# When do single people open their mailed Christmas presents?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-do-single-people-open-their-mailed-christmas-presents/606691>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [December 19, 2011, 12:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-do-single-people-open-their-mailed-christmas-presents/606691 "2011-12-19T00:50:50Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 9\
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**Author:** ![Rigamarole](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/77aa72/32.png) [@Rigamarole](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rigamarole)\
**Post date:** [December 19, 2011, 8:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-do-single-people-open-their-mailed-christmas-presents/606691/21 "2011-12-19T20:21:30Z")

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I usually go home for Christmas, but for other holidays/birthdays sometimes my mom will send me things and say “Don’t open it until X!”. I’ll nod and mhmm and say “Sure, mom”, then open it the day it arrives.

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**Author:** ![DrDeth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b487fb/32.png) [@DrDeth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DrDeth)\
**Post date:** [December 19, 2011, 9:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-do-single-people-open-their-mailed-christmas-presents/606691/22 "2011-12-19T21:21:39Z")

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I do wanna say, that if you are all alone, then eating a birthday cake sitting alone in a hotel room and singing “Happy Birthday to me…” is pretty damn pathetic. I should know….

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**Author:** ![Uncle\_Brother\_Walker](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/f08c70/32.png) [@Uncle\_Brother\_Walker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Uncle_Brother_Walker)\
**Post date:** [December 20, 2011, 5:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-do-single-people-open-their-mailed-christmas-presents/606691/23 "2011-12-20T05:44:35Z")

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I open mine on the day.

I don’t celebrate Xmas, and I don’t have a bunch of fond memories of it as a kid, so I wait until that morning and try to make nice for myself.

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**Author:** ![Khendrask](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/3e96dc/32.png) [@Khendrask](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Khendrask)\
**Post date:** [December 21, 2011, 12:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-do-single-people-open-their-mailed-christmas-presents/606691/24 "2011-12-21T12:49:22Z")

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Never.  
I haven’t accepted holiday gifts or cards for about 20 years now.  
Cards get shredded unopened, gifts get binned unopened.

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**Author:** ![jackdavinci](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jackdavinci/32/3259_2.png) [@jackdavinci](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jackdavinci)\
**Post date:** [December 21, 2011, 1:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-do-single-people-open-their-mailed-christmas-presents/606691/25 "2011-12-21T13:23:24Z")

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Mailed presents get opened Christmas Eve. Cards get opened on delivery.

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**Author:** ![tdn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/94ad74/32.png) [@tdn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/tdn)\
**Post date:** [December 21, 2011, 4:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-do-single-people-open-their-mailed-christmas-presents/606691/26 "2011-12-21T16:12:04Z")

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> [@Khadaji](#):
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> I keep my presents for the day they are intended. I got a few for my 50th birthday and did not open them until the day.

This is my answer too. I opened my mom’s present on my 50th birthday just minutes before she called.

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**Author:** ![ryan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/a8b319/32.png) [@ryan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ryan)\
**Post date:** [December 21, 2011, 5:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-do-single-people-open-their-mailed-christmas-presents/606691/27 "2011-12-21T17:59:25Z")

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I’m single, don’t put up a tree and open my presents (if I get any) when they arrive. It’s the thought that counts, right?

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**Author:** ![Lionne](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8e8cbc/32.png) [@Lionne](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lionne)\
**Post date:** [December 21, 2011, 7:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-do-single-people-open-their-mailed-christmas-presents/606691/28 "2011-12-21T19:15:39Z")

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My grandmother would be unhappy if I didn’t wait until the proper day. I love her and like to keep her happy.

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**Author:** ![Purple\_Scottie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/a698b9/32.png) [@Purple\_Scottie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Purple_Scottie)\
**Post date:** [December 22, 2011, 3:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-do-single-people-open-their-mailed-christmas-presents/606691/29 "2011-12-22T03:11:19Z")

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When I was in training and not able to get vacation for the holidays, I would wait until Chrstimas Day unless the giver specifically asked me to open a particular package earlier. Generally though the years I didn’t get home I’d volunteer for call so I spent most of the day in the hospital anyway.

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