# Who here has been paid for sex?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-has-been-paid-for-sex/508168>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [August 29, 2009, 5:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-has-been-paid-for-sex/508168 "2009-08-29T17:17:55Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![TheMadHun](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@TheMadHun](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TheMadHun)\
**Post date:** [August 29, 2009, 5:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-has-been-paid-for-sex/508168/1 "2009-08-29T17:17:55Z")

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And I don’t mean “paid in kind” or “as my contribution to the household”, I mean folding money.

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**Author:** ![Hal\_Briston](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/a9a28c/32.png) [@Hal\_Briston](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hal_Briston)\
**Post date:** [August 29, 2009, 7:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-has-been-paid-for-sex/508168/2 "2009-08-29T19:09:12Z")

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I was paid five bucks to kiss a girl once, back in my long hair, rock-star-swagger early 20’s.

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**Author:** ![Defensive\_Indifference](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/defensive_indifference/32/6502_2.png) [@Defensive\_Indifference](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Defensive_Indifference)\
**Post date:** [August 29, 2009, 7:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-has-been-paid-for-sex/508168/3 "2009-08-29T19:31:21Z")

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I stumbled into a bar once when a bachlorette party was going on. The bride-to-be had Lifesavers stuck to her shirt, over her nippes. She thrust her bosom at me and asked, “Suck for a buck?” I was all set to do it until I realized that _she_ wanted the dollar from _me_. C’mon! I’m the one doing the work! I should get the dollar! I politely declined.

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**Author:** ![Shagnasty](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9dc877/32.png) [@Shagnasty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shagnasty)\
**Post date:** [August 29, 2009, 7:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-has-been-paid-for-sex/508168/4 "2009-08-29T19:34:48Z")

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> [@Bayard](#):
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> I stumbled into a bar once when a bachlorette party was going on. The bride-to-be had Lifesavers stuck to her shirt, over her nippes. She thrust her bosom at me and asked, “Suck for a buck?” I was all set to do it until I realized that _she_ wanted the dollar from _me_. C’mon! I’m the one doing the work! I should get the dollar! I politely declined.

I ran into the same thing once. Best dollar I ever spent and I probably got more than a dollars worth of Lifesavers so it was a wash. I still like to think that she wanted to switch grooms at the end and she was hot. Lifesaver currency can be a beautiful thing.

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**Author:** ![Jettboy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/85e7bf/32.png) [@Jettboy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jettboy)\
**Post date:** [August 29, 2009, 7:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-has-been-paid-for-sex/508168/5 "2009-08-29T19:48:50Z")

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Back when I was a gorgeous, 20-something bronzed Adonis, after some mind-bending sex, I once had a much-older woman offer to do my laundry and give me $50.00; ostensibly because “…guys your age always need a few bucks for something or other.”

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**Author:** ![Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e8c25b/32.png) [@Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Really_Not_All_That_Bright)\
**Post date:** [August 29, 2009, 8:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-has-been-paid-for-sex/508168/6 "2009-08-29T20:43:03Z")

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My best friend and I were once paid $20 each to perform a striptease for a college freshman on her birthday (by her roommates). Does that count?

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**Author:** ![Jake\_Jones](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/e0b2c6/32.png) [@Jake\_Jones](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jake_Jones)\
**Post date:** [August 29, 2009, 11:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-has-been-paid-for-sex/508168/7 "2009-08-29T23:47:43Z")

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> [@Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](#):
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> Does that count?

Nope. No intercourse, no cookie. Sorry, rules is rules.

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**Author:** ![panache45](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/panache45/32/64_2.png) [@panache45](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/panache45)\
**Post date:** [August 29, 2009, 11:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-has-been-paid-for-sex/508168/8 "2009-08-29T23:51:26Z")

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Before we met, my partner had been paid on several occasions, and even did a photo shoot and video.

But not me.

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**Author:** ![Antinor01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ecae2f/32.png) [@Antinor01](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Antinor01)\
**Post date:** [August 30, 2009, 12:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-has-been-paid-for-sex/508168/9 "2009-08-30T00:51:14Z")

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A guy gave me 40 bucks one time. Money exchanging hands hadn’t been part of the discussion before it happened. Another time a guy asked how much I would want for sex and was all set to start withdrawing funds. I turned him down.

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**Author:** ![friedo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/8edcca/32.png) [@friedo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/friedo)\
**Post date:** [August 30, 2009, 1:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-has-been-paid-for-sex/508168/10 "2009-08-30T01:01:34Z")

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> [@Hal\_Briston](#):
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> I was paid five bucks to kiss a girl once, back in my long hair, rock-star-swagger early 20’s.

