# Where are the ordinary-looking gay men?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/where-are-the-ordinary-looking-gay-men/302576>\
**Category:** Cafe Society\
**Created:** [May 5, 2005, 7:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/where-are-the-ordinary-looking-gay-men/302576 "2005-05-05T19:10:09Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 5\
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**Author:** ![supervenusfreak](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/45deac/32.png) [@supervenusfreak](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/supervenusfreak)\
**Post date:** [May 8, 2005, 6:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/where-are-the-ordinary-looking-gay-men/302576/61 "2005-05-08T18:01:20Z")

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> [@jayjay](#):
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> You’re just saying that because you want to use me as bait… 😛

Whatever works baby. _Grabs the harpoon_ Bend over! (This is beginning to sound like our LJ exchanges)

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**Author:** ![Blalron](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/35a633/32.png) [@Blalron](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Blalron)\
**Post date:** [May 8, 2005, 9:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/where-are-the-ordinary-looking-gay-men/302576/62 "2005-05-08T21:28:25Z")

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What do you mean by normal? Is that a synonym for overweight or something?

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**Author:** ![chaoticbear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f07891/32.png) [@chaoticbear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/chaoticbear)\
**Post date:** [May 8, 2005, 9:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/where-are-the-ordinary-looking-gay-men/302576/63 "2005-05-08T21:44:09Z")

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> [@jayjay](#):
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> Heh. I identify with that. My best flirting has been done in my own mind. 😉
> 
> Arkansas? Ewwww… We’re going to be in New Orleans for Southern Decadence/Convergence, though! 🆒

Aah! It’s going to be… Louisana… in the summer. You guys are all going to die, unless everything’s in an air-conditioned warehouse.

When is this particular event?

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**Author:** ![jayjay](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jayjay/32/6765_2.png) [@jayjay](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jayjay)\
**Post date:** [May 8, 2005, 10:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/where-are-the-ordinary-looking-gay-men/302576/64 "2005-05-08T22:16:25Z")

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> [@chaoticdonkey](#):
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> Aah! It’s going to be… Louisana… in the summer. You guys are all going to die, unless everything’s in an air-conditioned warehouse.
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> When is this particular event?

Labor Day weekend.

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**Author:** ![supervenusfreak](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/45deac/32.png) [@supervenusfreak](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/supervenusfreak)\
**Post date:** [May 9, 2005, 3:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/where-are-the-ordinary-looking-gay-men/302576/65 "2005-05-09T15:52:47Z")

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> [@jayjay](#):
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> Labor Day weekend.

Or as we call it around here “Lay-Bear” Day weekend…

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