d/32.png) [@StrTrkr777](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/StrTrkr777)\ **Post date:** [April 14, 2000, 11:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-and-where-did-you-lose-your-viginity-replies-totally-optional/15958/23 "2000-04-14T23:55:00Z")
I was one day past 22 she was almost 24. It was our wedding night. It was good, the honeymoon was amazing and it has been great ever since. Yes, my first and only was and is Mrs. Trkr. Jeffery ---
**Author:** ![crackwise](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/22d042/32.png) [@crackwise](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/crackwise)\ **Post date:** [April 15, 2000, 12:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-and-where-did-you-lose-your-viginity-replies-totally-optional/15958/24 "2000-04-15T00:48:00Z")
I was 17. She was 17. Classmate. We weren’t dating. We had been messing around for a couple of months off and on at her older sister’s apartment. It happened at the house of a friend of mine while his parents were out of town. We were both drunk as hell. It was all pretty forgettable. Except that the condom broke. Then her period came a few weeks later. No pregnancy. We continued to fool around off and on through high school. My next partner was more memorable. She was 21. I was 18 by now. Her waterbed. Lots of baby oil. She taught me a lot of things. ---
**Author:** ![Satan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e9bcb4/32.png) [@Satan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Satan)\ **Post date:** [April 15, 2000, 1:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-and-where-did-you-lose-your-viginity-replies-totally-optional/15958/25 "2000-04-15T01:06:00Z")
I waited until I was almost 22 years old. You see, I was looking for someone who would be special. I didn’t want to just fuck anyone, you know. I had standards, and I was looking for someone who would meet them all. I was looking for someone who would fuck me. That was very important to me. Anyway, I knew her sort of from work. She was quiet and talked about by others. It was the day of the office Christmas party, and the jerks at work were talking about how someone was gonne get lucky that night. Immediately, I decided that I would try and make it me. I talked to her. We went back to my place under the guise of listening to some music. We did, and I lost my virginity to her while a Metallica bootleg played. It sucked. She was horrible and I was worse. But I was so fucking glad to get it over with, I didn’t care… * * * Yer pal, Satan [http://www.raleighmusic.com/board/Images/devil.gif](http://www.raleighmusic.com/board/Images/devil.gif) _TIME ELAPSED SINCE I QUIT SMOKING: Five days, 23 hours, 4 minutes and 59 seconds. 238 cigarettes not smoked, saving $29.81. Life saved: 19 hours, 50 minutes._ ---
**Author:** ![Jeannie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/e480ec/32.png) [@Jeannie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jeannie)\ **Post date:** [April 15, 2000, 2:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-and-where-did-you-lose-your-viginity-replies-totally-optional/15958/26 "2000-04-15T02:01:00Z")
Okay, now, this depends on your definition of sex. But, if you are referring to intercourse with penetration: I was four days shy of 22. He had just turned 23. We were in a hotel room. We had been dating almost five months. It hurt (me) like hell, and so we stopped before either one of us was…um, finished. We were engaged seven months later. Last September, he became Mr. Jeannie. He is my first and only love. * * * I never hate myself in the morning. I sleep till noon. –Sig line courtesy of Wally 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Whammo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/8dc957/32.png) [@Whammo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Whammo)\ **Post date:** [April 15, 2000, 2:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-and-where-did-you-lose-your-viginity-replies-totally-optional/15958/27 "2000-04-15T02:09:00Z")
> [@](#): > > Originally posted by purplebear: > \*\* > > As to my story. I was 19, and the only part I want to share here is that over 20 years later, he is still the most important man in my life. I will treasure the memories of that night for the rest of my life, and hold them close to my heart. I loved him then, and I love him even more now. Thank you my beloved, for showing me what true love is really all about. > > \ > \*\* Gag me with a spoon. Ack. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Whammo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/8dc957/32.png) [@Whammo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Whammo)\ **Post date:** [April 15, 2000, 2:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-and-where-did-you-lose-your-viginity-replies-totally-optional/15958/28 "2000-04-15T02:12:00Z")
> [@](#): > > Originally posted by neuro-trash grrrl: > \*\* I will draw the curtain at this point, pausing only to add that it was mid-afternoon, and extremely hot, and so she got tired and worn out before I was ready to quit. She made up for it the next time, though, and the time after that, and the time after that… > \*\* _gulp_ I need some iced tea… ---
**Author:** ![TheNerd](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/858c86/32.png) [@TheNerd](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TheNerd)\ **Post date:** [April 15, 2000, 2:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-and-where-did-you-lose-your-viginity-replies-totally-optional/15958/29 "2000-04-15T02:18:00Z")
Actually, it was exactly one year ago yesterday. The previous night, I had been struggling to reconcile the facts that 1. I loved her 2. I thought I didn’t want to before marriage and 3) The opportunity was increasingly imminent. I decided that if I got the chance, there was nothing wrong with making love to the girl I loved. The very next morning, she woke me up with a knock on my window, and a surprise in store. _dreamy smile_ ---
