# When was the last time you wore a tuxedo (or for women, the equivalent)

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**Category:** In My Humble Opinion
**Created:** [September 13, 2010, 5:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-was-the-last-time-you-wore-a-tuxedo-or-for-women-the-equivalent/553629 "2010-09-13T17:35:18Z")
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### Author: ![Alessan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/alessan/32/465_2.png) [@Alessan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Alessan)
#### Post date: [September 13, 2010, 10:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-was-the-last-time-you-wore-a-tuxedo-or-for-women-the-equivalent/553629/21 "2010-09-13T22:24:33Z")

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I’m 36 years old, and I’ve never worn a tux. The last time I wore a jacket and tie was two years ago.

Then again, I live in a place where a button-down shirt and khakis is considered formal businesswear.

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### Author: ![Cunctator](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/43a26b/32.png) [@Cunctator](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cunctator)
#### Post date: [September 13, 2010, 10:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-was-the-last-time-you-wore-a-tuxedo-or-for-women-the-equivalent/553629/22 "2010-09-13T22:37:57Z")

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For a performance last Saturday. I wear my dinner suit at least 20 times a year.

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#### Post date: [September 13, 2010, 10:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-was-the-last-time-you-wore-a-tuxedo-or-for-women-the-equivalent/553629/23 "2010-09-13T22:55:09Z")

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I’ve never worn one.

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### Author: ![Quartz](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/quartz/32/267_2.png) [@Quartz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Quartz)
#### Post date: [September 13, 2010, 11:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-was-the-last-time-you-wore-a-tuxedo-or-for-women-the-equivalent/553629/24 "2010-09-13T23:28:31Z")

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June, I think. I wear one 4-5 times a year.

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### Author: ![Sattua](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sattua/32/11906_2.png) [@Sattua](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sattua)
#### Post date: [September 14, 2010, 2:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-was-the-last-time-you-wore-a-tuxedo-or-for-women-the-equivalent/553629/25 "2010-09-14T02:05:52Z")

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Twenty years ago, when I was a child, I attended a wedding where the adults were wearing tuxes and evening gowns.

The best I’ve done since then was a cocktail dress, two years ago.

I wore an Ann Taylor sundress for my own wedding.

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#### Post date: [September 14, 2010, 2:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-was-the-last-time-you-wore-a-tuxedo-or-for-women-the-equivalent/553629/26 "2010-09-14T02:08:51Z")

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I would love to have the opportunity to wear an evening gown. The last time I wore a formal dress was for a wedding this past summer.

Actually, I did wear an evening gown for Halloween about 8 years ago. I went as Elizabeth Bathory.

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### Author: ![psycat90](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/7ea924/32.png) [@psycat90](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/psycat90)
#### Post date: [September 14, 2010, 2:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-was-the-last-time-you-wore-a-tuxedo-or-for-women-the-equivalent/553629/27 "2010-09-14T02:51:04Z")

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I attend a gala every September here in town. The dress code used to be ‘Black Tie Optional’, but I think the last year or two it’s been ‘Wine Country Formal’ or something like that. It’s a great event with people in tuxedos and ball gowns, as well as people in shorts or jeans and t-shirts, and everything in between.

I wore a full length gown the first 2 years, but every year since then I usually wear some kind of variation of a little black dress. It’s coming up in less than 2 weeks, and I haven’t even started shopping for one yet. I need to get on that.

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### Author: ![Noel\_Prosequi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/b19c9b/32.png) [@Noel\_Prosequi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Noel_Prosequi)
#### Post date: [September 14, 2010, 2:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-was-the-last-time-you-wore-a-tuxedo-or-for-women-the-equivalent/553629/28 "2010-09-14T02:55:54Z")

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Last Friday, coincidentally. Generally there are two functions a year (professionally related) that I pull the dinner suit out for, but other than that events calling for black tie are pretty sporadic.

