# When did you stop beating your wife? Challenging loaded questions in FQ **URL:** \ **Category:** About This Message Board\ **Created:** [December 29, 2022, 5:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-did-you-stop-beating-your-wife-challenging-loaded-questions-in-fq/977291 "2022-12-29T17:22:35Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 6
**Author:** ![Riemann](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/riemann/32/3133_2.png) [@Riemann](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Riemann)\ **Post date:** [December 29, 2022, 7:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-did-you-stop-beating-your-wife-challenging-loaded-questions-in-fq/977291/6 "2022-12-29T19:03:04Z")
> [@Tired\_and\_Cranky](#): > > You have repeatedly guessed my motivation. > [@Tired\_and\_Cranky](#): > > I don’t have an agenda. I have no concern with your personal motivation, nor have I tried to guess it. When I say “agenda”, I mean the _line of reasoning_ that you are obviously advancing here. Do you really think these comments leave any doubt about what conclusion you want to imply if there _are_ no such studies? > [@Any evidence that teaching kids about healthy boundaries and consent to physical contact reduces abuse?](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/any-evidence-that-teaching-kids-about-healthy-boundaries-and-consent-to-physical-contact-reduces-abuse/977225/25): > > I want to know if this strategy works or if it’s just something people are doing because something must be done about rape culture and sexual abuse and this is something so this must be done. There are lots of examples of people adopting well-meaning child rearing strategies that don’t work, often bolstered by “experts” with no evidence. > [@Any evidence that teaching kids about healthy boundaries and consent to physical contact reduces abuse?](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/any-evidence-that-teaching-kids-about-healthy-boundaries-and-consent-to-physical-contact-reduces-abuse/977225/1): > > “Experts” get quoted about the strategy and imply they believe it leads to better outcomes but psychology and sociology research is a real mixed bag with lots of unreliable studies treated as definitive. Worse yet, in the absence of data, it seems some people pretend their ideas or personal experience are data. As for this: > [@Tired\_and\_Cranky](#): > > I am sincerely curious about where this strategy came from If that’s the case, did someone _other_ than you report posts for moderation and seek to stifle any broader discussion? I really don’t see why a discussion of the _premise_ of your OP would somehow prevent people from also posting links to research and discussing its relevance and significance, if such research exists. > [@Tired\_and\_Cranky](#): > > I asked that the thread be moved to Great Debates because people seem to want to debate the strategy more than find out whether it works. Perhaps without the attempt to poison the well. --- _[View the full topic](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-did-you-stop-beating-your-wife-challenging-loaded-questions-in-fq/977291)._