To follow up, first, I am not a Lost Cause Apologist and claiming that it was about states’ rights and not about slavery. It was absolutely about slavery, but the states’ rights aspect is a larger and more relevant debate even in today’s world.
In a large and diverse country like the United States, in order for most people to be satisfied with their government, and have laws which reflect their own view of right and wrong, morality and happiness, the original intent of the Constitution should prevail: that the national government is one of very limited and enumerated powers, only enacted to preserve our common defense, free trade and movement, and to guarantee basic rights.
We have to have allowances for people in urban and progressive states to legalize marijuana, casino gambling, abortion, and same sex marriage; likewise, these states can restrict gun carrying and ownership to levels allowed by the national charter.
But we also have to understand and accept that there are areas of the country who want to keep drugs, gambling, and abortion illegal and have legal school prayer.
I don’t want to rehash the debate over those specific issues, but there has to be a principle that the national government, unless absolutely necessary, is hands off for almost every issue that only concerns internal issues within the states unless large swaths of the country have to live under laws that they are unhappy with. Ours in a federal society where individual state laws matter, and that continues to be papered over.
The neo-Confederate supporters are not asking for a return to slavery or Jim Crow; they are simply tired of being told that their way of life is stupid, backwards, and should be governed by the “better informed” elitists from California and New York from Washington, D.C.
If West Virginia, for example, wants to allow a 16 year old kid to carrying his hunting rifle to school so he can ride the bus home to his friends house to go hunting later, or he wants to share a beer with his dad, then you have every right to think that is stupid and irresponsible, but why should that matter in a federal system?
That is what a lot of the pushback is about and why the south has gotten respect from the Civil War in modern times. It is a middle finger to those who would look down upon certain ways of living and a “leave us alone” attitude.