# Which unusual things do you find attractive in your preferred sex?

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**Created:** [July 31, 2014, 1:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/which-unusual-things-do-you-find-attractive-in-your-preferred-sex/694479 "2014-07-31T13:08:12Z")\
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**Author:** ![Wesley\_Clark](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wesley_clark/32/20581_2.png) [@Wesley\_Clark](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Wesley_Clark)\
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Women who wear hair scrunchies as a bracelet.

Women who wear knit caps. As ponytail through a baseball cap is good too as others have said.

Capri pants

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**Author:** ![August\_West](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/august_west/32/18069_2.png) [@August\_West](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/August_West)\
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Hmm, people tell me I look like Adrien Brody fairly often, even have a cow-orker who calls me “Adrien”.

Looks like I’d better keep my distance from **panache** and **DB** , especially if either of them have pink or blue hair!

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(First, for the record, I’m a guy who likes girls.)

Attached earlobes.

Apart from that, I like women who never wear dresses or high heels. Sneakers are good, especially Converse. And baggy jeans. I’m no fan of those tight jeans that make a woman look like she’s about to explode out of her clothes if you poke her with a pin. They just look uncomfortable.

I like women who don’t wear bras. Of course, that’s not too easy to come by, and it does set a limit on size in the chestal area. So it’s not really something I seek out, but it’s good if it happens.

I had one girlfriend who would never wear regular panties, only [this](http://media-cache-ec0.pinimg.com/236x/75/20/78/7520784705fb63465079fa97b7b2b438.jpg) style of girl boxers. For some reason, I freaking \*loved \*that.

So, basically, although I prefer my women to be feminine, overall, I seem to get a kick out of them dressing like men. Well, not completely like men, but like men in a feminine sort of way. How weird is that?

I also like them to smell natural. No perfumes, please. Sweat, I’m fine with. A woman who has just been out jogging is sexy. No make-up either, if possible, or at least keep it to a minimum.

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**Post date:** [July 31, 2014, 7:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/which-unusual-things-do-you-find-attractive-in-your-preferred-sex/694479/24 "2014-07-31T19:26:08Z")

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> [@Dung\_Beetle](#):
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> Agreed!

Good Lord, that second picture is hot! \< swoons \>

Okay, if a guy I was to date was tall (like 6’3"), on the skinny side, had longish hair, a cute set of sleeves, maybe a soul patch (oh, don’t even), typically wore hiking boots, no cologne and had maybe a simple, cloth, multi-colored bracelet or two? I’d never leave my bunk.

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**Post date:** [July 31, 2014, 7:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/which-unusual-things-do-you-find-attractive-in-your-preferred-sex/694479/25 "2014-07-31T19:39:16Z")

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> [@Martian Bigfoot](#):
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> (First, for the record, I’m a guy who likes girls.)
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> Attached earlobes.
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> Apart from that, I like women who never wear dresses or high heels. Sneakers are good, especially Converse. And baggy jeans. I’m no fan of those tight jeans that make a woman look like she’s about to explode out of her clothes if you poke her with a pin. They just look uncomfortable.
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> I like women who don’t wear bras. Of course, that’s not too easy to come by, and it does set a limit on size in the chestal area. So it’s not really something I seek out, but it’s good if it happens.
> 
> I had one girlfriend who would never wear regular panties, only [this](http://media-cache-ec0.pinimg.com/236x/75/20/78/7520784705fb63465079fa97b7b2b438.jpg) style of girl boxers. For some reason, I freaking \*loved \*that.
> 
> So, basically, although I prefer my women to be feminine, overall, I seem to get a kick out of them dressing like men. Well, not completely like men, but like men in a feminine sort of way. How weird is that?
> 
> I also like them to smell natural. No perfumes, please. Sweat, I’m fine with. A woman who has just been out jogging is sexy. No make-up either, if possible, or at least keep it to a minimum.

I agree with all of this, except the earlobe part, which I have no preference one way or the other.

No perfume is huge, no or little makeup is crucial as well. No high heals. “Small chest, no bra” is nice too. No panties at all is pretty good too.

