# When does hanging out with your ex girlfriend considered foul?

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**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [November 19, 2010, 3:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-does-hanging-out-with-your-ex-girlfriend-considered-foul/561222 "2010-11-19T15:23:54Z")\
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**Author:** ![divisibleBYone](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ea5d25/32.png) [@divisibleBYone](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/divisibleBYone)\
**Post date:** [November 20, 2010, 9:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-does-hanging-out-with-your-ex-girlfriend-considered-foul/561222/85 "2010-11-20T21:27:14Z")

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> [@A Picayune Little Rant...](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/a-picayune-little-rant/65246/31):
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> While I can’t tell you to dump the guy, and I am certainly not familiar with Asian cultures, I would say that your story as stated raises many red flags. You make it sound like he is dating you as a consolation prize until the other girl is ready to have a relationship with him. True, things could change, but itgoing to get worse rather than better.

I guess I was just being emotional and insecure about my place in our relationship, knowing that he values their friendship more than our relationship.

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