# Who enjoys "porno style" sex ? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [March 11, 2005, 9:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-enjoys-porno-style-sex/293996 "2005-03-11T09:17:19Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![simple\_homer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9de0a6/32.png) [@simple\_homer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/simple_homer)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2005, 9:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-enjoys-porno-style-sex/293996/1 "2005-03-11T09:17:19Z")
In my other thread: > **[Why are many men bad lovers ?](https://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=306365)** > > I am a 41 year old single man, and over the years I have heard so many stories from women about other mens performances in bed. What I do not understand is that there seems to be so many guys out there that really do not seem to care about being... It was mentioned that many people learn how to have sex by watching pornos, and that is what they may expect sex to be like. For me, “porno style” sex is just not appealing, it may be fun to watch sometimes, but it is just too mechanical for me and not very realistic. So, who here likes that type of sex ? ---
**Author:** ![BlackKnight](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/eb8c5e/32.png) [@BlackKnight](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BlackKnight)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2005, 10:42am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-enjoys-porno-style-sex/293996/2 "2005-03-11T10:42:44Z")
Define “porno style sex”. I’ve seen different types of porn, featuring many different types of sex. ---
**Author:** ![Anastasaeon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/73ab20/32.png) [@Anastasaeon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anastasaeon)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2005, 10:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-enjoys-porno-style-sex/293996/3 "2005-03-11T10:58:12Z")
\*\*TMI TMI TMI TMI * * * Depends. Everything I learned, I learned from porno, and I love it. It’s far from “mechanical”, though, so that’s why I say it depends. I’ve learned many a new position and/or technique by watching porn, and lots of it. Hubby has no complaints. We’ve both learned new and surprising things that turn us on, that I probably wouldn’t have thought of on my own. I mean, jokes will be made, and I would giggle at the idea in the past, but once I saw a girl being spanked in a porn, I learned I liked that very, very much when I asked for it in the bedroom. Or in the kitchen. Or in the living room… etc. _ego stroke_ Also, all three men I’ve been with have told me, without trying to be nice, that I gave the best head they’d ever had - two of the three had never orgasmed by receiving head until they met me 😃 Much of my style was learned by watching porn; however, I should add that it is also a product of reading every article on blowjobs at [sexuality.org](http://sexuality.org). It probably helps that I enjoy it, though, as well. So, in my experience, it is not “mechanical” at all. I’m not a plain vanilla girl, or so I’ve been told, and most of my sexual education came from wonderful, wonderful porn. 😉 * * * We now return you to your regularly scheduled programming.\*\* ---
**Author:** ![UnwrittenNocturne](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/6de8d8/32.png) [@UnwrittenNocturne](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/UnwrittenNocturne)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2005, 11:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-enjoys-porno-style-sex/293996/4 "2005-03-11T11:53:58Z")
Short of a better definition of what ‘porno-style’ sex is I am going to have to say yes. But I am curious as to what it means to the OP ---
**Author:** ![ShibbOleth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/848f3c/32.png) [@ShibbOleth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ShibbOleth)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2005, 12:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-enjoys-porno-style-sex/293996/5 "2005-03-11T12:18:52Z")
> [@Anastasaeon](#): > > \*\*TMI TMI TMI TMI > > * * * > > Depends. Everything I learned, I learned from porno, and I love it. It’s far from “mechanical”, though, so that’s why I say it depends. I’ve learned many a new position and/or technique by watching porn, and lots of it. Hubby has no complaints. We’ve both learned new and surprising things that turn us on, that I probably wouldn’t have thought of on my own. I mean, jokes will be made, and I would giggle at the idea in the past, but once I saw a girl being spanked in a porn, I learned I liked that very, very much when I asked for it in the bedroom. Or in the kitchen. Or in the living room… etc. > > _ego stroke_ Also, all three men I’ve been with have told me, without trying to be nice, that I gave the best head they’d ever had - two of the three had never orgasmed by receiving head until they met me 😃 Much of my style was learned by watching porn; however, I should add that it is also a product of reading every article on blowjobs at [sexuality.org](http://sexuality.org). It probably helps that I enjoy it, though, as well. > > So, in my experience, it is not “mechanical” at all. I’m not a plain vanilla girl, or so I’ve been told, and most of my sexual education came from wonderful, wonderful porn. 😉 > > * * * > > We now return you to your regularly scheduled programming.\*\* I’m starting to understand this “penis ensues” thing. ---
**Author:** ![ralph124c](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/8797f3/32.png) [@ralph124c](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ralph124c)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2005, 1:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-enjoys-porno-style-sex/293996/6 "2005-03-11T13:33:43Z")
A lot of porno is nasty…but I’ve always liked the sex done outdoors (mostly on tropical beaches). Because of this, I can say that making love outdoors is pretty satisfying…I’ve done it in open fields, on the beach, on the deck of a sailboat, etc. ---
**Author:** ![Revtim](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/revtim/32/1042_2.png) [@Revtim](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Revtim)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2005, 1:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-enjoys-porno-style-sex/293996/7 "2005-03-11T13:46:37Z")
I never had the desire to “complete” all over my partner’s face, which is what I think of when I read “porno sex”. ---
**Author:** ![sweetfreak](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/958977/32.png) [@sweetfreak](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/sweetfreak)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2005, 2:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-enjoys-porno-style-sex/293996/8 "2005-03-11T14:09:21Z")
Ya know, the problem I have with porno is that it all seems so fake, especially from the women. If I really got the impression the women were enjoying themselves, there would be some porno style sex that I would like. I do think the OP nees to specify what is meant by “porno style”. I need specifics. ---
