# Who hasn't had a first? **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [July 13, 2001, 4:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-hasnt-had-a-first/72324 "2001-07-13T04:19:00Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![iampunha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/74df32/32.png) [@iampunha](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/iampunha)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2001, 4:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-hasnt-had-a-first/72324/1 "2001-07-13T04:19:00Z")
Superdude’s thread got me wondering. How many of y’all haven’t? How many actual virgins do we have on here? I know of at least . . . three. I’m one. 19 years old. Anyone else? ---
**Author:** ![Darwins\_Finch](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/darwins_finch/32/20304_2.png) [@Darwins\_Finch](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Darwins_Finch)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2001, 4:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-hasnt-had-a-first/72324/2 "2001-07-13T04:22:05Z")
1. Nope. Never. Not yet, anyway. ---
**Author:** ![teppei](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/58956e/32.png) [@teppei](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/teppei)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2001, 4:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-hasnt-had-a-first/72324/3 "2001-07-13T04:23:48Z")
by clinton’s definition, I am ---
**Author:** ![Ann\_Onimous](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ea5d25/32.png) [@Ann\_Onimous](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ann_Onimous)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2001, 4:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-hasnt-had-a-first/72324/4 "2001-07-13T04:29:08Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by teppei \* > \*\*by clinton’s definition, I am \*\* Feh. If oral sex ain’t sex, then someone isn’t doing it right. And to answer the OP, I have three children. Not a single one was an Immaculate Conception. ---
**Author:** ![TexasSpur](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a6a055/32.png) [@TexasSpur](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TexasSpur)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2001, 4:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-hasnt-had-a-first/72324/5 "2001-07-13T04:34:40Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Juliana \* > \*\* > > > [@](#): > > > > \*Originally posted by teppei \* > > \*\*by clinton’s definition, I am \*\* > > Feh. If oral sex ain’t sex, then someone isn’t doing it right. > \*\* I don’t know about that. If all you have had is oral sex, I would still consider you a virgin. ---
**Author:** ![Ross](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e274bd/32.png) [@Ross](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ross)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2001, 4:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-hasnt-had-a-first/72324/6 "2001-07-13T04:41:30Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by TexasSpur \* > **If all you have had is oral sex, I would still consider you a virgin.** Perhaps biologically. But someone who’s had oral sex has certainly given away _something_ of themselves. I was a virgin till I got married. Not for want of trying, mind you… But I remember that it was kind of nice to still be a “friend of Cliff”. ---
**Author:** ![girlwithwings](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/bbe5ce/32.png) [@girlwithwings](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/girlwithwings)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2001, 5:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-hasnt-had-a-first/72324/7 "2001-07-13T05:49:34Z")
19 years old i dated a guy for two and half years of high school, but never went “all the way.” Now i’m in a relationship with a girl (8 months now) and we still haven’t… y’know. We’re even living together, so most people prolly assume. I do actually want to remain a virgin for the person i eventually commit to. I want them to know that were special enough to wait for. ---
**Author:** ![andygirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a9adbd/32.png) [@andygirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/andygirl)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2001, 5:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-hasnt-had-a-first/72324/8 "2001-07-13T05:55:28Z")
I’ve only ever had oral sex. I’m not a virgin. ---
**Author:** ![red\_dragon60](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/ce73a5/32.png) [@red\_dragon60](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/red_dragon60)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2001, 6:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-hasnt-had-a-first/72324/9 "2001-07-13T06:30:04Z")
16, and it seems like everyone else on the G damn planet is. Oh well. ---
**Author:** ![Cumber](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/b5ac83/32.png) [@Cumber](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cumber)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2001, 8:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-hasnt-had-a-first/72324/10 "2001-07-13T08:13:50Z")
18 year old virgin here. Doesn’t look like that’ll be changing anytime soon (well, in 6 months I’ll be a 19 year old virgin). _shrugs_ ---
**Author:** ![GuanoLad](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guanolad/32/42_2.png) [@GuanoLad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GuanoLad)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2001, 11:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-hasnt-had-a-first/72324/11 "2001-07-13T11:39:15Z")
Until about a month ago, I was a 31 year old virgin. Now I’m primed and rearing to go, so lock up your daughters, Australia!! ---
**Author:** ![MsRobyn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/90ced4/32.png) [@MsRobyn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MsRobyn)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2001, 12:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-hasnt-had-a-first/72324/12 "2001-07-13T12:53:15Z")
> [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by Darwin’s Finch \* > \*\*32. > > Nope. > > Never. > > Not yet, anyway. > \*\* Hey, Darwin, how _you_ doin’? 😉 [sub]I’m assuming you’re male, of course[/sub] Robin ---
**Author:** ![Robot\_Arm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/robot_arm/32/18280_2.png) [@Robot\_Arm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Robot_Arm)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2001, 12:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-hasnt-had-a-first/72324/13 "2001-07-13T12:56:03Z")
One more, here. ---
**Author:** ![1kBR\_Kid](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/1/dc4da7/32.png) [@1kBR\_Kid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/1kBR_Kid)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2001, 12:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-hasnt-had-a-first/72324/14 "2001-07-13T12:59:40Z")
32/M/Texas. Reasonably good looking. Not fat, but not a body builder. Not a virgin. Attractive women…COME ON DOWN!!! ---
**Author:** ![Jester](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jester/32/8223_2.png) [@Jester](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jester)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2001, 1:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-hasnt-had-a-first/72324/15 "2001-07-13T13:17:49Z")
1. Virgin. Wheeeeeeeeeee. ---
**Author:** ![FisherQueen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/58f4c7/32.png) [@FisherQueen](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FisherQueen)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2001, 1:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-hasnt-had-a-first/72324/16 "2001-07-13T13:28:25Z")
[QUOTE] \*Originally posted by Ross \* \*\* > [@](#): > > \*Originally posted by TexasSpur \* > \*\* > > But I remember that it was kind of nice to still be a “friend of Cliff”. \*\* 1. Never. Starting to thing I never will, and surprised to discover it doesn’t bother me that much. But who is Cliff? ---
**Author:** ![BlackKnight](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/eb8c5e/32.png) [@BlackKnight](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BlackKnight)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2001, 1:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-hasnt-had-a-first/72324/17 "2001-07-13T13:38:51Z")
20 year old virgin here. No end to virginity in sight. Beginning to think it will never happen, and beginning to not care. ---
**Author:** ![lno](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/a8b319/32.png) [@lno](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lno)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2001, 1:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-hasnt-had-a-first/72324/18 "2001-07-13T13:42:55Z")
“Ow, my virgin ears!” “What, you never got it in the ear before?” ---
**Author:** ![thinksnow](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/thinksnow/32/2849_2.png) [@thinksnow](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/thinksnow)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2001, 1:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-hasnt-had-a-first/72324/19 "2001-07-13T13:43:47Z")
> [@](#): > > \*\*FisherQueen \*\* > But who is Cliff? Reference to Cliff Claven from the TV show _Cheers_. Notoriously bad with the ladies, Cliff was…'course, living at home with his mother probably didn’t help. To the OP, uh…not I (IOW, it’s been almost 10 years since I was a virgin.) ---
**Author:** ![Mr.Cynical](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ee59a6/32.png) [@Mr.Cynical](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mr.Cynical)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2001, 1:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-hasnt-had-a-first/72324/20 "2001-07-13T13:45:54Z")
How about if it’s been so long that I’ve re-established my virtue? [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-hasnt-had-a-first/72324.md?page=2)