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If you really want to make the statement “I’m an adult and I don’t care what you think”, don’t get a tattoo. Stop shaving your armpits.

When I see a well put-together woman who doesn’t shave her pits, suddenly I want to know every single thing about her.

Weird, I know.

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**Post date:** [July 31, 2014, 8:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/which-unusual-things-do-you-find-attractive-in-your-preferred-sex/694479/27 "2014-07-31T20:55:42Z")

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A woman in scrubs. Seems like the quintessential bland, functional work wear, but maybe that’s why I like them. Come to think of it, a woman in mechanic’s coveralls is also quite attractive.

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**Post date:** [July 31, 2014, 9:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/which-unusual-things-do-you-find-attractive-in-your-preferred-sex/694479/28 "2014-07-31T21:31:18Z")

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Crows feet.  
I love those little wrinkles at the outer corner of the eyes.

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> [@DrCube](#):
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> Come to think of it, a woman in mechanic’s coveralls is also quite attractive.

\*Especially \*covered in engine grease.

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> [@Martian Bigfoot](#):
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> \*Especially \*covered in engine grease.

Who’s a dirty girl?

I’m tallish (used to be taller until I got hitched and settled down - that line is from my shortish grandfather) and I seem to like very short and very slender or thin men - although there is such a thing as too skinny for me. They must look like an adult and not a child, and they shouldn’t be too young anyway - i.e. they should be around my generation. I guess the unusual part of all this is the shortness that seems to attract me.

Aren’t there any gay jockeys (or ex-jockeys)? In all my years I’ve never knowingly met one.

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**Post date:** [July 31, 2014, 10:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/which-unusual-things-do-you-find-attractive-in-your-preferred-sex/694479/31 "2014-07-31T22:59:59Z")

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Hairy men. I abhor the current trend of back-waxing and hair removal for men; that’s an instant turn-off for me.

A prominent [nasolabial fold](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nasolabial_fold). Weird, I know.

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On a woman:

\*Clavicles - a not-too-bony set of collarbones (preferably strapless dress),

\*That spot on the back where a “Tramp stamp” would go,

\*That gentle swell of belly between the navel and the top of bikini drawers.

So, to re-cap: If I spot a lady in a strapless bikini top and even a floor length, slit-up-one-side skirt that tops out at the C-section zone, get the drool bucket and a mop.

I’ll be in my bunk.

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Incredible wealth.

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I’m a short dude but GOD-DAMN do I LOVE tall women!

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Wow you guys are weird, or maybe I am. The only thing I think of that fits this thread is my attraction to women in short shorts and heels/pumps, but older women only. There is something that attracts me to nice legs on an older woman, say 35-50.  
I am 27 and do not care for it on women my age and younger. I shudder when I see teenage girls wearing heels.

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HMS-Have good luck finding your dream woman?

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> [@DrCube](#):
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> A woman in scrubs. Seems like the quintessential bland, functional work wear, but maybe that’s why I like them. Come to think of it, a woman in mechanic’s coveralls is also quite attractive.

Uniforms!

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> [@zoid](#):
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> I’m a short dude but GOD-DAMN do I LOVE tall women!

Me too. And in an odd juxtaposition, I dig really short, petite ones as well.

(wife’s 6’2", and dated several girls under 5’3")

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> [@August\_West](#):
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> Hmm, people tell me I look like Adrien Brody fairly often, even have a cow-orker who calls me “Adrien”.
> 
> Looks like I’d better keep my distance from **panache** and **DB** , especially if either of them have pink or blue hair!

How YOU doin’? (and my hair is dark brown)

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> [@faithfool](#):
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> Good Lord, that second picture is hot! \< swoons \>
> 
> Okay, if a guy I was to date was tall (like 6’3"), on the skinny side, had longish hair, a cute set of sleeves, maybe a soul patch (oh, don’t even), typically wore hiking boots, no cologne and had maybe a simple, cloth, multi-colored bracelet or two? I’d never leave my bunk.

You’d love my partner.

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