**Author:** ![simple\_homer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9de0a6/32.png) [@simple\_homer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/simple_homer)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2005, 3:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-enjoys-porno-style-sex/293996/9 "2005-03-11T15:23:55Z")
Ok, it has been a while since I have watched much porno, but I guess I am trying to say the type of sex i typically saw was where the guy just bends the woman into about 10 different positions as he slams her hard and fast. Really made me think of some kind of mechanical sex machine as opposed to something that two people found enjoyable. The moans and groans from the woman always seemed very faked as though she was not enjoying it at all. I do not recall seeing any porno where I thought the woman was enjoying herself much . Hope I have explained my OP better now. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![UnwrittenNocturne](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/6de8d8/32.png) [@UnwrittenNocturne](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/UnwrittenNocturne)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2005, 3:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-enjoys-porno-style-sex/293996/10 "2005-03-11T15:48:53Z")
> [@Revtim](#): > > I never had the desire to “complete” all over my partner’s face, which is what I think of when I read “porno sex”. Different, um, strokes - I guess 😃 We certainly like this, and the other stuff mentioned. Rough porno-style. You bet. Not all the time certainly, but sometimes…oh yeah ---
**Author:** ![sweetfreak](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/958977/32.png) [@sweetfreak](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/sweetfreak)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2005, 4:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-enjoys-porno-style-sex/293996/11 "2005-03-11T16:01:13Z")
> [@simple homer](#): > > Ok, it has been a while since I have watched much porno, but I guess I am trying to say the type of sex i typically saw was where the guy just bends the woman into about 10 different positions as he slams her hard and fast. Ummm, then, yes. And yes to some other things mentioned in this thread. The difference between how I feel about it and porno, though, is that I enjoy it. And, of course, it has to be with the right person. Some people I just can’t get into those type of things with. It’s a matter of trust, I suppose. ---
**Author:** ![Who\_me\_1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/958977/32.png) [@Who\_me\_1](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Who_me_1)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2005, 4:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-enjoys-porno-style-sex/293996/12 "2005-03-11T16:11:11Z")
The key word in “porno style sex” is SEX. If it involves sex, I think I can enjoy it as long it’s with someone I am attracted to. ---
**Author:** ![Anastasaeon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/73ab20/32.png) [@Anastasaeon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anastasaeon)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2005, 7:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-enjoys-porno-style-sex/293996/13 "2005-03-11T19:12:36Z")
> [@ShibbOleth](#): > > I’m starting to understand this “penis ensues” thing. Yes, of course. Conan: “Just say the line.” Bart: “I didn’t do it.” _cheers_ ---
**Author:** ![Musicat](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/musicat/32/20189_2.png) [@Musicat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Musicat)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2005, 7:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-enjoys-porno-style-sex/293996/14 "2005-03-11T19:21:12Z")
> [@Who\_me?](#): > > If it involves sex, I think I can enjoy it as long it’s with someone I am attracted to. That pretty much defines masturbation, doesn’t it?: Sex with someone you like. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Indygrrl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/58f4c7/32.png) [@Indygrrl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Indygrrl)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2005, 7:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-enjoys-porno-style-sex/293996/15 "2005-03-11T19:42:38Z")
I enjoy having sex in a way that if someone were to film it, it would look amazing. But, I’m a very animated type of lover, and I like to do all sorts of things. I like to think we’re looking good when we’re doing it, although I’d absolutely never make a video. I don’t think that’s what you meant with your question, so, yeah, I guess I enjoy porno-type sex. ---
**Author:** ![Lord\_Ashtar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7ea924/32.png) [@Lord\_Ashtar](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Lord_Ashtar)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2005, 8:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-enjoys-porno-style-sex/293996/16 "2005-03-11T20:21:03Z")
Am I the only one here finding myself strangely attracted to **Anastasaeon**? ---
**Author:** ![Cervaise](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cervaise/32/16693_2.png) [@Cervaise](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cervaise)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2005, 9:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-enjoys-porno-style-sex/293996/17 "2005-03-11T21:56:53Z")
Nothing strange about it. 😛 ---
**Author:** ![silenus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/silenus/32/166_2.png) [@silenus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/silenus)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2005, 10:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-enjoys-porno-style-sex/293996/18 "2005-03-11T22:03:30Z")
If by “porno-style” you mean with a bunch of hot women, in exotic locals, with no repercussions or ties…then yes, I would like to enjoy that very much! 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Earthworm\_Jim](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/f07891/32.png) [@Earthworm\_Jim](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Earthworm_Jim)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2005, 11:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-enjoys-porno-style-sex/293996/19 "2005-03-11T23:00:25Z")
> [@Anastasaeon](#): > > Yes, of course. > > Conan: “Just say the line.” > Bart: “I didn’t do it.” > _cheers_ Maybe you should just make it your sig & get it over with 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Anastasaeon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/73ab20/32.png) [@Anastasaeon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anastasaeon)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2005, 11:11pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-enjoys-porno-style-sex/293996/20 "2005-03-11T23:11:52Z")
> [@Earthworm Jim](#): > > Maybe you should just make it your sig & get it over with 😃 Hmm. Interesting idea. It should cover all the bases… [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-enjoys-porno-style-sex/293996.md?page=2)