Was she human?

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**Author:** ![appleciders](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/85f322/32.png) [@appleciders](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/appleciders)\
**Post date:** [August 30, 2009, 1:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-has-been-paid-for-sex/508168/11 "2009-08-30T01:05:05Z")

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> [@Jake\_Jones](#):
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> Nope. No intercourse, no cookie. Sorry, rules is rules.

See, I probably would have phrased that “No nookie, no cookie.” But that’s just me.

No, I never have.

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**Author:** ![Rigamarole](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/77aa72/32.png) [@Rigamarole](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rigamarole)\
**Post date:** [August 30, 2009, 1:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-has-been-paid-for-sex/508168/12 "2009-08-30T01:14:54Z")

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Every response so far from a male. Interesting.

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**Author:** ![Jake\_Jones](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/e0b2c6/32.png) [@Jake\_Jones](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jake_Jones)\
**Post date:** [August 30, 2009, 1:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-has-been-paid-for-sex/508168/13 "2009-08-30T01:19:51Z")

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> [@appleciders](#):
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> See, I probably would have phrased that “No nookie, no cookie.” But that’s just me.
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> No, I never have.

Everyone’s a Monday morning Quarterback.

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**Author:** ![Covered\_In\_Bees](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/7ab992/32.png) [@Covered\_In\_Bees](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Covered_In_Bees)\
**Post date:** [August 30, 2009, 1:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-has-been-paid-for-sex/508168/14 "2009-08-30T01:21:13Z")

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> [@Rigamarole](#):
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> Every response so far from a male. Interesting.

The girls are hiding something.

On Topic: No I haven’t been paid for intercourse or any sexual favors.

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**Author:** ![Jake\_Jones](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/e0b2c6/32.png) [@Jake\_Jones](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jake_Jones)\
**Post date:** [August 30, 2009, 1:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-has-been-paid-for-sex/508168/15 "2009-08-30T01:44:43Z")

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I’m very surprised that this thread has more responses than the “who here has paid for sex” thread.

I must be the only one. What a pervert! 😉

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**Author:** ![Covered\_In\_Bees](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/7ab992/32.png) [@Covered\_In\_Bees](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Covered_In_Bees)\
**Post date:** [August 30, 2009, 1:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-has-been-paid-for-sex/508168/16 "2009-08-30T01:51:58Z")

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> [@Jake\_Jones](#):
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> I’m very surprised that this thread has more responses than the “who here has paid for sex” thread.
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> I must be the only one. What a pervert! 😉

I think you’re in the wrong thread. Or a joke went over my head or something.

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**Author:** ![phouka](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/c5a1d2/32.png) [@phouka](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/phouka)\
**Post date:** [August 30, 2009, 1:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-has-been-paid-for-sex/508168/17 "2009-08-30T01:59:00Z")

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I’ve been told that my (former) virginity was worth much more than $200. I think if I hadn’t looked so horrified by the comment, he might have started bidding.

That’s all I’ve got.

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**Author:** ![Rigamarole](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/77aa72/32.png) [@Rigamarole](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rigamarole)\
**Post date:** [August 30, 2009, 2:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-has-been-paid-for-sex/508168/18 "2009-08-30T02:12:17Z")

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> [@phouka](#):
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> I’ve been told that my (former) virginity was worth much more than $200. I think if I hadn’t looked so horrified by the comment, he might have started bidding.

It’s been done. Girl put her virginity up for auction on eBay once. I think they canceled the auction, but I forget what the highest bid was at the time. Personally I thought it was pretty clever.

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**Author:** ![Jake\_Jones](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/e0b2c6/32.png) [@Jake\_Jones](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jake_Jones)\
**Post date:** [August 30, 2009, 2:16am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-has-been-paid-for-sex/508168/19 "2009-08-30T02:16:25Z")

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> [@Covered\_In\_Bees](#):
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> I think you’re in the wrong thread. Or a joke went over my head or something.

Pro tip: “Has paid for” and “Has been paid for” are two very different things. Pretty much polar opposites.

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**Author:** ![Carol\_Stream](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/c2a13f/32.png) [@Carol\_Stream](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Carol_Stream)\
**Post date:** [August 30, 2009, 2:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/who-here-has-been-paid-for-sex/508168/20 "2009-08-30T02:18:42Z")

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> [@Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](#):
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> My best friend and I were once paid $20 each to perform a striptease for a college freshman on her birthday (by her roommates). Does that count?

Has her eyesight recovered?

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