**Author:** ![Lexicon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/ac8455/32.png) [@Lexicon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lexicon)\ **Post date:** [April 15, 2000, 2:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-and-where-did-you-lose-your-viginity-replies-totally-optional/15958/30 "2000-04-15T02:23:00Z")
15, a sophomore in high school. A jock (sorry, I thought I was cool) and on the varsity squad (oooh, ahhh). As a sophomore on varsity, there were several girls my age who thought “Gee, I bet if I was his girl I could meet some popular people, and being popular is the most important thing in the world. Who cares if he is a self-centered, egotistical, testosterone-fueled, prick.” Yes, I was a real jerk in high school. Yes, there were sluts and stupid bimbos galore. Yes, I thought I was the shit and God’s gift to said sluts and stupid bimbos. There was one in particular, and she was not a cheerleader, nor very popular. Nor did she care about any of that stupid shit. She was very hot, being a little blonde with a tight ass and stacked like a cord of wood. Anyway, I wanted her because she didn’t pour fuel on the raging fire that was my gigantic ego. She didn’t seem to want me or care that I was alive. This perplexed me. So I pursued her relentlessly, and we eventually started going out (eventually as in 3 weeks later). She was waaaaaaaaaay smarter than me, it turns out, as her ruse was that “Lots of chicks want this guy, and he ignores them and uses them (so everyone thought). If I ignore him, he’ll want me.” I bought it hook, line and sinker. The thing of it was, that up until then, I had not met a girl that would attack me and take my virginity. I knew that I was supposed to make the first move and take advantage of these girls, but I couldn’t seem to do it. Besides, I thought I could afford to have really high standards, and I wanted my first time to be with a real hot chick who would smurf my brains out and rock my world and be an experienced dirty slut and do things to me I had only seen in my brother’s video collection. Like I said, I was a real idiot in high school. Anyway, this young lady taught me more than I knew there was to learn, and helped me to be a better guy, and not such an asshole. And she could !@# like %@# in heat. So that was bonus. Lucky me, anyway, I know it doesn’t sound like it, but this is really a love story about two people getting together for the wrong reasons and discovering something really special between the two of them. It’s about a girl showing a stupid guy some of the things it means to be a man. At the time it was just fucking, but in retrospect I see that I came away with a lot more than that, and that was the start of my metamorphosis into the man I am (and still becoming) today. I think I rambled on a bit. Sorry. * * * Sticking feathers up your butt does not make you a chicken. ---
**Author:** ![aha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/eada6e/32.png) [@aha](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/aha)\ **Post date:** [April 15, 2000, 2:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-and-where-did-you-lose-your-viginity-replies-totally-optional/15958/31 "2000-04-15T02:57:00Z")
Lexicon: Can I get a witness…!!!Tell it all brother! Don’t hold back, just tell reverend aha everything my brother… > [@](#): > > Yes, I was a real jerk in high school. Yes, there were sluts and stupid bimbos galore. Yes, I thought I was the shit and God’s gift to said sluts and stupid bimbos. I don’t believe I would have told that part my brother… * * * One of the few to be personally welcomed to the board by Ed Zotti. Yours truly, aha ---
**Author:** ![Weirddave](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/919ad9/32.png) [@Weirddave](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Weirddave)\ **Post date:** [April 15, 2000, 3:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-and-where-did-you-lose-your-viginity-replies-totally-optional/15958/32 "2000-04-15T03:39:00Z")
Well, technically, we were both 14. We were playing truth or dare, and she let me put it in. She immediately yelled “ouch” and made me take it out. I completed the act with another girl a few years later. She was a real bitch, but being my first, I thought the moon shone out of her crotch for a bit. Glad I got over THAT!. * * * Cecil said it. I believe it. That settles it. ---
**Author:** ![Weirddave](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/919ad9/32.png) [@Weirddave](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Weirddave)\ **Post date:** [April 15, 2000, 3:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-and-where-did-you-lose-your-viginity-replies-totally-optional/15958/33 "2000-04-15T03:40:00Z")
Oh, nuts. I meant to post to the " When and where did you lose your virginity? ( replies manditory ) thread. * * * Cecil said it. I believe it. That settles it. ---
**Author:** ![purrplebear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/90ced4/32.png) [@purrplebear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/purrplebear)\ **Post date:** [April 15, 2000, 4:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-and-where-did-you-lose-your-viginity-replies-totally-optional/15958/34 "2000-04-15T04:22:00Z")
Iguana Boy, Thank you, but it is I who is _incredibly_ blessed. :o Rachelle,I am so sorry. {{{{{Rachelle}}}}} mega, my heart goes out to you. ☹ {{{{{{{{{mega}}}}}}}}}} {{{{{{{{{{B\_Line12}}}}}}}}}} Some great stories here, some sad, some not, a mixed bag just like the rest of us. congrats aha for a cool topic. * * * You are more than a human being, you are a human becoming. Og Mandino That’s my name, not a description. I am neither purple nor a bear. Okay, so I’m purple.\ [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-and-where-did-you-lose-your-viginity-replies-totally-optional/15958.md?page=1)