# Which would you consider to be a worse offense?

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**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [April 13, 2007, 6:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/which-would-you-consider-to-be-a-worse-offense/399999 "2007-04-13T18:44:30Z")\
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[QUOTE=alice\_in\_wonderland]  
\<snip\>I know lots of girls that randomly send pooter shots to guys (not sure why, exactly), apropos of nothing. \<snip\>  
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People are so weird.

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**Post date:** [April 17, 2007, 7:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/which-would-you-consider-to-be-a-worse-offense/399999/42 "2007-04-17T19:44:50Z")

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[QUOTE=alice\_in\_wonderland]  
What he said.

However, number 2 isn’t so bad. I know lots of girls that randomly send pooter shots to guys (not sure why, exactly), apropos of nothing. Can’t get mad at a guy for receiving some girl’s pooter shot. If he chooses to _keep_ the pic in a special folder for such things, that’s not so good.  
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😕 What exactly is a pooter? It looks like it would be a butt or anus shot.

You actually know girls that send shots like these around? Color me shocked.

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**Post date:** [April 17, 2007, 7:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/which-would-you-consider-to-be-a-worse-offense/399999/43 "2007-04-17T19:53:10Z")

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[QUOTE=What Exit?]  
😕 What exactly is a pooter? It looks like it would be a butt or anus shot.

You actually know girls that send shots like these around? Color me shocked.  
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Crotchy shots, I mean. Split beaver poses. Come on you KNOW what I mean.

And which part is shocking - that girls do that, or that I know some?

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**Post date:** [April 17, 2007, 8:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/which-would-you-consider-to-be-a-worse-offense/399999/44 "2007-04-17T20:01:13Z")

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[QUOTE=alice\_in\_wonderland]  
Crotchy shots, I mean. Split beaver poses. Come on you KNOW what I mean.

And which part is shocking - that girls do that, or that I know some?  
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OK, sorry, I really had never heard it before.

As far as the shocking part, I would say a little of both. But then I don’t know you very well. 😃

Jim

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**Post date:** [April 17, 2007, 8:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/which-would-you-consider-to-be-a-worse-offense/399999/45 "2007-04-17T20:09:07Z")

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I would be overjoyed if my wife did any of those things. For her part, she is okay with me looking at porn but the other three would be completely unacceptable.

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**Post date:** [April 17, 2007, 8:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/which-would-you-consider-to-be-a-worse-offense/399999/46 "2007-04-17T20:30:35Z")

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1. You find out that your SO has been looking at porn online.

Who cares?

1. You find out that your SO received a _naughty_ picture from someone with whom they chat online.

Depends – did somebody just up and send it on their own initiative, or did SO do something that would reasonably be interpreted as inviting it?

1. You find out your SO has shown some of their friends _naughty_ pictures of you that you took for them.

Bad.

1. Your SO suggests putting naked pictures of you online.  
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Not good, but tolerable provided that “no” is taken for an answer and the subject is not raised again.

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