True enough, 0-60 times can be a bit of a con. However, you can buy manuals with traction control.
In my experience, auto boxes with big engines work well. The extra torque and power give you more flexibility, it’s not so important to be in the optimal gear in any driving situation. Small engine + auto is an absolute nightmare. I once had the misfortune to drive a 1.4 litre (90 BHP) engined car with an auto, I could not believe how slow it was. At the slightest hint of a hill it could not decide which gear it wanted to be in. For real world driving, it was much slower than the car I owned at the time (which only had a 1.2 litre engine).
This is why auto boxes are much less common in Europe. Petrol (gas) prices are much, much higher, fuel economy is more important and engines are smaller. Family cars most often have a 1.8 litre engine these days. When you have smaller engines the deficiencies of auto boxes become more obvious.