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#### Post date: [September 14, 2010, 4:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-was-the-last-time-you-wore-a-tuxedo-or-for-women-the-equivalent/553629/29 "2010-09-14T04:37:21Z")

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The only time I wore a tuxedo was to my sisters’ wedding in 1996. Then again I live in the Northwest, where it seems no one outside the actual bridegroom in a wedding party will have a tuxedo. I’ve never been to a true formal dinner so no need to wear one there either.

The irony is that I’m a crossdresser so I actually own an evening gown that I wear every couple of months. Not only have I worn it a lot more than a tuxedo, I’ve worn it more than most women! Maybe you should change it to “When was the last time you wore a tuxedo OR evening gown?”🙂

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#### Post date: [September 14, 2010, 5:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-was-the-last-time-you-wore-a-tuxedo-or-for-women-the-equivalent/553629/30 "2010-09-14T05:22:43Z")

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At my wedding in May.

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#### Post date: [September 14, 2010, 6:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-was-the-last-time-you-wore-a-tuxedo-or-for-women-the-equivalent/553629/31 "2010-09-14T06:31:35Z")

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Last spring, for my chorus’ concert.

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#### Post date: [September 14, 2010, 6:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-was-the-last-time-you-wore-a-tuxedo-or-for-women-the-equivalent/553629/32 "2010-09-14T06:52:02Z")

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I just wore a ball gown to the opera. Will go again in a month or so.

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#### Post date: [September 14, 2010, 6:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-was-the-last-time-you-wore-a-tuxedo-or-for-women-the-equivalent/553629/33 "2010-09-14T06:52:31Z")

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Last February, to a recital and cocktail party.

I like dressing up, but everyone else in the office voted down Black Tie Friday.

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#### Post date: [September 14, 2010, 7:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-was-the-last-time-you-wore-a-tuxedo-or-for-women-the-equivalent/553629/34 "2010-09-14T07:45:17Z")

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I last wore an evening gown New Year’s Eve.

I own two basic fall/winter evening gowns, since most events to which I wear one occur during that season and buy summer formal wear on an _as needed_ basis.

Other than going to the opera a couple of times a season, company holiday parties and weddings, I rarely have occasion to go formal. A nice cocktail dress sees much more wear.

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#### Post date: [September 14, 2010, 12:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-was-the-last-time-you-wore-a-tuxedo-or-for-women-the-equivalent/553629/35 "2010-09-14T12:14:49Z")

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New Year’s 2000, I guess. But it got torn up in the mosh pit.

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#### Post date: [September 14, 2010, 12:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-was-the-last-time-you-wore-a-tuxedo-or-for-women-the-equivalent/553629/36 "2010-09-14T12:17:37Z")

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Last Saturday.

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#### Post date: [September 14, 2010, 12:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-was-the-last-time-you-wore-a-tuxedo-or-for-women-the-equivalent/553629/37 "2010-09-14T12:37:31Z")

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Probably about 13 years or so. I don’t mind wearing one and enjoy dressing up.

But I pretty much don’t go to formal things often.

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### Author: ![Kiros](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/439d5e/32.png) [@Kiros](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kiros)
#### Post date: [September 14, 2010, 1:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-was-the-last-time-you-wore-a-tuxedo-or-for-women-the-equivalent/553629/38 "2010-09-14T13:08:36Z")

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My high school prom in 2002. I get a lot of wear out of my suits, but there doesn’t seem to be that much out there that requires a tux these days.

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#### Post date: [September 14, 2010, 1:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-was-the-last-time-you-wore-a-tuxedo-or-for-women-the-equivalent/553629/39 "2010-09-14T13:25:33Z")

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I was best man for my brother’s wedding (in more ways than one) circa 1989 AD.

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#### Post date: [September 14, 2010, 1:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-was-the-last-time-you-wore-a-tuxedo-or-for-women-the-equivalent/553629/40 "2010-09-14T13:33:59Z")

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I modeled one in 1991 for a local fashion show.

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